does size really matter
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Nobody wants your cock! Get used to it.
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He's right.
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From what I've read on the may size threads on the various boards size seems to be important to the guys, but most women generally don't seem to care much.
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It doesn't matter to please a woman. but it depends on individual and preferences
To make her happy you do not need huge or big cocks. But big cocks are always have been in demand.
To make her happy you do not need huge or big cocks. But big cocks are always have been in demand.
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Size Makes a Difference
I think it's not a thing of if it matters it's about prefrence, there is no doubt the medical facts where bogus. The old saying size doesn't matter or make any difference thats totall bull shit. I your a guy stick different size dildoes up your ass and tell me with a straight face they all feel the same lol. Not every girl is going to handle a big one the same it depends on different things. How excited are you how flexable down below are you and just like guys they are different sizes. I short and very petite I was surprised how I actually fit a 9 1/2" cock that was 6 3/4" around It was absolutely huge. Compared to others I had been with I could feel the difference right away. I read different posters saying they encountered things to big and maybe they did. Maybe they weren't flexable down below maybe their big cock love didn't know how to excite them. Maybe they was to tensed and nervious to take it, they have alot of different equtions. I don't think guys need to worry for the most part guys are very simular in size. Other than the 9 1/2"long and 6 3/4" around cock that was very different in everyway durrng sex. The other guys where very simular being between 5 1/2" - 7 1/2" long and about 5 1/4" around.
I think it's not a thing of if it matters it's about prefrence, there is no doubt the medical facts where bogus. The old saying size doesn't matter or make any difference thats totall bull shit. I your a guy stick different size dildoes up your ass and tell me with a straight face they all feel the same lol. Not every girl is going to handle a big one the same it depends on different things. How excited are you how flexable down below are you and just like guys they are different sizes. I short and very petite I was surprised how I actually fit a 9 1/2" cock that was 6 3/4" around It was absolutely huge. Compared to others I had been with I could feel the difference right away. I read different posters saying they encountered things to big and maybe they did. Maybe they weren't flexable down below maybe their big cock love didn't know how to excite them. Maybe they was to tensed and nervious to take it, they have alot of different equtions. I don't think guys need to worry for the most part guys are very simular in size. Other than the 9 1/2"long and 6 3/4" around cock that was very different in everyway durrng sex. The other guys where very simular being between 5 1/2" - 7 1/2" long and about 5 1/4" around.
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Ah hell I'm feeling charitable. Size doesn't matter it's how well you move. Course there is another thing, thickness matters. There really isn't too thick, think about it this way, a baby comes out of there. Unless your dick is the same size as a baby head, it will fit. There is question on her wanting to let it.
See this is where guys got confused, length isn't exactly a big deal, we are adjustable. What scares a woman off is the thickness, generally the longer it is the thicker as well but not always. My longest lover is not my thickest. What this means is if you are thick, she may not want to spread her legs because it doesn't feel that good at first. Eventually she will scream your name, but it takes a while and you can't finish in twenty seconds.
This is where the move part comes in. We don't want you done in two minutes unless she says, we got two minutes fuck me and finish. We want you to move, not shove it in pump fast and low your load. You are the only one who enjoys it. We need longer time with the sex, also why we want foreplay. We have to build up to it, sometimes after getting up there we crest multiple times but we have to build up so taking 15 minutes is a good idea.
Granted not every woman can reach orgasm. At least not in a way that is recognized as such, she still enjoys the sex. She doesn't want a minuteman. Sometimes a woman can have several orgasms in 15-20 minutes, she really doesn't want a minuteman.
If you haven't caught the drift, go away you never will and probably never get married either.
See this is where guys got confused, length isn't exactly a big deal, we are adjustable. What scares a woman off is the thickness, generally the longer it is the thicker as well but not always. My longest lover is not my thickest. What this means is if you are thick, she may not want to spread her legs because it doesn't feel that good at first. Eventually she will scream your name, but it takes a while and you can't finish in twenty seconds.
This is where the move part comes in. We don't want you done in two minutes unless she says, we got two minutes fuck me and finish. We want you to move, not shove it in pump fast and low your load. You are the only one who enjoys it. We need longer time with the sex, also why we want foreplay. We have to build up to it, sometimes after getting up there we crest multiple times but we have to build up so taking 15 minutes is a good idea.
Granted not every woman can reach orgasm. At least not in a way that is recognized as such, she still enjoys the sex. She doesn't want a minuteman. Sometimes a woman can have several orgasms in 15-20 minutes, she really doesn't want a minuteman.
If you haven't caught the drift, go away you never will and probably never get married either.
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Of course size matters! If you're in apartment, there's probably a weight limit and they're not going to have enough room if they're good and big. On the other hand, anything smaller than about 30 or 40 pounds is going to be useless for protection and you can't really play with it: you'll have it airborne the first time you try to play tug-of-war, for instance. Besides, the little ones are all yappy and bite your ankles and shit. Some of them, and I'm talking about Chihuahuas in particular, are really more like overgrown rodents anyway...
Wait, you weren't talking about dogs, were you?
Wait, you weren't talking about dogs, were you?
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Vaginas are meant to squeeze out babies. They are resilient.
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In my experiance no, but if you're that worried about it then learn to use your hands and tongue.
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Simple answer, it matters as much to women as it does to men.
Seriously, ive been told I was loose a time or two...lol needless to say it was from smaller inexperienced guys, given it was back in my teens and I wasnt yet as experienced myself I laugh about it now.
I have yet to be with one I cant feel. So from my personal perspective, no size doesnt truly matter.
The poster who said its individual preferance and factors is correct. If your lover has a thing about size and you are lacking (or too much) then its simply not a match made in heaven. End of story.
The most annoying thing, is a guy dwelling on his dick size. I am not going to waste my time on bad sex, if I dont like it, I wont be seducing you or letting you seduce me. Get over it already. Lol Harsh but true.
Seriously, ive been told I was loose a time or two...lol needless to say it was from smaller inexperienced guys, given it was back in my teens and I wasnt yet as experienced myself I laugh about it now.
I have yet to be with one I cant feel. So from my personal perspective, no size doesnt truly matter.
The poster who said its individual preferance and factors is correct. If your lover has a thing about size and you are lacking (or too much) then its simply not a match made in heaven. End of story.
The most annoying thing, is a guy dwelling on his dick size. I am not going to waste my time on bad sex, if I dont like it, I wont be seducing you or letting you seduce me. Get over it already. Lol Harsh but true.
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I don't have the experience that most of the responders have, but the one time I had a "large" lover, I found it uncomfortable. Not the girth so much as the length. The problem really was that he had this idea he had to penetrate me deeply ... the deeper the better ... in order to get me off, and he had trouble being convinced that it was just the opposite for me. We broke up right after that, and I always felt the he'd resented being told that he couldn't bury himself to the hilt in me, and blamed me for it. Being young at the time, I actually believed that I was inferior to most women in some way because of that.
So, guys, if you're well endowed, be careful. Your partner may not appreciate all of your capabilities.
So, guys, if you're well endowed, be careful. Your partner may not appreciate all of your capabilities.
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Mmmm, I've had around twenty five partners for sex in my life, and only one cock impressed me as extraordinary. It wasn't that long, maybe six inches, it wasn't that big around, but it had a certain shape and curve to it. The head was almost sculpted, sharp and pronounced and the shaft had a very definate upwards curve...Very satisfying and fun!
