does size matter?

[sexcandy]

We have all been feed the lines such as it not the size of the stick but the magic in the wand. Do you buy this. Does size matter??



While I am not one to think bigger is always better, but IMO size does matter. I have been with one guy who did not have a cock to speak of, I literally could not tell if he was inside me or not. Pretty sad.

 

[virginleo20]

Well id say yes size does matter for both parties.... you know
men are not the only ones whose "equipment" vary in size.

Think of it rather in a way that there is allwasy someone be it a man or a woman with the "proper fit".....
but as personal preference goes here is an easy test...
for women....
Think of 2 guys both exactly alike in every way by personality body, "skill" etc.
your in love with them both..... only one has a penis the size of a toothpic or a cocktailweenie (pardon the pun)
and the other has a penis the size of a ... well lets just call him "sausage" ..... what ever you imagine to be a large fit...

You have no choice and you have to choose one of them... which would you choose?

a kind of an over simplified scenario but still....

and well someone can propably figure out a similar scenario for men.

Then there is the whole aspect of evolutionary psychology....
the mechanics of breeding
choosing a mate for his/ her external properties whis ensure the
best possible propability for the survival of ones offspring etc etc.... and their reproduction.... so on and so forth.....

and again thats regardless of gender and such.... just think it trough for a bit.

 

[asphaltangel]

Yes size does matter for myself I am a tall woman 6ft and have a child so I have to have a man that is like that sausage in the last post.
I have found that some of the women my Husband and I have been with were small women and were only used to men of their same stature and small members usually go along with that.
When they see my husband (hung like a Horse) hard they sometimes gasp and don't know if they will be able to take it.
But I reasure them women can stretch to fit but if you are used to that you can't go downsizing. I have had the same problem with a couple we were with he was maybee 3inches HARD! I couldn't even suck him off because there just wasn't enough there.
So yes I care and it maters to me!

Asphaltangel

 

[DevilBoy79]

Look around this was a previous thread, all your answers are on there, i think its a little of both, size and how you use it, i never get any complaints

 

[Angel9476]

I've had a lover with large penis but didn't know how to use it. He thought all you needed was size, and didn't want help on how to make love to a woman. And I've also had lovers that were less than average but knew how to make love to the whole woman. I've recently found the best of both worlds, a man with a more than average penis who not only know how to use it, but knows how to derive pleasure with his tongue and fingers too. He know how to make love to a woman, and I love making love to him and returning the pleasure!

 

[Guest]

Just curious

Is a six inch errect penis large enough, of course this goes along with the expertise of using the tounge and fingers?

 

[sabbathstorm]

Size doesn't make a difference at all. For me personally, a talented tongue is heaven

 

[Kelson]

Average seems to work fine. 6" is average. I only say that because the majority of women here would, scientifically, have mostly only gotten the average size penis of 6" and they seem to have enjoyed it. Most men are not 21" long hard, despite what porn stories would have us believe

 

[Guest]

well maybe its just me

But almost every time someone posts a picture of "how ell they are hung" the thing seems afully small (even though the camera is supposed to add 10 lbs...)

i know 6" is average and im nut much better my self at just under 7" but still i think the guys posting might have a bit of an ego problem or just a misconseption of their realities.

 

[virginleo20]

sorry forgot to sign on

 

[tazzy26]

It is pretty sad when a guy thinks he should worry about the size of his cock. Plain and simple it's just BS. A guy with a 5 or 6 inch cock can do just as well as a guy with an 8 inch cock and somtimes better.

Sure to some women size matters but if that is all they judge you on then that are not worth being with.

Feel confident with what you got!!

 

[Linedrive]

For me personally, a talented tongue is heaven

That is why you love me so much

 

[sabbathstorm]

Oh I think it might be a little more Gunner

 

[Linedrive]

Oh I think it might be a little more Gunner

 

[sexcandy]

Re: well maybe its just me

i think the guys posting might have a bit of an ego problem

If this comment was directed to me, sorry to burst your bubble but I am a female.

And to those who think a vienna sausage fills you the same as a smoked sausage then I have to wonder...

 

[VeryBadGirl]

You know, "vienna sausage" comments are absolutely not helpful - guys, totally ignore that.

IF you know how to fuck, size does not matter. I, too, have had small guys that were awesome, and large guys that thought I should worship their dicks while they just shoved it in...and out...and in...and out. <yawn> If all I wanted was the feeling of fullness, I would sit around with a dildo stuck in all day.

If you're not pleasing your woman, don't blame it on your cock size - that is a lame excuse, and it just isn't true. And believe it or not, there are plenty of women who don't even know how they need/want to be fucked - they really expect you to just know! sheesh! I sympathize!

If you don't know how to fuck, and you can't find somebody to tell you or show you how, get a book, surf the web, do SOMETHING.

This is how *I* like it. In and out is fun, but I like pressure and friction on my clit. With your cock in, rub your crotch up and down, back and forth, around in circles. I LOVE THIS. And you don't need a big cock (or any cock, really) to do it.

Ladies, if the guy is small, encourage him to use this technique. Just keep your hips pressed to his. His dick will stay in, and you'll have a nice ride yourself.

Now, go get 'em boys!
VBG

 

[virginleo20]

VeryBadGirl...

comments like that its just making fun of it all i mean there is propably only 1 person on here that actually really cares about their size... and thats propably the only person whom does not understand that its all about a combination of skill preference and chemistry.... son on and so forth

And on posts like these there is really nothing new to say so some people try to throw in a joke or 2 just for fun...

guys dont care women dont care... and 99% of the time everyone is just making fun of it all and the 1% of the time its just a reply
related to maybe some bad experiences someone might have had in some way.... thats regardless of gender.

and for some reason there is always someone whom takes things wayy too seriously

 

[knightstalker]

not another does size matter thread ...No it doesn't...

 

[krspy2001]

hey i am an average guy i think..........check out my thread and tell me lol....be kind

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=1781820#post1781820

 

[obcy]

Women! You never know!

Average seems to work fine. 6" is average.

I am on average thirteen point nine of an inch or on other occasions the other way around, nine point thirteen, depending on how you take it in. Women are especially attached to my point and to what follows. That's why they often prefer it the other way, so that there is the whole thirteen AFTER the point, if you get my point, then you are happy. What can I say, try it, you'll like it.

Cheers,

 

[sexcandy]

I truely find it obsurd that people believe size DOESN'T matter. How can it not matter, if you can not even tell the he is in your vagina?? I think "average" is fine but if the guy is built more like a prepubesent boy then a fully grown man, there is a problem. Maybe, it was the guy, but I still fully believe that the size does make a difference.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

I truely find it obsurd that people believe size DOESN'T matter. How can it not matter, if you can not even tell the he is in your vagina?? I think "average" is fine but if the guy is built more like a prepubesent boy then a fully grown man, there is a problem. Maybe, it was the guy, but I still fully believe that the size does make a difference.

Hmmm. Logic dictates that the size of one's vagina may be a factor. It may be built more like a manhole than a glove - which would definitely present a problem.

I must admit that there's never been a cock in me that I couldn't feel. Lucky? I think not.

 

[P. B. Walker]

It may be built more like a manhole than a glove - which would definitely present a problem.

Doh! Ouch. LOL. Good line

I have to agree with both points of view. I think for most women size does matter but only to a point. As long as the man is at least a certain size (less than average is ok, but it still has to be at least a certain size... 4 inches or more.. or whatever.. depends on the woman). As long as he meets that criteria, I think most women are fine with him as long as he uses it properly.

I also think size can matter on the opposite end. There is such a thing as too big. I talked to several women that have turned guys down. And the guys were not what I would consider big.. they were something like 8 1/2 or 9 inches. When I think big or huge, I think Peter North or John Holmes (10+). I honestly think women are fine as long as you are in the 5 to 8 inch range.

Of course there are some men that fall outside that range. But, it's a bell curve. The precentage of the population that is under 5 inches is like 2 or 3 % and the percent over 8 is something like 2 or 3 precent. So guess what... if you know 100 different guys... only 6 of them are going to be outside that range (over or under). Pretty good odds that you will be in the range don't ya think?

Admittedly there will be "size queens", like Ms. sexcandy. But if that's what they are interested in, don't sweat it...it's not your fault. Not like you can change what you have. Better to use what you have better than to worry about women like her. There are plenty of women out there. Let her continue in her search for that 2 or 3% of men out there that have more than 8 or 9 inches (as if finding a lover/partner isn't hard enough... let's just cut the pool of available men by 97%... lol).

The other bonus to being average... the anal sex option is still open. <wicked grin>

These threads about size mattering really don't solve anything. Not sure why they keep popping up. Just my 2 cents.

- PBW

 

[Angel9476]

PBW, You are so right! You've got a good head on your shoulders! I'm sure you make the ladies very happy!

 

[Belilica]

My partner isn't particularly well endowed, but we do seem to have the perfect fit. He uses it well, and that's what matters, not the size.

Bel