DriveSouth
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Oh yes yes, I am welcome, thanks.
Now, how is Angel feeling?
Now, how is Angel feeling?
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DriveSouth
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Just trying to do my part to maintain peace and harmony here among us literoticans.
DriveSouth
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Nah!
Let's shoot for something a little more ... shall we say flattering?
Let's shoot for something a little more ... shall we say flattering?
DriveSouth
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Nah
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OK, I will, email me some more peersonal info about yourself and I'll help you out with the name thing ...
livin_simple
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Angel - sounds like you're not going to do anything stupid. BUT, it doesn't hurt to say it again. This is a time when you can easily get into a situation that you'll regret. Be Very Careful.
The anger is ok. Might be good therapy to throw his stuff out the window - you know, letting him know you're supporting his decision.
Rent a few movies, get some wine (beware, drinking exaggerates the depressed emotions), lock the door, turn off the phone......Nah, better not do this alone. Have over a safe friend.
Oh well, just my thoughts. Be Careful. Don't do something that will screw up your life. Things Will Get Better With Time. You will get a better perspective on the entire situation. The potential for hurt is the danger of relationships, but well worth the price.
The anger is ok. Might be good therapy to throw his stuff out the window - you know, letting him know you're supporting his decision.
Rent a few movies, get some wine (beware, drinking exaggerates the depressed emotions), lock the door, turn off the phone......Nah, better not do this alone. Have over a safe friend.
Oh well, just my thoughts. Be Careful. Don't do something that will screw up your life. Things Will Get Better With Time. You will get a better perspective on the entire situation. The potential for hurt is the danger of relationships, but well worth the price.
Angel
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I decided to not go clubbing. I HATE going clubbing so why bother now.
No no no. I will buy a case of beer, get drunk and make long distance phone calls off my computer. Maybe I'll run up a bill buying cool stuff on the internet. That's always fun.
No no no. I will buy a case of beer, get drunk and make long distance phone calls off my computer. Maybe I'll run up a bill buying cool stuff on the internet. That's always fun.
CreamyLady
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My best friend celebrates the end of a relationship by cleaning. She works out a great deal of frustrated anger by cleaning all of the closets, scrubbing, and washing windows.
Personally, my method is to curl up with some Marx Brothers movies and some New York Superfudge or hyperchocolate ice cream. It saves a lot of wear and tear on the windows.
HUGS.
Personally, my method is to curl up with some Marx Brothers movies and some New York Superfudge or hyperchocolate ice cream. It saves a lot of wear and tear on the windows.
HUGS.
CreamyLady
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Are you going to replace some of the fixtures with something outrageous, like golden dolphins or cherubs? 
CreamyLady
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I love mine. Sometimes MUCH better than a man, and lots more reliable, too -- it doesn't go wandering away from the necessary spot on a whim.
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I hope your angst ends as quickly as possible.
I have vast experience in being the dumpee, as I have never been the dumper, even when the dumping was clearly both my idea and in my best interest. I always manipulated the situation so that I ended up being dumped. I can never bring myself to overtly hurt someone's feelings.
That being said, I, retrospectively, offer you this:
Every relationship I ever had, and all pain both caused and received, helped me to grow into the person I am today, and helped me prepare myself for being a better partner and friend when "the right one" came along.
In hindsight, sure, there are moments when I was distraught or hurt so badly I thought the pain would never end. However, when you come out the other side, you are unavoidably a better person for the experience, whether it's via a lesson learned, a loser lost, a thickened hide, or possessing the knowledge of what mistakes you've made and will not make again.
On the rare occasions that my wife feels some jealously towards a past love of mine, I always point out that the person she loves and that loves her exists only because of those past experiences, and as such we ought to both remember them fondly.
Please feel better as quickly as possible. This experience is just part of what will prepare you for the love of your life.
I have vast experience in being the dumpee, as I have never been the dumper, even when the dumping was clearly both my idea and in my best interest. I always manipulated the situation so that I ended up being dumped. I can never bring myself to overtly hurt someone's feelings.
That being said, I, retrospectively, offer you this:
Every relationship I ever had, and all pain both caused and received, helped me to grow into the person I am today, and helped me prepare myself for being a better partner and friend when "the right one" came along.
In hindsight, sure, there are moments when I was distraught or hurt so badly I thought the pain would never end. However, when you come out the other side, you are unavoidably a better person for the experience, whether it's via a lesson learned, a loser lost, a thickened hide, or possessing the knowledge of what mistakes you've made and will not make again.
On the rare occasions that my wife feels some jealously towards a past love of mine, I always point out that the person she loves and that loves her exists only because of those past experiences, and as such we ought to both remember them fondly.
Please feel better as quickly as possible. This experience is just part of what will prepare you for the love of your life.
