Does society train us to be switch?

[Sir Victor]

The males just get caught more... and is worse situations. If your gonna go down go big

yeah, yeah, blame it on the men! LOL

 

[precious105]

Switching is not something that is trained nor is natural embedded into the fabric of anyone person. It is the whimsical flow between two sides like that of the tide which incites excitement for one as they refuse to choose which side of the fence to play on. One is simply less likely to fall into the problems of chance when finding their partner, so improvisation is an asset.

ok, thats all fine and dandy, but certain life experiences may (or may not) instill ideas/urges into a person that they may not have had naturally. Yes things are often by choice, but the question is not that we make the choices but WHY it is we make them (more or less)?

your stance right now doesn't tell me if you think it is a natural part of someone or a choice that can be affected by outside stimuli (such as work). But that it is neither? I don't quite understand that, love for more of an explanation.