Doms posting ads

[CMK89]

What Doms or Switches here, have posted an ad looking for a Sub for a D/s relationship? And received a generous amount of responses from multiple prospects?

If so, what about the ad worked?

Question for the Subs: Does a Dom seeking a sub come off as desperate and lacking confidence? I would assume a sub would find it more appealing for the Dom to approach them I'm person. For the factor of the Doms confidence and primal energy over powers you. Rather than reading an ad, asking you to respond.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I think you just go for it and be yourself

 

[barefootgirl69]

No, it doesn't come off as desperate. Not any moreso than a "sub seeking a Dom" or "babygirl needing a Daddy".

It opens my eyes to the fact they're available and seeking. How well the ad is written tells me a lot about him and whether it's worth a reply.

 

[CMK89]

No, it doesn't come off as desperate. Not any moreso than a "sub seeking a Dom" or "babygirl needing a Daddy".

It opens my eyes to the fact they're available and seeking. How well the ad is written tells me a lot about him and whether it's worth a reply.

What are some key factors you look for? What shows confidence over desperation? For a Switch man may want a baby/switch type of woman. His ad may sound less appealing, for they can fluctuate between assertiveness to docile.