Does size REALLY matter?

[Justadude64]

You know that question is as old as "what came first, the chicken or the egg?"

It's been a topic of discussion for millenia. Origin probably from men's insecurity in comparison. Ladies, and I guess gentlemen as well, does size matter? I know based on my limited experience I would have to vote for it does matter....bigger in the back, smaller in the mouth....

 

[thms1984]

I remember this conversation coming up when I was in work one day.

General consensus from the women was that size does not matter within reason and short and fat was better than long and thin.

Basically, so long as it was going in and touching the sides, it was usually something that could be worked with.

Although not being a woman, what do I know?

 

[Spiritedlady]

I would say that it matters but probably not to the extent that you imagine it does. I haven’t had experience of a really big guy and I’m not saying I wouldn’t want a little test run ( ahem) but bigger guys can be a little unsophisticated and boring. they seem to think they just need to pound you for you to get off. Porn has a lot to answer with that regard. ( all those damn imaginary vaginal orgasms)

 

[SuzyWho]

I would say that it matters but probably not to the extent that you imagine it does. I haven’t had experience of a really big guy and I’m not saying I wouldn’t want a little test run ( ahem) but bigger guys can be a little unsophisticated and boring. they seem to think they just need to pound you for you to get off. Porn has a lot to answer with that regard. ( all those damn imaginary vaginal orgasms)

Agree with that, I call them "pumpers" no finesse.

 

[ashley_4rpdad]

my husband is about 7", it's nice, but the one that felt the best belonged to an ex of mine, he was shorter but thicker than my husband. omg it felt so good to me

 

[PWilton]

Do a Poll

This should be a poll (not pole): How short would you ladies consider to be too short?
8"
7"
6"
5"
4"
3"
2"
1"

?? Discerning minds want to know...

 

[wildchild24143]

This should be a poll (not pole): How short would you ladies consider to be too short?
8"
7"
6"
5"
4"
3"
2"
1"

?? Discerning minds want to know...

Sadly I’m on the bottom half of that list

 

[bspa78]

Agreed with most of the sentiments already expressed – short and fat is FANTASTIC, guys with huge dicks have no clue how to use them (my ex-husband, for example), smaller is better in the mouth, and I would also add, smaller is better for anal. Porn star big is not at all pleasant for anal, at least IMHO.

 

[Naturalnaughty]

...Anything under 7

This should be a poll (not pole): How short would you ladies consider to be too short?
8"
7"
6"
5"
4"
3"
2"
1"

?? Discerning minds want to know...

I like this poll; size does matter and anything under 7 would make me give the man a pass...

 

[AveryElle]

It absolutely doesn’t matter unless you’re a shallow person. It’s the guy the dick is attached to the matters. I’ve had bigger, smaller, thicker, thinner. What has made a partner good is not their cock size. Even if I haven’t know them very well, a good partner wanted shared pleasure. The marks of a good lover can usually be determined early, for me, with the kissing - if there’s no chemistry in the kiss, they’re sloppy and forceful (in a bad way), sex isn’t going to be good.

Worry about your personality and non-verbal communication skills. And stamina. Not just how long you can stay hard but your overall stamina.

 

[Atwistedkitten]

I would have to say depends on the the lover I say just because he carries something big doesn’t means he knows how to use it!

 

[Chris_Michael]

I don’t know why girls should feel bad about having a dick size preference. We guys get to see boobs all day and make judgement calls about it before we even get to the bedroom.

 

[Spiritedlady]

I don’t know why girls should feel bad about having a dick size preference. We guys get to see boobs all day and make judgement calls about it before we even get to the bedroom.

Lol. Yeah you do. Perhaps we should ask to inspect the goods before we decide about going out with you?

What many posters are saying is that being a good lover is not necessarily related to dick size.... a fact that bigger dicked men seem to have difficulties computing.

 

[novicev]

Opinions

Lol. Yeah you do. Perhaps we should ask to inspect the goods before we decide about going out with you?

What many posters are saying is that being a good lover is not necessarily related to dick size.... a fact that bigger dicked men seem to have difficulties computing.

True, but it is like everything today...the nuances are getting lost in the quick pace information and instant gratification world...at least in the conversations.

size could be an easy filter for women ..and easy idea for guys that nothing else matters.

 

[Spiritedlady]

True, but it is like everything today...the nuances are getting lost in the quick pace information and instant gratification world...at least in the conversations.

size could be an easy filter for women ..and easy idea for guys that nothing else matters.

You’re applying crap Male standards to women’s brains. ( or mine anyway.... I don’t represent all of womankind). Sexual attraction is about the whole package - personality, sense of humour, intelligence, body type, smell, voice & accent etc. All of these things govern my desire for the person and I need that even in a FWB situation. You could be the best looking guy with the biggest dick but if you are stupid / and or boring I won’t be fucking you.

Clearly other women have different criteria otherwise all these stupid, boring big dicked blokes wouldn’t be getting laid.

 

[StrokeOfThePen]

Lol. Yeah you do. Perhaps we should ask to inspect the goods before we decide about going out with you?

What many posters are saying is that being a good lover is not necessarily related to dick size.... a fact that bigger dicked men seem to have difficulties computing.

Spiritedlady is correct, and her sentiments seem to echo those of many women. In reality, a larger member can be useful in closing the deal; but, at the end of the day, cocks of all sizes are blunt and primitive instruments... especially in comparison with the complex, articulate, and precise alternatives at our disposal. Our fingers, tongues, and (most importantly) creative and empathic minds are far more capable tools when it comes to administering pleasure; the possibilities are endless. More to the point: as with all things, it comes down to personal preference. Chris's comparison of this topic to that of men regarding breasts is apt: some like 'em big, some like 'em small, and some couldn't care less, as long as the woman they're attached to is interesting and seductive in her own, unique way.

 

[cara_cumslut]

I definitely don't think size matters at all- for me it's all about the guy. His personality, the way he carries himself, etc. If I'm turned on in his presence and I've never even seen his dick then I don't care how big it is when we get down to it.

 

[shewantsmore]

I like this poll; size does matter and anything under 7 would make me give the man a pass...

I would call anything below 4" small

 

[Tray627]

You’re applying crap Male standards to women’s brains. ( or mine anyway.... I don’t represent all of womankind). Sexual attraction is about the whole package - personality, sense of humour, intelligence, body type, smell, voice & accent etc. All of these things govern my desire for the person and I need that even in a FWB situation. You could be the best looking guy with the biggest dick but if you are stupid / and or boring I won’t be fucking you.

Clearly other women have different criteria otherwise all these stupid, boring big dicked blokes wouldn’t be getting laid.

You have given the definitive response ti the question.

 

[Dribble]

Why does this thread make me laugh?

 

[novicev]

You’re applying crap Male standards to women’s brains. ( or mine anyway.... I don’t represent all of womankind). Sexual attraction is about the whole package - personality, sense of humour, intelligence, body type, smell, voice & accent etc. All of these things govern my desire for the person and I need that even in a FWB situation. You could be the best looking guy with the biggest dick but if you are stupid / and or boring I won’t be fucking you.

Clearly other women have different criteria otherwise all these stupid, boring big dicked blokes wouldn’t be getting laid.

I wasn’t applying any standard I as just giving my perspective..like you were..I agree with you..just saying people don’t pay attention to nuances when talking online...full disclosure..unfortunately or fortunately depending on perspective ..I don’t have a big cock..lol

 

[Spiritedlady]

I wasn’t applying any standard I as just giving my perspective..like you were..I agree with you..just saying people don’t pay attention to nuances when talking online...full disclosure..unfortunately or fortunately depending on perspective ..I don’t have a big cock..lol

Sorry, don’t take this as an attack.... men seem to think the world revolves around their cocks... it really doesn’t.

 

[Tray627]

Sorry, don’t take this as an attack.... men seem to think the world revolves around their cocks... it really doesn’t.

You're right, women have 100 per cent of the pussy and 51 per cent of the money, the world revolves around them.

 

[TheSilverLining]

It absolutely doesn’t matter unless you’re a shallow person.[/snip]

I read this and immediately thought you were acknowledging and referencing the differences in female anatomy and physiology.

 

[CreativeProf]

Does Size Matter??

To those ladies to whom size DOES matter, I will send a pic of my 9” instrument of pleasure if you wish . Ask and you will receive (lol)....