Drunkeness

[YaoiHuntressE]

I'm writting a story and the jist is that there is a scene I want to do where two of the characters get drunk and end up having sex. The thing is that I hate the taste of alcholic beverages so I can't write from experience and I want the scene to be realistic.

I was wondering on how to do this as well as how being drunk affects sexual performance. Not to mention what is it about being drunk that makes some people do some of the stupid things they may regret in the morning. Thanks in advance.

 

[SweetErika]

Alcohol affects everyone differently, and the effects are highly dependent on how much, quickly the person drinks and their tolerance.

Basically though, it lowers inhibitions. People might be more honest, express emotions, laugh, cry, say things they normally wouldn't, be attracted to people they usually wouldn't go for, feel more horny, etc., while under the influence. It feels different with the amount I drink, and I seem to go through stages as I drink more, like:
-Warm/relaxed
-Very happy
-Affectionate and horny
-Carefree
-Tired
-Sleep or Pass out

As I said, the right amount of alcohol makes me more relaxed, aroused and sexual in general. I'm able to orgasm more easily because I'm not as uptight or easily distracted MENTALLY, but it does decrease sensation somewhat (or a lot with lots of alcohol).

The right amount does something similar for my husband, but he lasts longer. Way too much and he has trouble coming, and sometimes can't get or stay hard (though this is rare and it takes a lot).

Too much for either of us, and sex isn't appealing.

You should be able to find lots of info via Google, too, and it be most helpful if you ask more specific questions, IMO. Are there certain aspects you're having more trouble with?

 

[Weird Harold]

I'm writting a story and the jist is that there is a scene I want to do where two of the characters get drunk and end up having sex. The thing is that I hate the taste of alcholic beverages so I can't write from experience and I want the scene to be realistic.

I was wondering on how to do this as well as how being drunk affects sexual performance. Not to mention what is it about being drunk that makes some people do some of the stupid things they may regret in the morning. Thanks in advance.

The only thing I can suggest is to hold your breath until things start to get blurry and you're close to passing out -- the physical sensations of hypoxia are fairly close to drunkenness.

Alcohol is a depressent and it starts by depressing neurological functions -- things like logic and rational thinking get harder and harder to do as the alcohol inhibits the function of neurons.

Or in simpler terms, Erika is absolutely correct that it "suppresses inhibitions" -- to be inhibited, you have to be able to think about consequences.

 

[Seamus123]

Perhaps include a couple of false starts with the guy.. sexual performance can be much more difficult when there's been some alcohol involved

 

[Carnevil9]

In my experience, a little alcohol makes the sex better: lowered inhibitions, elevated mood. But with a lot of alcohol, the sex gets worse: women get dry, men get limp, and both tend to throw up and pass out.

Best to stop after the second martini and head for the boudoir....Carney

 

[ickle_stace]

dn't know about anyone else, but a few glasses of wine usually makes me really horny it doesn't happen much with other alcohol though, just wine

 

[wehstar]

After drinking I often find myself going back to basics, probably because of "higher" brain function being reduced. Priorities involve eating and fucking. The right amount has been known to reduce sensitivity and therefore prolonged performance.

 

[YaoiHuntressE]

Thanks for the help everyone.

SweetErika: I have yet to get to the drunken sex scene and it'll probably be a while.
Weird Harold: *chuckles* Maybe I'll have to try that.
Seamus123: I'm guessing false start means you're about to cum, but it doesn't happen.

 

[Seamus123]

That could happen, but by 'false start' I meant you can barely get it up in the first place =P but like someone else said, that's if you've drunk a lot. A little alcohol just makes me hornier, generally.

 

[M's girl]

Alcohol does not make me hornier, although it can make me more open. I'm afraid these two 'feelings' are mixed up by people sometimes. Since I'm not a shy person where sex is concerned I can honestly say I need no alcohol whatsoever to have better or more sex. Sometimes it does enhance my mood, mostly possitively, and I get more physical than I would be otherwise before we start sex. I have found that later, in bed, it often dulls my feelings somewhat so I do prefer sex when sober.

I also found that alcohol has almost no effect whatsoever on M's ability to perform (well, up to a certain extend of course). He can drink quite a bit before he can't get it up anymore (which I have never experienced I must say). And he can finish the job too

 

[Arafura]

Alcohol definitely makes a lot of people hornier, but I'd echo the "too much is a bad thing", especially where sex is concerned. Tipsy-mildly drunk lowers inhibitions, stretching some people's sexual boundaries a degree or simply making them more comfortable asking for or doing something they want anyway.

Being hammered seems to make it very difficult for guys to reach the finish line, whether it's a case of the flopsies or just unable to get there.

 

[nymphony]

A little alcohol makes me feel happier, more creative, and more enthusiastic. Sometime friendlier as well, but not always. Certainly more relaxed, less on my guard. Too much makes me sleepy. But if I'm already in a morose mood when I drink, it can increase the bad feelings.

 

[YaoiHuntressE]

This brings up one more question: how does alcohol effect your memory? How often do you remember what you did while you were drunk?