don't you think this is kinda creepy?

[Ms_Lilith]

Yesterday, I worked all day, and then honey and I went to a friend's house. Let's call that friend Jim. It was Jim's and his daughter's birthday, so we all went nuts running around after kids, feeding them, setting up movies and games for them, and then putting them to bed, before Jim's portion of the party started (read: beer and a Canuck's game). Anyway, I was really tired, so I went into another room and crashed out on the couch. Jim has a brother named 'bob'. Bob is married. He was watching the hockey game. (bob also used to work with my bf, and they are relatively good friends.)


(here comes the creepy part)... so I'm laying on this couch, completely asleep, and allofasudden, I feel this... touching.. on my lips... and then I realize someone is running his fingers over my lips verrrrry gently. I wake up, and Bob jumps back.. I ask him what he was doing, and he stutters "I was touching your nose"... and he held to that story.. but I know he was touching my lips.

I'm sorta creeped by that. I think I have a right to be creeped by that. And I'm angry about it.

What was he thinking?!

*shiver*

 

[Cerberus666]

sounds like bobby and honey need to have a talk.

 

[Devilish1]

Hummm... that is creepy.



Well, i think he was up to no good and thought if you was asleep he could get away with something.

Did you tell your honey about this yet?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

yeah, but honey thinks nothing of it! He thinks bob would never do anything like that to hurt me, he thinks Im' reading too much into it...

but it makes me feel yucky, it makes me feel insecure about hanging out with him...

 

[Cerberus666]

well the important part is how it made you feel. If it made you feel uncomfortable Bobby needs to be made aware that he should keep his creepiness to himself.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

well the important part is how it made you feel. If it made you feel uncomfortable Bobby needs to be made aware that he should keep his creepiness to himself.

oh yeah, did I mention his wife used to be my supervisor at work, and that we're good friends? Just a WEIRD situation...

 

[BoobsNBrains]

If this isn't someone you have contact with on a regular basis, don't sweat it. Just don't put yourself in the situation again...that IS creepy, and I'd make sure to tell Bob to keep the hell away from my face if I were you.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

that is creepy, someone should lay the smackdown

 

[lost]

yeah, but honey thinks nothing of it! He thinks bob would never do anything like that to hurt me, he thinks Im' reading too much into it...

but it makes me feel yucky, it makes me feel insecure about hanging out with him...

Go with your gut hon, it's usually right.

 

[Never]

No, I don't think it was all that creepy.

 

[Devilish1]

I agree with Lost, got with your gut feeling.

I would just talk to "bob' and tell him if he ever comes near you again you will make a big scene about it and everyone including his wife will knwo what he did.

I dont believe hewas just touching your nose. Why would he be touching your nose if your asleep??
Was his wife at the party too?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

she was there, but not in that particular room. I was sleeping in an empty, kinda secluded room.

And he WASN"T touching my nose! He was touching my lips, running a finger over them softly.

 

[Lancecastor]

Don Cherry

Well, remember, we're talking about the Canucks game....it was pretty fuckin' dull.

Touching your lips would have been way more interesting.

"Two minutes for Intentional GF Interference."

Send this to Don Cherry....he'll know what to do.

 

[alexandraaah]

And he WASN"T touching my nose! He was touching my lips, running a finger over them softly.

I think it'd be creepy even if he was touching your nose.

In fact, it might be creepier.

Why would he be touching your nose?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

from what I saw of the game after I couldn't fall back asleep, it was a good game...

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I think it'd be creepy even if he was touching your nose.

In fact, it might be creepier.

Why would he be touching your nose?

The hell I know! I'm just so weirded out! And I couldn't go back to sleep! I didn't want him coming back!

 

[Jim_Henson]

He's got so much to go for too, why the face?

 

[Lancecastor]

Extra Creepy Thought.....

from what I saw of the game after I couldn't fall back asleep, it was a good game...

It was NOT!

Here's an Extra Creepy Thought......maybe he was wiping his man-juice off your face.....

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Re: Extra Creepy Thought.....

It was NOT!

Here's an Extra Creepy Thought......maybe he was wiping his man-juice off your face.....

And thank you for adding disgustingness to my thread. Oh so incredibly helpful you are.

 

[SpiceCake]

You feel violated and the fact that your bf thinks you are making too much of it is not a good sign.

My (ex)husband's best friend made a move on me one night when we were all out together. We had gone to dinner and then to a club to dance. Everyone was out on the dance floor except the two of us. He leaned over and kissed my ear and asked me if I wanted to meet up with him in private to fuck. I said no and went to the restroom and stayed there till the song was over. I pleaded with my spouse to stay at the table with me. Then, when everyone was out on the dance floor I told him what happened and he said, "You are such a victim!" That wasn't the first nor the last time that happened. I never felt like I was safe and I never felt like my spouse would be there if I needed help. No wonder we are divorced now.

Tell Bob to NEVER do it again or you WILL tell his wife!

 

[Bob Waters]

Creepy. No question.

If your BF won't do anything about it, you need to sit back and re-assess your BF.

 

[Lust Engine]

Creepy yes. If he insists on sticking to his story then fine, but I agree in trusting your gut. Just don't ever even give him the chance to get near you again in that way. You have that control over your own vulnerability. Protect yourself because that's what your gut's probably telling you to do.

 

[LordLucan74]

Creepy. No question.

If your BF won't do anything about it, you need to sit back and re-assess your BF.

Or begin planning for that threesome.... You can even explore the whole double penetration thing. Very sexy!!!

 

[dreamer]

Vix,

I'm not sure about all you crazy Canadians...hehe...but in MY world that guy'd be in for an ass whoopin'.

If you bf isn't interested in laying down the law re: touching his sleeping girlfriend then I'd say you need to make it clear you won't be socializing anywhere this freak will be.

I've seen too many creepy guys (read: sick fucks) get away with FAR worse to have anything but a no tolerance policy when it comes to things like this.

Take care of yourself sweetie.

 

[peachykeen]

Very definitely creepy.