My fiance and I have recently started having regular threesomes with my best female friend from college. My fiancee is very sub and that is wonderful but there is some slight tension between me and my friend in the bedroom. Both of us seem to be struggeling for domination of the situation. We are not including BDSM stuff between the three of us just to make sure we maintain our friendship and because with two dominants things would get hella confusing. Its also odd sharing control with a tiny little 4'4 inch tall gothic red haired girl. Not ususaly one for the sharing of control when it comes to sex but for sex of this calliber exceptions need to be made. Have any of you ever experienced a clash of the dominants as well?
Dom vs. Domme
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Jack Dawkins
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The things our dicks get us into.
I'm going to have to tell you that there's almost no way this situation is going to continue for long unless you work out some kind of serious compromise with your friend. Put a nice spin on it, say that the two of you own her together, and you'll take turns with the reigns. This other girl will never accept the fact that she is just one of two women in the situation, especially being the outsider.
You're going to have to give up the spotlight at least partially, probably mostly, or lose the kinky sex. Mark my words.
I'm going to have to tell you that there's almost no way this situation is going to continue for long unless you work out some kind of serious compromise with your friend. Put a nice spin on it, say that the two of you own her together, and you'll take turns with the reigns. This other girl will never accept the fact that she is just one of two women in the situation, especially being the outsider.
You're going to have to give up the spotlight at least partially, probably mostly, or lose the kinky sex. Mark my words.
