Does your partner know you're here?

[Etoile]

I'm curious, does your partner know you're a participant here at Lit? Is your partner also a participant?

For those of you who are submissive, does your dom have to give permission for you to post here?

 

[Etoile]

To answer my own question:

Daddy knows about Lit, but doesn't keep up with my posting here. I don't have to ask permission either, but I might enjoy that kind of control (provided I were allowed to keep posting, heh!).

 

[Netzach]

Yes, and no. He's not into talking about it as much as doing it, and I'm a talker.

 

[Quint]

Yeah, T knows. The only time that he controls my posting here is when he wants me to stop paying attention to something other than him and get over to where he is; other than that, I can post as much as I want. If there is a matter he does not want discussed here, likely I would not want to post it either. And yeah, he tried the Lit scene for a little but didn't have enough free time to get in the flow, as it were. So if there is something intriguing, I bring the thread up in conversation, but he doesn't even read here anymore.

 

[Dumpling]

I'm curious, does your partner know you're a participant here at Lit? Is your partner also a participant?

For those of you who are submissive, does your dom have to give permission for you to post here?

No he doesnt know,
No he isnt ~hes playing Computer Games
No I dont have permission, ~a Person has to have some Secrets
specially a Scorpio

 

[Scarlett_t2]

Yes he knows, he is the one who showed me the site, and yes I let him post, he has many opinions...lol but he dosn't have to ask permission...................yet

Scarlett

 

[redelicious]

Yep, he knows. He thinks it's weird and just a phase, though I've been going through that phase for nearly 2 years now.

I never had to ask for permission, though I have asked for clarification and advise about posts before making them, then used my best judgement based on the answer.

 

[CherryPop22]

I dont think we are a couple yet but i got him to join a few days ago and he loves it here
(he being a potential Master/daddy for me)

 

[angela146]

Hubby knows. He doesn't post but he sometimes reads.

As for permission... ahem...

At first, I could post whatever I wanted. However I almost posted a story with his real name in it. Thank God I had him review it before I did (not looking for name mistakes but story flow).

I got spanked very hard for that one... one of my very few true punishment spankings from hubby.

Now, I have to have all of my stories checked by hubby before posting.

 

[InnerDarkness]

I'm curious, does your partner know you're a participant here at Lit? Is your partner also a participant?

For those of you who are submissive, does your dom have to give permission for you to post here?

Yeah, he knows...

He looked once, a while ago...ran screaming and clawing at his eyes...

I don't ask permission, because even though I am submissive by my own label, he is NOT my Dom/Master/Daddy or anything even close...if anything, he is MY bitch...

To be honest...I kinda hide my Lit world from him (especially the stories)...he doesn't approve...also thinks it is a phase of mine...he gets personally threatened by it...

*shrug*

It is my outlet now...it is all I have...
(and thanks guys!)

 

[TNRkitect2b]

Yes, I supposed you could say she posts here, since it was here that we met

She may post whatever she likes, but knows that I will read her posts. Aside from a few times where I had to jerk the leash due to her being disrespectful of me, I don't have problems with her posts.

 

[ghosst_K&H]

Yes they know, they introduced me to the site

No i dont have any restrictions about posting, as long as i remain respectful towards others.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, think you already know our answer!!

Catalina http://www.logtenberg.info/liefde/hartjeopslot.gif

 

[Justina123]

Yes, at the beginning Sir and I discussed the Internet, including Lit. We each have boards we particularly like to read and post on and Sir gave me the okay to read and post here. Once in a while I'll show him a thread or post I think he'll particularly enjoy.

- justina

 

[LovingDaddy]

My babygirl actually introduced me to this board and I'm extremely happy she did. It's a wonderful way for us to share, learn, and explore together as our relationship moves from online to real-time.

 

[sunfox]

Yup, he knows, and doesn't care.. I read my comments to him sometimes when I think he'll want to hear it, and sometimes he'll ask about other people's comments out of curiosity.

He's not as chatty as I am, so it's unlikely he'd ever come here himself.

 

[taipa]

No, because i am still not sure it will work between the 3 of us, not because of me, but more because this is all new and i need to keep a part of myself separate.

taipa

 

[Birch Twig]

She don't know and she would not like it. She's afraid of lost privacy.

 

[thegreenfairy]

When I was in a somewhat-submissive relationship, he wken about lit, but, at my request, didn't read posts here. I see this is as my space, to lurk or to post... but then I've never tried 24/7.

 

[Bandit58]

Master and I met here on Lit

We both post to the same threads on other forums. I tend to lurk here and read mostly and sometimes I'll ask His views on something. I did ask permission to post something once, before we were together in r/l - it was freely given and I was told I didn't have to ask again

 

[crimsonlace]

Yes, he knows. He is also a participant. He has given his permission to frequent the forum. As far as I know, I don't need permission to post.

Guess I'll know about it soon enough if I'm wrong on that one!

 

[Anna Sue]

Yes and he does not care and when he wouldn't like it his problem
I would still do it, he is not in charge to give permission

No, he is not posting or reading here.



Anna Sue

 

[Etoile]

I would still do it, he is not in charge to give permission

Hence the "For those of you who are submissive" part!

 

[Anna Sue]

from Etoile

Hence the "For those of you who are submissive" part!

That does not mean I am not submissive but not a good one ..
And my partner is not my Sir so maybe this clear it up.
LoL

I am still working on my label.



Anna Sue

 

[dragonlace]

Yes He knows and posts here as well.....He was actually the one who showed me the boards