Eaing Sperm for the First Time

[kyra20001]

Hi all,

Sorry if this is a controversial first post but wanted some opinion/insight or suggestions.

Been with my SO for about 4 months now and the sex has been great. He really enjoys oral (well, I admit I do too ) but so far I have never been able to eat his sperm. He says it is fine and whenever I am ready but I seem to have this mental barrier to it. I mean I have tasted his pre-cum and do enjoy watching him cum but everytime I get close to letting him cum in my mouth I back out. Don't get me wrong, I feel I want to but just seem to not take that final step.

Would anyone care to relate how you got over this hurdle? How was it like the first time you tasted sperm?

Thanks all and Lit rocks !!!

 

[cg_allstar]

I know exactly where you're coming from. I was the same way about tasting my own cum. My advice is to be like Nike and just do it.

 

[English Lady]

I think you just have to relax and do it.....don't make such a big thing out of it. I am pretty sure boyfriend is happy to get head even if you don't swallow his cum afterwards!


What is it that you're anxious about? the taste? the force it shoots out with?

Well i've done a fair bit of swallowing and i've never felt like i was going to choke or anything....just let it flow down and swallow normally and the taste varies...sometimes it is quite bitter..but you can always get a drink of something afterwards


Hope there was something helpful in there for ya!

 

[Ylvie]

I don't know if here you mean swallow all of it or just have him cum in your mouth. In my experience those are different things. I suck my b/f until he has the orgasm while inside my mouth, but instead of swallowing I just open my mouth which makes it run down his dick instead. Did you try this, or did you back out long before (as you said you've only tasted precum).

 

[ldlarry52]

Kyra,

I enjoy my wife's BJ and I enjoy fucking her mouth till I cum in it. Most guys do enjoy this. I think the advice given about relaxing and just do it is well given.

Cum does vary in taste. I have tasted my own and pre-cum is definately better tasting. However, just because a guy cums in your mouth doen't mean you have to savoiur it or swallow. My wife holds it in her mouth goes to the sink and spits.

Ok, I would rather she swallow, but I'll take spit over no oral or cuming in her mouth.

Just resolve to see it to the end next time. Ylvie, suggests a very sexy way of doing it. As he cums let it spill out of your mouth down is cock. I have had this done and have seen it in porn's and it is very sexy.

Have fun. LDLarry52

 

[BedBunny]

It's nutritious and delicious. Try it - you'll like it.

 

[BlueSugar]

Have you tried licking/kissing it off of him when he does cum all over himself? get a little on your lips and lick your lips, or just take a little test lick. Start slow.

IF you don't like it, try when he comes to swallow constantly, this way you'll barely ever taste it. And have a glass of soda etc.. next to the bed instead of running to the sink

 

[DuckLover]

Have you tried licking/kissing it off of him when he does cum all over himself? get a little on your lips and lick your lips, or just take a little test lick. Start slow.

IF you don't like it, try when he comes to swallow constantly, this way you'll barely ever taste it. And have a glass of soda etc.. next to the bed instead of running to the sink

Great advice BlueSugar! Get used to the taste of it before you get a mouthful. It can be very erotic to watch my gf slowly swirl her finger in the puddle of cum on my chest and stomach and then suck her finger clean, as though it were coated in chocolate. (Or like it was my cock.)

Some tips for having him cum in your mouth are to keep his head in the back of your mouth so the semen goes straight down your throat and not across your taste buds. Some women like to aim the shot at the roof of the mouth to help reduce the shock and gag reflex. Many like to suck on a mint or cough drop for flavor.

And above all, believe your bf when he says it's ok if you don't let him cum in your mouth. Yes, he'd probably love it, but that doesn't mean he expects you to do so. Oral sex is amazing and feels great whether you cum or not, and remember that many guys don't cum from oral alone!

 

[webber1998]

Have you tried licking/kissing it off of him when he does cum all over himself? get a little on your lips and lick your lips, or just take a little test lick. Start slow.

IF you don't like it, try when he comes to swallow constantly, this way you'll barely ever taste it. And have a glass of soda etc.. next to the bed instead of running to the sink

Good advice I think. If you really want to do this and the only hurdle to taking his cum in your mouth is your mind just try little tastes. Use your fingers if you like to catch just a little taste. Let him cum and clean it up with towel/etc, then take him in your mouth and get that little left over as you suck on him.

Also glad to hear that he says it is OK ... !!!

Good luck.

 

[College_geek]

You're not alone, is what I have to say. I'm scared of it too. I have done oral to climax on my guy yet, but even just licking it off my hand is scary for me. I'm not really sure why I'm scared. I almost have a few times, but I don't. I guess I'm just weird.

 

[N8Dreams]

simply: do it. Try it out. Dont be shy

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

The first time I swallowed? Hhmmm......wasn't really expecting it, it was kinda "thrust" upon me. Seriously, I guess I'd never thought about it beforehand, "it" was there, so I swallowed.

The best advice is probably to just do it. Once his cock stops twitching, pull off of it, and swallow. If his cock is pretty far in your mouth when he cums, you won't even taste it. Don't think of it as "eating a million little tadpoles"......think of it as "eating the climax of something YOU brought forth with your skill".

One thing on licking it off your hand, his chest, etc......cooled cum does taste rather nasty, so fresh and warm is the way to go.

Sounds like you've got a very understanding boyfriend there. Good luck!

 

[Enodia]

I got to taste my b/f's cum for the first time last night. Mmmmmmm--salty. It was very nice. (and eased my cough...LOL). Much better than my ex's.

As everyone said, just do it, and you'll then know if you like it or not.

 

[Tease_Not]

The first time I gave a guy head I swalloed, didn't think to much of it. Some say it is an aquired tase. I haveno problem swallowing. It's something i happen to enjoy the tase of. Just try to take it when he cums in your mouth, then you can try working up to swallowing.

Best of luck!

 

[BlueSugar]

"......think of it as "eating the climax of something YOU brought forth with your skill".

THAT is the idea that gets me all the time, that is the reason I think I get more out of giving him oral then he does, that is what makes me want him so badly ...

I made him into a panting, sweaty, relaxed, horny mess.... I turned him to jello... I made him cum!
Its a triumph every time lol even though I've :: coughs, trying not to brag:: got skill.

Having a good mind frame is also part of it I just realized after seeing that line. Try not to think "aaaah.. its moving... hes close... ew... ok... brace myself... abandon ship!!!"

try and think "hehe... look what I can do !!" "look what I did..." "you feel this pleasure because of ME!"

and... you can even tease him the best with this mind frame.... get him really close and slow down or back off completly ... letting him know who really is in control... but beware of payback

 

[kyra20001]

Thanks all for the replies and advice/suggestions so far.

For me sex was not a happy event in the past cos the person I was with at that time (my first) was shall we say personality defective. Yes, I know, it was my choice and I am not complaining. He started out ok but things went belly-up after he "claimed the summit" as he likes to put it.

My introduction to oral sex was having his penis pushed into my mouth. It was not fun. He got pretty upset that I started gagging and said some things that were unkind. Made me feel I had wasted a privilage he was giving me.

My SO is so different. I feel loved. I feel cared for. I feel a part of his life. Most importantly, I feel respected. The first time he kissed me he asked for my permission. He did have one hang up about his physical attributes as he does not consider himself "big" (about 4-5 inches errect I think) and was embarrased the first time we went beyond kissing. I have reassured him that for me now, making love is about intimacy and feelings and not just sex. He still tries not to leave the lights on and covers himself up after but hopefully he will feel more self-confident wiith time.

I never want to make him feel rejected or uncared for and that is why I want to swallow him to complete the act as it is something I cannot imagine doing with anyone else and in my mind is probably one of the most intimate and trusting things to do.

On a side note I mentioned his size earlier, well, for the guys out there who think they are in the same position, it's who you are and how you use your gifts that counts. At least for me it is cos I have never, not once been left unfulfilled

 

[highguage]

It is not the size of the dick that does the trick, but the size of the nob that does the job

 

[lovechild27]

I read "eating sperm" and I got this visual of someone sitting down to a nice bowl of gizz...ready to go with a spoon in it.

You have to not fear the sperm! If your guy isnt a smoker, heavy drinker and takes resonably good care of himself it doesnt taste bad. I dont think it tastes like much at all. If your really nervouse get his cock back in your throat when he comes. Totaly misses your taste buds and tounge...its like you didnt even know he came!

 

[A7inchPhildo]

sperm
Noun 1. sperm - the male reproductive cell; the male gamete; "a sperm is mostly a nucleus surrounded by little other cellular material"
sperm cell, spermatozoan, spermatozoon
flagellum - a lash-like appendage used for locomotion (e.g., in sperm cells and some bacteria and protozoa)
cum, ejaculate, semen, seminal fluid, seed - the thick white fluid containing spermatozoa that is ejaculated by the male genital tract
gamete - a mature sexual reproductive cell having a single set of unpaired chromosomes
acrosome - a process at the anterior end of a sperm cell that produces enzymes to facilitate penetration of the egg
male reproductive system - the reproductive system of males


Yea, what ever you do don't think of pollywogs swimming in groups. That would not be a good thought as you swallow!

I am not being much help am I? (Never understood why my wife didn't like to swallow.)

 

[BlueSugar]

I read "eating sperm" and I got this visual of someone sitting down to a nice bowl of gizz...ready to go with a spoon in it.

that is the first thing I thought actually, but didn't want to say anything. haha.

 

[complicity]

Thanks all for the replies and advice/suggestions so far.

For me sex was not a happy event in the past cos the person I was with at that time (my first) was shall we say personality defective. Yes, I know, it was my choice and I am not complaining. He started out ok but things went belly-up after he "claimed the summit" as he likes to put it.

My introduction to oral sex was having his penis pushed into my mouth. It was not fun. He got pretty upset that I started gagging and said some things that were unkind. Made me feel I had wasted a privilage he was giving me...........................

Sound like you have a very loving and fulfilled relationship.
My lady had a simular experience in her early/mid teens, and it has left a shadow with her too in a simular way. Sometimes she's not into oral, on other occasions she's insatiable! But I have never cum in her mouth. On one occasion during oral, I said if she didn't ease up I would be cumming in her mouth. She was so horny that she replied that she didn't care! To this day I don't know if I did the right thing or not, but I pulled out and kissed her on the lips, and gently said "not tonight". Even though she told me to cum in the heat of the moment, I know that she still had a major problem with it, and I couldn't go ahead. Not untill she's ready.

What I'm trying to demonstrate is what other people have said, take your time, enjoy, don't rush it. When you're ready you'll BOTH know. You sound like you have a good realationship with your BF, he won't mind the wait.

 

[kyra20001]

I read "eating sperm" and I got this visual of someone sitting down to a nice bowl of gizz...ready to go with a spoon in it.

Hehe, sorry, my mistake, I admit I am a little new to writing about sexual matters. So please forgive me. Will try not to make it sound so clinical next time.

 

[N8Dreams]

It is not the size of the dick that does the trick, but the size of the nob that does the job

Disclosing some female secrets:
Sadly I disagree.
Its the technique. Size doesnt matter in most women. (I love big diameters)
Its the friction to the clit.

 

[BlueSugar]

I read "eating sperm" and I got this visual of someone sitting down to a nice bowl of gizz...ready to go with a spoon in it.

Hehe, sorry, my mistake, I admit I am a little new to writing about sexual matters. So please forgive me. Will try not to make it sound so clinical next time.

aww, no worries I read the post pretty late at night so thats why I thought it hehe.

N8Dreams
Disclosing some female secrets:
Sadly I disagree.
Its the technique. Size doesnt matter in most women. (I love big diameters)
Its the friction to the clit.

Everyone is different... so be minfull of that when giving out "female secrets." To each their own, ya know

 

[DevilishTexan]

The proper and best way to eat sperm is with a bit of parsley for a lovely garnish, a tad of hot mustard for any bitter aftertaste and a finger bowl to clean up any excess. There ya go, Martha's own tips for eating sperm Bon appetit'