During sex, my boyfriend...

achesonkatie

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Gets really turned on by telling me that “I want to have his babies,” or hearing me tell him that I want him to give me his babies.

What is that about?
 
Not uncommon. (IMHO) ... a fertility thing ..his prowess in ‘sowing his seed’
 
Not uncommon. (IMHO) ... a fertility thing ..his prowess in ‘sowing his seed’

This, exactly this. He's role playing. It's his kink. We all have them in one form or another. It's harmless unless he starts messing with your birth control methods.
 
If it disturbs you - just tell him. Otherwise - just play along.

It's not really about him telling you that he wants to have a baby NOW. So don't overthink it. It's just something that turns him on, a thought that gets him excited. Think of it as his lizard brain just getting off on thinking about sex as a process of recreation.

People are weird. For example, one of the hottest thoughts for me, when I fuck a lady, is that she's in my control and all that she needs to do for the next half an hour is just lie there and experience pleasure. It's a rather technical thought, and I don't voice it. It's strange but it just turns me on, thinking that way.

Your boyfriend likes the thought of you getting pregnant. Nothing bad about it.

But again, if it disturbs you - you should discuss this.:cattail:
 
Gets really turned on by telling me that “I want to have his babies,” or hearing me tell him that I want him to give me his babies.

What is that about?

Ego Strokes
  1. He's the best there is (genetic material).
  2. You want to stay long term (to help raise them).
  3. You are willing to suffer for him (preggers isn't always fun, labor is hard).
  4. He's giving you ultimate sex, beyond orgasms (from Mother Nature's view).
 
prolly

The concept he mentions is likely a fantasy that gets his libido cranked up even higher. Humans are wired in different ways and what turns his heat up may not do the same for you and vice versa. It probably is not all that meaningful and in a moment without passion he might not feel the same.
 
Some men are that way. That would turn me off though.
 
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