Dominance | ecnanimoD

[Scentofawoman]

Are you a shriveled pea, or a round one?

*blink biink*

To pea or not to pea... That is the question is it not?

Sorry Stella really couldn't help myself. I am truly slap happy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

To pea or not to pea... That is the question is it not?

Sorry Stella really couldn't help myself. I am truly slap happy.

yeah it really is the question. With my girl right now its-- to pee in public like Stella wants, or to hold it until it leaks all into her white cotton panties while she squirms?


I'm good either way.

 

[IrisAlthea]

If you tell a sub something and she follows the order, is this Dominance? Is there actually Dominance, if both agree to only do what both want? Can you actually dominate a doormat submissive or isn't this mutually exclusive?

If I want that someone does something and I make him or her do it, does the method used determine, whether I'm dominant?
Am I more or less dominant if I just pay for it?
Am I more or less dominant if I use my charming personality?
Am I more or less dominant if I beat him/her up?

Or is Dominance just the ability to establish and maintain the pecking order in a group, no matter how? I mean, in the traditional sense, the dominant animal controls the resources and decides about the distribution of food and sex - usually in the simple egoistic method - me first until satisfied, then who cares. Am I dominant the very moment I do this?

If she says that she has no clue why she did what I wanted, does this mean that I'm dominant? Is it how she feels about it that decides if I'm dominant?

To me, dominance is the ability to establish and maintain the pecking order in a group, no matter how and just like Stella, I think it's a continuum and not a dichotomy.

 

[kellyz_craic]

which one ultimately gets its way? The rock or the river?

Flexibility means being able to thwart me no matter what I do, whatever resistance I put up, whatever counter-argument or bargain I make; even if that means thwarting me at my own game of submission. It's deliciously frustrating and absolutely perfect. I could never deal with a micromanager.

Yes. This.