Eaing Sperm for the First Time

Don't know if it's been said or not, but maybe he should be discreet about when he cums and just do it without tipping you off to it happening. You get a nice surprise and can relax.

*shrugs*
 
verbenae99 said:
Don't know if it's been said or not, but maybe he should be discreet about when he cums and just do it without tipping you off to it happening. You get a nice surprise and can relax.

*shrugs*

Surprise! I'm shooting my cum down your throat! I'll tell my boyfriend to do that. Maybe that will help me with my swallowing problem.
 
Just jumping in here with a couple of observations...

Man is one of the very few animals that have sex simply for enjoyment, so it's pretty natural that we modify our sexual experiences in ways that do nothing to insure the continuance of our species. We're an intelligent species though,we post these things on Literotica, and we use our imagination in myriad ways to enhance the sexual experience. Bottom line: Whatever floats your boat. (or sinks it)

My wife never appreciated the taste of my semen, she didn't like for me to cum in her mouth at all.
I didn't force the issue, I believe it's entirely wrong to make someone, or coerce someone, to do something they find so distasteful.

But my wife left me.....

And my girlfriend loves the taste of semen, she likes for me to cum in her mouth and everywhere else, hell, she plays with the stuff. So....She got me curious and I tried a bit of my own, not exactly one of my favorite
tastes, but it's not about taste.
It's all about the excitement of it, taste or texture has little to do with it, it's the thrill of doing it!

And there is nothing "wrong" or "abnormal" about anything....As long as everyone is adult and consenting.
 
Here's a suggestion for you......

Why don't the BOTH of you swallow his cum for the first time? Snowballing can be sexy if you are into it. Let him cum in your mouth and then kiss him before you swallow it. While kissing him squirt some of it back into his mouth and then the both of your can enjoy it. If he won't swallow his own cum then why should he expect you to do it?

Go for it (but talk to him about it first)!

Good Luck!!!!
 
verbenae99 said:
Don't know if it's been said or not, but maybe he should be discreet about when he cums and just do it without tipping you off to it happening. You get a nice surprise and can relax.
I don't think that would be a very nice surprise for someone who's new to oral sex.
Zeitgeistica said:
If he won't swallow his own cum then why should he expect you to do it?
*nods*
 
kyra20001 said:
Hi all,

Sorry if this is a controversial first post but wanted some opinion/insight or suggestions.

Been with my SO for about 4 months now and the sex has been great. He really enjoys oral (well, I admit I do too :) ) but so far I have never been able to eat his sperm. He says it is fine and whenever I am ready but I seem to have this mental barrier to it. I mean I have tasted his pre-cum and do enjoy watching him cum but everytime I get close to letting him cum in my mouth I back out. Don't get me wrong, I feel I want to but just seem to not take that final step.

Would anyone care to relate how you got over this hurdle? How was it like the first time you tasted sperm?

Thanks all and Lit rocks !!!

Allowing a guy to ejaculate in your mouth when you are not ready for it emotionally or physically can be very traumatic. I can testify to that. I didn’t particularly enjoy the taste or the thought of having his cum in my mouth, but cum tastes different depending on the man. However, most men I’ve known find it very erotic to have their partner swallow, but my advice is if you really don’t feel comfortable with it, you shouldn’t do it.

I was originally reticent but after awhile I felt that I wanted to experience it. The trick for me I soon discovered was not to taste it at all. When a guy started to cum, my typical response was to try to pace it a bit by holding his cum in my mouth for a moment before swallowing but I found the taste unpleasant. Instead, I just start swallowing immediately and hard. If you can get the tip of his penis into the back of your mouth without having a gag reflect problem, the ejaculation will go completely down your throat without you tasting it at all. All that's left is a vague aftertaste, and even that is much weaker than if you had allowed his cum to stay in your mouth. I found that this technique of fast-swallowing actually felt better to a lot of guys, than if you had paced it normally.
 
My first time eating cum was from a creampie but my wife (and some of previous girlfriends) like to snowball me--and that's great with me. Not much is better that having my wife give me a great blowjob then come up and take my face in her hands and open my mouth and then let my cum drip out of her mouth into mine---she will do about half that way then kiss me a push the rest into my mouth as she tounge fucks me.

She now is getting in handjobs until I cum then feeding my cum to me from her fingers....
 
IMHO there's a technique to snowballing. I had fantasized about it for a while, and finally asked my wife if she'd do it. She agreed (with a warning that I can be bitter some times, bless her heart). My heart was racing the whole time she sucked on my cock. I was fantasizing about a sexy kiss, with lots of tongue, slowly erotically 'sharing' the cum between us.

That's not exactly what happened. My wife bent her face down to mine (I was on my back), and while I drew a slow, excited, eager breath in anticipation she proceeded to eagerly spit my cum into my mouth with considerable force (and there was a *lot* of it). I was a bit overwhelmed, not to mention squirming in a reflex from practically inhaling cum, while she proceeded to try to give me that passionate kiss I had been fantasizing about.

So the first time was a bit overwhelming, but nothing a bit of coaching couldn't fix. My advice is to make sure you're on the same page about how the fantasy is going to play out.
 
kyra20001 said:
Hi all,

Sorry if this is a controversial first post but wanted some opinion/insight or suggestions.

Been with my SO for about 4 months now and the sex has been great. He really enjoys oral (well, I admit I do too :) ) but so far I have never been able to eat his sperm. He says it is fine and whenever I am ready but I seem to have this mental barrier to it. I mean I have tasted his pre-cum and do enjoy watching him cum but everytime I get close to letting him cum in my mouth I back out. Don't get me wrong, I feel I want to but just seem to not take that final step.

Would anyone care to relate how you got over this hurdle? How was it like the first time you tasted sperm?

Thanks all and Lit rocks !!!


Well eat sperm is something I do mostly because it makes me horny and wet knowing the guy like to see me do it. I dont eat it because it tastes good.
At least I dont think so. :)

If you dont want to swallow you can always take it in your mout and spit it out later? Or something I find alot of guys enjoy is to see it drip out of the mouth of the girl for some reason. :)

Had a few guys realy get off from that.

Good luck!
 
The word is SEMEN, rather that SPERM....and CUM is the very GOOD feeling that ONE experiences as the SEMEN squirts out of the man's penis....
 
lemmesee said:
The word is SEMEN, rather that SPERM....and CUM is the very GOOD feeling that ONE experiences as the SEMEN squirts out of the man's penis....


:eek:

Are you alright dear?

I'm not a native English speaker but you are a bit confused here I think. Or are we getting 'decent' all of a sudden on a porn-based board? I will be the last one to tell you to watch a porn movie to actually learn something valuable from it, but in this case I might be tempted.....
 
Although the original post took place in 2003. As far as unable to eat/swallow his cum. Might I suggest some flavor to ease things. Foods are a plus in these areas.
My first time I wasn't to bad into swallowing but with all the begging I couldn't say "no" so low and behold on the coffee table was "Ms. Buttersworth Pancake Syrup" as I covered his shaft in Maple like I was eating Pancakes on a stick it definently helped ease things up. Though I might add don't plan on using Pancake syrup unless you intend to clean up or get a little help it can get stick down there..specially for guys who are hairy down their so be curtious to clean up the mess or just choose a less stickier substitute. Like chocolate, flavored lube.. just check the kitchen before hand. ;)
 
okay

when I swallowed my first time I prepared myself for it imagining I was about ready to eat my favorite food...
coconut cream pie
I focused on the thought that it was my FAVORITE food being prepared for me...thinking only of the taste and smell of that food...salivating over it...ready for it...and when my SO came

it tasted like PIE!!!

too cool!!!

That would be my advise...focus on you favorite food...imagine it, taste it and smell it in your mind. If your man isn't drinking liquor or smoking heavily a few days before you give him a blow job, his cum really won't taste bad at all so don't worry. Its really kind of yummy. It tastes a bit like a chardonnay wine to me.

If you're worried about choking/gagging, just work more towards the tip of his cock with your mouth when he's almost ready to cum (and use your hands at his base)...that way his juices will fall onto you tongue instead of hitting your gag reflex in the back of your throat.

It works for me.

Also for anyone curious cock loving techniques...HBO realsex had an episode about blowjob techniques. I can't remember what episode...but its worth looking into. I learned some new tricks too. :nana:
 
From a mans point of view, who has a wife who is excited about me tasting my own cum. After he cums from a partial BJ or hand job, lick and taste it slowly. That way you don't have to deal with a full mouthfull all at once.
 
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