Easy Pussy, irrestistable?

[Savage Kitten]

I've wondered about this for some time now, and yes I'll admit that I may be a tad bit envious, but hell!! What is it about 'easy pussy' that attracts men like flies to manure?
For example: There are 2 women at my job, both are married, who fuck anybody and everybody.. and the men drool over them like there's no tomorrow. I am not being snotty but i think my looks and personality tops theirs 10 times over. So why is it that they got so many men hangin on the line while I have nobody?? I mean damn.. is that snatch made outta gold or what?

I'm not sayin that I want their leftovers.. but SOME attention would be nice.... do i have to be a total slut to be visible to men?

Viewpoints from both men and women are greatly appreciated!!

 

[MADDOG]

I can resist easy pussy with ease. I'd much prefer someone who I could share things with. Beauty is important too, but closeness even more so.

I think Easy pussy attracts men only because some men can't get it any other way. It can be hard to say no to the promise of sex, and I can see why guys go for it. But it says a lot about the type of guys who like it like that. They're just not monogomous or instinctively caring guys (Or at least, not in that stage of their life).

I'm afraid that if you want some attention like that, it's short skirt time baby! Nothing else has to change, but the best way to get ANY guys attention is so show a little skin.

Maybe if you answer this question, you'd better understand. If there was an erect penis sticking out of a hole in the wall, and you could do as you pleased with it, would you... Erm, use it to your advantage?!

MADDOG

 

[Savage Kitten]

ohhhhhhhhhh doggy!! ~

as far as on the job goes we are in uniform so we all dress the same, men and women.

and to answer your question: In my present state I would take FULL advantage of it. Now if i had a man and he was at my disposal whenever and how ever i needed him then i could most definitely pass up the easy prick. (hmmmm i think i am getting the jist of your question now... so i guess i am lookin for the attention from the wrong people in the wrong place huh?)

 

[Siren]

 

[Unclebill]

Circumstantial

For me, SK, a few years ago, I would have ignored any such offer. As things have deteriorated over recent history, I will no longer.

Not that I'm getting any offers, but I would at this point take full advantage of some, most or all offers should they be presented. In a good, healthy relationship, it would be a serious breach of trust but when there's no trust, there's nothing to breach or preserve.

So, yeah, at this juncture, it would be pretty near irresistible!

 

[Hullo_nurse]

MMMEEEEOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWW!! Here Kitty, kitty kitty!!

Easy pussy = No relationship
Easy pussy = No committment
Easy pussy = No guilt
Easy pussy = No respect (or very little)
Easy pussy = Share the snatch with whoever wants some

Savage Kitten : is this what you what to be? Is it what you want from a guy? There really is no "right" answer.

I think, that is, my opinion on this matter is, that everyone wants easy pussy (or cock) at one time or another in their life. Nothing wrong with that... as a matter of fact it can be DAMN good!!

So, is this "that time" in your life??? http://geocities.com/r337m0nk3y/ruinkai/ROLLEYEA.gif

 

[Weird Harold]

I'm not sayin that I want their leftovers.. but SOME attention would be nice.... do i have to be a total slut to be visible to men?

No, you do NOT have to be a total slut to be visible to men.

It's a good way to be visible to boys of any age, but men are attracted to class as much as they are to easy. That's really kind of a simplistic view, although there's some serious truth in there too.

If you want to have a fling with the kind of person who is attracted to easy pussy, then you need to dress and act like easy pussy.

I personally am not looking for easy, although if I encounter easy and aggressive, I'd probably succumb. <G>

What I'm looking for, is someone I can look at and talk to afterwards. I need something more than assistance masturbating.

The bait you use, determines what you catch.

 

[Thephantomprincess]

How easy is is easy?

Right now I may be considered easy pussy to the friend I'm currently having a bedroom relationship - he has a long distance girlfriend, I have a long distance love interest. We have a mutual agreement. But I'm not open to any other offers. So, what does that make me? Easy Pussy? Sure!

 

[Savage Kitten]

I can see the wisdom in everyones words. I supose men will be men.. (in most cases *wink*) and if something 'easy' is offered to them they will jump at the chance rather than put a little effort into something of higher standards.

a girl told me last night "If you choose to play the game, don't hate the player when you get played, stop playing the game." I bet 'easy pussy' gets played a lot by a lot of players....

 

[*Eve*]

Well sweetie, easy pussy is hard to resist for a lot of guys because it is just that, easy pussy and the fact that it's there for the taking is why it;s often taken. Just keep this in mind. Guys don't normally settle down with easy pussy. As my mom use to tell me, why would you want to buy a used Volkswagon, when you could get a brand new Benz.

 

[Gatorboy]

If I am in a relationship I pass on the easy pussy. It is easier to pass it up knowing that you have someone already waiting for you. Now if I am in a dry spell, (which I have been for the last 5 months), I would definitely go after the easy stuff just to feel the physical contact of someone else besides myself.

 

[Jonnyorgasmo]

This thread kind of makes me ashamed to be a guy. I think its very sad that beautiful, intelligent women sometimes feel envious of hoes. Well, I think that these tarts that Savage Kitten describes
are more worthy of sorrow than envy, I mean they aren't respected or loved but probably think they are. I really don't know what else to say. (Holding back the tears) I suppose the men in the office feel intimidated by a real woman and go for the trash that that they secretly see as being beneath them and just a cheap fuck.
I dunno.

 

[Siren]

 

[Lovely Latina]

Great post, Jonny O.

It saddens me as well when I see women who so flagrantly flaunt their "easy goods" because they have (or think they have) nothing else of value to use in attracting a male. And, yes...when I was younger and not as secure...I used to get jealous at the attention they were receiving. All the boys knew by "word of mouth" which girls would put out and which wouldn't. When I was in 8th grade, I actually TRIED to get a "reputation" (which was NOWHERE near deserved) of being an "experienced girl" and unfortunately ended up in situations that were very damaging to my young, developing self-esteem. You're right Jonny...these girls *think* they are being loved and respected (and that's their motivation for being so "accessible"), but they are really, in fact, just being used.

Now, as an adult, I find that it is the women who present themselves as intelligent, confident (this quality is key), having a good sense of humor and as being secure with who they are that appear most alluring to men. And sometimes these women may not even be the most PHYSICALLY attractive women in the world, but they exude a sexiness that men sometimes just can't put a finger on.

Actually...when you think about it...that dynamic appears on this board in some ways. We all don't know what everyone on this board looks like, but we feel certain "attractions" more toward some members than others based soley upon what we read. Then again...if you take away the words and just line up a bunch of pictures next to everyone's names, would those "attractions" change? Would they change again if you added the words back in?

"Easy pussy" is just that--EASY. And some guys are just LAZY. Harold said it best--"The bait you use, determines what you catch." He's right--"Quality begets quality."

Oh...one other thing.

I always hear about how men often feel intimidated by highly confident, beautiful women. Well men...little secret...*most* of these women often have NO FREAKIN' CLUE that that is the reason why you are not saying hello, approaching them for conversation, or asking them out. Seriously! They're thinking that you just don't have any interest whatsoever. They see all the "trailer pussy" (new term? lol) "suckin 'em in" and can't understand it all. The pretty and intelligent girls aren't always getting as much attention as you think they are. So go ahead and make that first step...you might be pleasantly surprised.

Savage...you are a bright, funny and attractive woman. Don't ever compromise yourself, hon.

LL

 

[ShyGuy68]

Easy pussy. Where??

I have only once in my life gotten the offer for easy pussy, and no I didn't accept it.

Now I'm a bit older, and I would rather go without, than accept an offer for it. I like to get to know the woman before I get involved in sex with her. Actually I'm in that stage of my life where a womans mind is much more of a turn on for me than her body. Of course I like a nice looking woman as well, but if she have a great personality, that can really can get to me!

But I do often think when I see a nice looking woman, how she would look without clothes on, but that's probably just being a man!


ShyGuy

 

[LongHardRocker]

My opinion on this matter is that most(not all) men will,
if given the chance, take up an offer of "Easy Pussy"!
It's sad to say this(being male myself) but unfortunately
in many cases it's true :-( Because, basically the rules
are women can fuck whom they choose, men will fuck whomever
will let them!

 

[Shannon]

I see nothing wrong with easy pussy. Some have called me easy. I just love sex. So if loving sex and doing it alot makes me easy or a slut then so be it.

 

[Thumper]

Why feel sorrow for these women? If that is what they want then more power to them....if the men and women go into it understanding where they stand then who are we to start labeling them?

For the most part single unattached men and some married men have very little say in whether or when they will have sex....so why not have a little fun when it is there. Reminds me of the old saying "Sex is like air.....ya don't think about it unless ya aren't getting any."

I really love it when some guy starts saying a girl is a "hoe" if he thinks she is a little too "active" or has had too many partners.....bet he would say "No baby that's not too many" if he was the next possible candidate...????

 

[Ghost]

You get what you pay for...

Hey SK, how many of those droolin' guys are married and have poor relationships?

Or, are you sure those folks aren't just braggin'?

What about GERMS? I hear some of them are deadly!

Seems to me that the '60's and 70's promise of free love had some folks (myself included) intrigued. But it seemed less complicated and dangerous then. Or maybe I was just younger.

These days, I like long lingering kisses and that look that only comes when someone is willing to let you peer into their soul. Seems that it would be hard to find that with easy sex.

 

[Thumper]

So why does every attraction have to be about finding that "soulmate"? Sometimes people just want to have sex....nothing more ...Sex is fun and if combined with a little common sense it is not the "Plague"...I grant that sex with someone you care deeply about is very rewarding...does that mean that every sexual encounter should strive for that??? I have had some absolutely fantastic sex with women who were just freinds...no illusions no pressures NO LABELS...just fun, satisfying, totally natural physical sex....I make no apologies....I am not intimidated by confident women....I love confident women. The needy ones I shy away from....and they are almost always the ones looking for a "Prince Charming" to rescue them..

Nuff said.....Hi ya LL

 

[Savage Kitten]

way cool!

wow... it really touches me, the responses I have recieved here. There are so many valid points.

Thanks Johnny O.. that was a sweet compliment and your sensitivity made my heart swell

LL.. woman... I respect you so much.. and as you said so well... its for your words and wisdom i have read here on the BB. I tell myself that I intimidate men.. but mostly that was to caress my bruised ego (haha). I like who and what I am. Sometimes I consider lowering my standards so I can 'catch' a guy but then I wonder if I would like and respect myself as much if I did. I am beginning to believe that if I retain my personality, my character, then one day I will meet a man who will match me, challenge me, and excite me in the perfect way (or near perfect.. the quest for perfection has never hurt anyone *wink*)

In the mean time, all this sound judgement is doin a damned thing for the continuous buzz I got going on between my legs!!

Ghost.. I am sure they are not just braggin.. I have seen them play 2 or 3 men at a time with my own eyes. Maybe its an ego thing with them... they are both still young (24 or 25) One is in a bad relationship and messes only with attached men. The other, just seperated from her hubby but was playin on the side the whole time.. and she is not picky whether they are single or married.

 

[Siren]

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I think it's been touched on pretty well...Men know that sex for women has much more to do with emotion. And if a man is just looking for sex, he is often looking for sex without al the emotional entanglements that come with it: "Will he call?" "Am I now your girldfriend?" "Does this dress make me look fat?" So, if an easy girl comes along and offers sex without the accompanying "baggage" of emotional investment, hell yes, sure, men will jump at that mre quickly than pursuing another woman who isn't quite as "easy".

Men DO grow up though. Usually a nano-second after orgasm, but more often after sewing a few oats.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I just realized that I'm now a "Literotica Guru". Is that a nickname for "One Who Has Posted WAY Too Much?" Hmmm. I have been cutting down lately. Any chance I can be a "Literotica Guy Standing In the Corner?"

 

[Savage Kitten]

Savage Kitten,

Just at thought...maybe the guys want 'easy pussy' over a 'savage kitten'....

You know how protective they are of the 'lil one'....

ROTFL GIRL!! I SWEAR.. I try to refrain from using my teeth and claws on the first date!!! hehehe