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[BiBunny]

Ok, for everyone who wants to say "I told you so," here's the thread for you.

I'm done with the bastard. He's marrying the bitch. Didn't even have the balls to tell me--I found it on MySpace. Talked to him earlier; everything was fine. Called him when I found out. He didn't even have anything to say for himself. I've cried so much I've made myself sick to my stomach.

I'm done. So go ahead with the "I told you sos." I know there are people who've been wanting to pounce on this opportunity for a long time. I deserve it, anyway. I'd hoped it'd never happen, but I knew in the back of my mind that it would. And I loved the motherfucker, anyway.

I'm leaving Lit. Too many memories here; I can't deal with them. I've already closed my CollarMe and Bondage accounts. I'm leaving the lifestyle for awhile, probably forever. I can't even come close to putting into words how I feel right now. Not trying to be dramatic or anything, but yeah. I'm gone. Thank you to all the friends I've made.

 

[graceanne]

Ok, for everyone who wants to say "I told you so," here's the thread for you.

I'm done with the bastard. He's marrying the bitch. Didn't even have the balls to tell me--I found it on MySpace. Talked to him earlier; everything was fine. Called him when I found out. He didn't even have anything to say for himself. I've cried so much I've made myself sick to my stomach.

I'm done. So go ahead with the "I told you sos." I know there are people who've been wanting to pounce on this opportunity for a long time. I deserve it, anyway. I'd hoped it'd never happen, but I knew in the back of my mind that it would. And I loved the motherfucker, anyway.

I'm leaving Lit. Too many memories here; I can't deal with them. I've already closed my CollarMe and Bondage accounts. I'm leaving the lifestyle for awhile, probably forever. I can't even come close to putting into words how I feel right now. Not trying to be dramatic or anything, but yeah. I'm gone. Thank you to all the friends I've made.

Shit. I'm so sorry. *hugs* And if anyone says 'i told you so' I'll clobber them.

I sincerly hope that after some of the hurt eases that you return, as I'll miss you and your posts a lot if you don't. Actually I really hope you change your mind and don't go, but I can understand why you want to.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

what a fucker!!!

I am sorry to hear that BiBunny.......
as i say "Men are like toilet room's: It's or taken or full of shits!!!"

Hope you will get over this soon girlie {{{{{{{*HUGS*}}}}}}}

 

[JupitersGirl]

Heartfelt hugs to you, BB!!!

I lurk more than post and haven't had a chance to do much of either lately, so I don't know anything about your situation. What I do know is that I have very much enjoyed your posts and I hope that, if you feel the need to spend some time away, that time is short and that you return quickly to fill the empty space that will be left by your hiatus.

I know you are hurting now, but it sounds like the "bitch" is getting the raw end of the deal. Pamper yourself. You are lovely and vibrant and you will be missed.

 

[incubus'_sub]

Hell.

I don't post much either, but I have read most of your posts & I'm so sorry.

Go cuddle your horses, works for me (we have Paints).

Don't be away too long, we're fond of you.

 

[sexycaz22]

Hi,

I am so sorry to hear about your heartache, and like others, that after a short time away, I hope we will see you back with your posts; I will miss them.

{{{{HUGS}}}}

(And true and good friends don't ever say "I told you so" so I won't say it here either! And like graceanne, if anyone says so, I will beat them to hell...and I am not a Domme!!)

Take care,

Caz

 

[graceanne]

and I am not a Domme!!)

neither am I

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm sorry you are in such pain, and I don't think anyone will say 'I told you so'. Truth is I don't think any of us can claim to never have been where you are at some point, made a bad decision, or done things we knew would come back to bite us...it is part of the learning process of life unfortunately. In the end you survive, you heal, and you begin to realise the path ahead is far better, and more exciting than the one behind, as difficult as it may seem right now. I hope you change your mind about leaving Lit as you have a lot of friends here, and a lot of people who care about you...not to mention the place would not be the same without you around. Take back your power and don't let his behaviour rule your life, choices and destiny...it will only hurt you and you have already been hurt enough.

Catalina

 

[intothewoods]

Ok, for everyone who wants to say "I told you so," here's the thread for you.

I'm done with the bastard. He's marrying the bitch. Didn't even have the balls to tell me--I found it on MySpace. Talked to him earlier; everything was fine. Called him when I found out. He didn't even have anything to say for himself. I've cried so much I've made myself sick to my stomach.

I'm done. So go ahead with the "I told you sos." I know there are people who've been wanting to pounce on this opportunity for a long time. I deserve it, anyway. I'd hoped it'd never happen, but I knew in the back of my mind that it would. And I loved the motherfucker, anyway.

I'm leaving Lit. Too many memories here; I can't deal with them. I've already closed my CollarMe and Bondage accounts. I'm leaving the lifestyle for awhile, probably forever. I can't even come close to putting into words how I feel right now. Not trying to be dramatic or anything, but yeah. I'm gone. Thank you to all the friends I've made.

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Bunny, you are one of my favorite people on these boards! Please don't leave!

You have nothing to be ashamed of. You are human! I don't know many people who haven't been burned badly by love - you risked, you loved, you cared, and you got hurt. It sucks balls, but you will learn, and be back stronger than ever.

Please don't go.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Oh Bunny I am so sorry *****HUGS****** I hate so bad to hear this...

I am with the others Please don't leave Lit....I always enjoy your posts here

 

[trisquel_astur]

trisquel{{{{{{{{{{{{BiBunny}}}}}}}}}}}}astur

Sorry to hear this.

We will be here waiting you all the time you need. But remember that friends are for bad moments too.

A kiss,
Angel

 

[WriterDom]

I do hope you come back one day. You have a lot of friends here you know.

 

[Bandit58]

I'm so sorry Bunny
I remember when something similar happened to me - no one said "I told you so" they rallied round and helped me through a very difficult time. I hope you have some friends close by who can help you through *hugs*

 

[Luvkitty33]

I'm so sorry for the pain you're suffering through now.

I'm new to the boards, but I hate to know that anyone is hurting. I don't know the story or the person you're referring to, but regardless, you don't deserve to be hurt.

I hope you'll reconsider leaving Lit., or if you do need to take a break, I hope you'll return soon. You have much to offer and many people here who care about you, from what I've read. Just remember that real friends, whether online or in real life, will be there through the good times and the bad. If you can, try and let those that care about you be there to support you. It could help you to feel better.

I hope your heart heals quickly and the pain you're feeling eases very soon. Big hugs to you, BiBunny!!!!!

 

[HB1965]

Aww honey I'm sorry to hear this. Men suck sometimes. You are a beautiful and fun lady, and I know things will work out. Hang in there. I would hate for you to leave.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I'm so sorry Bunny. I hope that you just take a break instead of leave completely. Sometimes a break is all we need. I can't imagine anyone here being such an asshat to say I told you so. Like others have said, we all have been in unhealthy relationships and true friends understand we are human.

Whatever you decide I wish you happiness.

 

[JMohegan]

Ok, for everyone who wants to say "I told you so," here's the thread for you.

I'm done with the bastard. He's marrying the bitch. Didn't even have the balls to tell me--I found it on MySpace. Talked to him earlier; everything was fine. Called him when I found out. He didn't even have anything to say for himself. I've cried so much I've made myself sick to my stomach.

I'm done. So go ahead with the "I told you sos." I know there are people who've been wanting to pounce on this opportunity for a long time. I deserve it, anyway. I'd hoped it'd never happen, but I knew in the back of my mind that it would. And I loved the motherfucker, anyway.

I'm leaving Lit. Too many memories here; I can't deal with them. I've already closed my CollarMe and Bondage accounts. I'm leaving the lifestyle for awhile, probably forever. I can't even come close to putting into words how I feel right now. Not trying to be dramatic or anything, but yeah. I'm gone. Thank you to all the friends I've made.

When the totally understandable "fuck the world, I'm crawling in a hole" phase passes, I recommend reading Wench's posts 13 and 18 on this thread as inspiration for maturity, wisdom, and strength in the wake of heartbreak.

 

[the captians wench]

*snuggles the bunny*

I do hope you come back sweetie, but I understand you needing some time. do what you have to do to make you feel good about you.

 

[the captians wench]

When the totally understandable "fuck the world, I'm crawling in a hole" phase passes, I recommend reading Wench's posts 13 and 18 on this thread as inspiration for maturity, wisdom, and strength in the wake of heartbreak.

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[myinnerslut]

go take all the time you need. then please come back to us.

i hope he realizes what hes lost

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Very sorry to hear you are in pain...

Take all the time you need to heal!

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Shit. I'm so sorry. *hugs* And if anyone says 'i told you so' I'll clobber them.

I sincerly hope that after some of the hurt eases that you return, as I'll miss you and your posts a lot if you don't. Actually I really hope you change your mind and don't go, but I can understand why you want to.

Stand in line Grace.. they are mine..

 

[midwestyankee]

Bunny, like many who've already posted, I will miss your wit and style if you stay away.

That you're hurting right now is entirely right. But don't for a moment think that you made a mistake to fall in love. Love comes to us from surprising places sometimes, and we don't have much control over it. You did not choose love in this case; love chose you. And so it's completely irrational to hold any anger with yourself over falling in love.

And I know that you're far too smart to persist in an irrational act.

Still, I understand the I-hate-the-whole-f***ng-world state that you're in and know how hard it is to do things that remind you of a just-lost love. It sucketh, as Shakespeare might have said (he did, actually, in his never-published musical comedy Music of the Plague, but scholars bicker about it as the often do).

So...go hang out with your horses, threaten the university financial aid people with nine kinds of floggings, and eat some good food.

But do return when you're done.

 

[FurryFury]

I hope you don't leave. Honestly most of us are not waiting around to say I told you so to anyone. We really aren't. I always understood, you were doing the best you could and following your feelings.

*HUGS and HUGS*

I'm so sorry that you are feeling this loss and pain. I wish I could help.

 

[Chicklet]

Love for bunny.

I'm so sorry.

and Gracie's pretty small, so I'll need to join up with her. I'm really small, too, but together we're almost a full grown adult.