Domination and submission...?

KillerMuffin

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Honestly, no joking or flirting, what do you think?

What do you think about domination, being in the role of the dominator that is? Do you enjoy it? Regularly? Sporadically? Or do you prefer to just bypass the whole sub/dom thing altogether? How do you go about doing it?

How about submission? What do you think about it? Could you be in the role of a submissive? How do you go about doing it?

Yes, I am doing research. No, I'm not writing a dissertation. I'm stymied and I need help, so I've come to the experts. :) You!

I'm mostly interested in the psychology of the whole sub/dom thing, what attracts you about it, what sort of relationship you prefer with the sub/dom partner, or even if its just a fantasy and you would never do it in real life, what part of the fantasy do you prefer?
 
I'm more of the dominating type, I don't practice it (sexually speaking) very often. In my normal day life however, I have no problem letting people know that I'm in control of certain things. Whether it be work, relationship or friendship related. I'm a self admitted power tripper. Like I tell my boyfriend, he can wear the pants in the relationship as long as he understands that I'll tell him what pair to wear.

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OHHHH Ezzie is gay!!
That explains everything!!!
PHEW
 
Now, this is exactly why.....

the exact thread where I need to post a pic - AND - nobody helped me figure out how to do it.

Oh well - everyone is just missing the freakyest damn pic - and it will remain that way until the day I figure this shit out.

Oh well.
 
I'm gay?

Shit, someone better tell Tiggs real fast, she's been trying to get in my bra and panties for months. Right, honey buns? LOL
 
Re: ROFLMFAO!!!!

Tiggs said:
Damnit... And all I had to do weas convert one more and that toaster oven would have been mine! http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/crying.gif ~sigh~ At any rate, Ezzie slipped through my fingers. She likes dick. Nuff said. :( lol

~Tiggs~
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Penis penis penis! You know I hate the "D" and "P" words. But if I ever decided to sleep with a woman, I promise it'll be you Tiggs. As long as I can keep the toaster oven on the weekends. IWUBU! LOL

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Sexually, in RL, I am submissive. Fortunately, my husband is dominant.

For me, submissiveness isn't a state of being the perfect little slut-slave. I enjoy breaking the rules and getting my comeuppance. When I misbehave, I have his undivided attention, so in a way, it's kind of selfish.

There is also the aspect of being watched over and protected. I know when my husband is in control, I am 100% safe. I can completely relax and lose all inhibitions.

Who knows, it may have something to do with growing up with minimal attention. By being a sub, I get to make up for that.
 
Re: Now, this is exactly why.....

Sparky Kronkite said:
the exact thread where I need to post a pic - AND - nobody helped me figure out how to do it.

Oh well - everyone is just missing the freakyest damn pic - and it will remain that way until the day I figure this shit out.

Oh well.


Sparky putting in pictures is easy, find the loaction the url thats the http://whatever.com/funnypic.jpg thats just an example on the front type {img} after the url type {/img} only using the block[] brackets not the funky{} brackets.

If you need further help drop me and email with details AndI will gladly help you out or you can aol im me @ SlimOp777 or MSN im @ tforgrave@hotmail.com
 
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