Does Size matter?

Another Shy One said:
The problem with generalization is that several options or categories are left out. For example, there are women who enjoy more a bigger phallus, while others who enjoy a smaller one. There shouldn't be a discrimination towards neither types, nor sizes. Plus, if a woman likes bigger penises or a man bigger breasts (or tighter vaginas, or biggers labias as I have met some), they should not be criticized or branded. It's true that almost any man has what it takes to satisfy a woman, but it is equally true that women have also their own preferences. Meaning, some women would be satisfied by a 5 inches penis, but - all things being equal - they would prefer a 7 or 8 inches. In addition, I have known or heard about few women who could not have sex with a partner because it was too small, while other (few) women could not do it because it was too big. So, in a certain way, size does matter. It would suffice to say that size is still a factor, among others, in sex. :)

The good news is that, if a man is not satisfied with his size, he can enlarge it. Now, I would really be interested if a man can reduce his size, tho.



Another interesting phenomen is the fact that women are terrible at estimating sizes. While it's true that a lot tend to overestimate it, I believe that there are also some who underestimate. Oftentimes you hear a woman who described her partner's 9 inches phallus, when you find out soon after that the guy was in fact 7 inches big.

What options are their for a man who wants to have his penis enlarged? I've never heard of anything actually working.

I was unfortunate enough as a child to be born with an oversized set of equipment. Now, that in itself isn't bad, but the fact that I didn't really seem to grow much after that has really bothered me. I don't really fit into the general "small" category, I'm just a step below that. I think I'm probably just being a little harsh on myself, but I'd still like to have at least another inch. I'm not asking to be huge, but an average size is all I ask for.

In regards to what I prefer in women...Well, I'm still a virgin, so I can't really comment on pussy, but I always have been a fan of large breasts. I prefer a large bust, but it's not that important. Whatever a girl has is fine. Besides, I've always thought shape was far more important than size. I've fallen in love with a well made B cup or two in my day. Heh.

So really, right now, size doesn't matter.
 
Two new catagories?

It sounds like the three catagories that we commonly refer to, small, medium and large, are not enough and maybe we need another at each end. Something like humongous and miniature that could be anything over 8 X 6 and under 4 1/2 X 4 1/2. (length X circumference). It would seem that in discussions circumference is often not mentioned and from what I have picked up, it is probably the singularly most important measurement. It would seem that the problem areas are these two extremes. I don't think there are any women seeking miniature although a few might not "throw it back". Although we men have a hard time accepting it, there are probably very, very few women who are only interested in humongous although it might be easier for them to deal with.

There is really nothing practical that can be done about penis size so it is a question of the extremes just having to work harder and become a better person and lover.

4x4
 
How average is average?

Look at this old thread Woman and Orgasms for some real numbers, then get out your sewing tape measure.

(www.literotica.com:81/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=4643981&highlight=condom+size+average#post4643981)

Length = 5 7/8", two thirds between 5 1/8 & 6 1/4

Grith (circumference) = 5", three quarters between 4 1/2 & 5 1/2, which would be diameters of 1 3/8 to 1 5/8 (generously rounded).
 
Guybrush said:
What options are their for a man who wants to have his penis enlarged? I've never heard of anything actually working.

There are no techniques, pills, potions and or magic spells for enlarging a penis other than the kind of magic a willing woman can work on us. All the cremes, pills, yoga techniques in the world will not give you even a half inch more than what you were blessed with. But its a great scam to get involved in if you don't mind ripping people off.

I have heard about a surgical proceedure which can reduce the size of the penis, but to be honest, it isn't something I'd be interested in, so I've never researched it.
 
Penis enlargement is possible. I'm amazed that some people still think it's something unreal, but I understand them considering the fact that most poeple are bombarded with ads and spam about penis enlargement.


Anyhow, those who want to find more about PE (penis enlargement), visit first this forum: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/ . Read it VERY carefully, take your time, take one month to read it thoroughly if needed.



I considered posting a thread in the "How to..." forum about how to enlarge your penis. But I thought that some would think that mentioning that forum would be spam.


Good luck to all of you. :)



P.S. Even if PE is possible, don't forget that size is not everything.
 
Guybrush said:
I think I'm probably just being a little harsh on myself, but I'd still like to have at least another inch. I'm not asking to be huge, but an average size is all I ask for.

That's kind of how I feel about my breasts. My mom tells me that B cup is supposedly average (so why does it look like everyone's bigger than that?), but I think I'd like to be C. It would look more proportional on me. 'Course I'm not so desperate as to use fake pills and implants. That's just stupid, risking health for stupid appearance changes. Padded bras, however, that I can stoop too. :eek:
 
Remeber hearing of a guy who was having Liposuction done, and during the procedure, commented to the doc that it could go to his penis.

Doc though about it for a bit, then reinjected the suctioned material (mostly fat) along his cock. The guy was very gratful for the increased diameter.

The fat will be absorbed over time (dick shirnks back to original size) but it's not a bad way to go.
 
Another Shy One said:
Another interesting phenomen is the fact that women are terrible at estimating sizes. While it's true that a lot tend to overestimate it, I believe that there are also some who underestimate. Oftentimes you hear a woman who described her partner's 9 inches phallus, when you find out soon after that the guy was in fact 7 inches big.

That's because the guy is supplying the statistic! LOL!!!
 
I think I'm probably just being a little harsh on myself, but I'd still like to have at least another inch. I'm not asking to be huge, but an average size is all I ask for.


I've been following this thread and had a thought (I know, surprise!)...

If the guy suddenly got another inch or so, things "in there" would be tighter and he wouldn't last as long, theoretically. So! If it's the number of thrusts gets the gal off better than the length, I'd rather have a shorty!!!
 
NaiveOne said:
I've been following this thread and had a thought (I know, surprise!)...

If the guy suddenly got another inch or so, things "in there" would be tighter and he wouldn't last as long, theoretically. So! If it's the number of thrusts gets the gal off better than the length, I'd rather have a shorty!!!

Silly virgin. It's not about the length, it's about the fatty.
 
Bobmi357 said:
There are no techniques, pills, potions and or magic spells for enlarging a penis other than the kind of magic a willing woman can work on us. All the cremes, pills, yoga techniques in the world will not give you even a half inch more than what you were blessed with. But its a great scam to get involved in if you don't mind ripping people off.

I have heard about a surgical proceedure which can reduce the size of the penis, but to be honest, it isn't something I'd be interested in, so I've never researched it.

I disagree Bob. Natural Penis Enlargement (NPE) does work. It takes a lot of time and discipline to be successful at NPE but it does work. And the effects are permanent.

I gained a 1/4" in both girth and length in the span of about four months. I wasn't doing NPE for my wife, I was doing it for me. Alas, life has become hectic and I haven't practiced NPE for several months.

But it does work. Some people see very little gain to be sure. But others see incredible differences. Girth is by far easier to increase than length. Which is good because most woman seem to physically prefer girth over length. Visually, length may be more appealing but girth seems to win out when the rubber meets the road.

I HIGHLY recommend to anyone who is interested to search for Matters Of Size and Double Long Daddy. DLD runs both sites, one is free the other is not. But to be honest I have no idea why he runs a pay site because he is genuinely interested in helping people and shares everything on his free site. I can't remember which is which but I think MOS is the free one. New PC so I don't have my old favorites any more. About the only thing you get on the pay site is access to some pretty awesome pics. But I'd stick to the free one.

You might also do a search for Thunderstruck. I cannot remember his site but he runs it and it is HUGE so shouldn't be too hard to find.

Do not discount NPE. It is real. But it does require a lot of commitment.
 
NaiveOne said:
I've been following this thread and had a thought (I know, surprise!)...

If the guy suddenly got another inch or so, things "in there" would be tighter and he wouldn't last as long, theoretically. So! If it's the number of thrusts gets the gal off better than the length, I'd rather have a shorty!!!

A side benefit of NPE is a good deal more stamina. For one, your cock gets used to a lot more attention without ejaculation. Most exercises reuire you to be around 50-80% erect but NOT fully erect. So there is both the physical and mental control that is learned.

And a lot of the exercises help men learn to retain control.

The odds of gaining an inch are pretty slim. Definately possible but usually only for the most committed and those naturally lent to growth. But half inch gains aren't all that uncommon. :)
 
Bobmi357 said:
Does size matter? Sure, women want guys with 42inch long, 12 inch wide penises and men want women with 64EEEE boobies.

Next dumb question. :D

lmao Yeah, that is as far as I needed to read on this thread. ;)
 
Limbhugger said:
A side benefit of NPE is a good deal more stamina. For one, your cock gets used to a lot more attention without ejaculation. Most exercises reuire you to be around 50-80% erect but NOT fully erect. So there is both the physical and mental control that is learned.

And a lot of the exercises help men learn to retain control.

The odds of gaining an inch are pretty slim. Definately possible but usually only for the most committed and those naturally lent to growth. But half inch gains aren't all that uncommon. :)

I go with the goldfish theory. No underwear, no problem. And yes, ejaculating is overrated. However it is a good idea to clean the pipes from time to time.
 
MOS is the pay site and yes, DLD is the Bruce Lee of penis enlargement. :)


I'm surprized Limbhugger gained so little. What was your routine?

anyhow, it does take committement. However, 1-3 inches in a year is a realistic gain for those who are serious about penis enlargement.

I used to believe women had the better deal (thinking about breasts and how they can enlarge it). But now it turns out that we are luckier in that department. :)


As for the gains, it seems that uncircumcised men gain in girth more easily, while cicrcumcised men gain more in lenght.
 
I don't beleave that size matters, I am of average size....So I put the forplay to the max!!!!, I bring my wife off 5 to7 times, Before I incert it...and by that time she beging me for it!!!! She enjoys!!! ;)

Sorry to get off the subject...but being new to this site...How you find the replys to your post :confused:
 
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Another Shy One said:
MOS is the pay site and yes, DLD is the Bruce Lee of penis enlargement. :)


I'm surprized Limbhugger gained so little. What was your routine?

anyhow, it does take committement. However, 1-3 inches in a year is a realistic gain for those who are serious about penis enlargement.

I used to believe women had the better deal (thinking about breasts and how they can enlarge it). But now it turns out that we are luckier in that department. :)


As for the gains, it seems that uncircumcised men gain in girth more easily, while cicrcumcised men gain more in lenght.

1-3 inches a year? Good Lord, where has this holy grail of penis enlargement been hiding from me all these years?

And what exactly do you mean by "routine?"
 
It's the person's preference. Nothing too big, but nothing too small. There is a space for compromise I suppose.
 
The best sex I ever had was with the biggest guy I ever fucked. He was only about 9 1/2 inches :D but that was more than I have had with any other guy.

So I guess size does matter... to me anyway. LOL

Its funny, I am married to a man who is nowhere near that and he satisfies me just fine. So maybe it doesn't matter.

I still think back on Jeff sometimes though... *sigh*
 
Wolf_77 said:
It's the person's preference. Nothing too big, but nothing too small. There is a space for compromise I suppose.

I basically that is true and that size isn't an unconditional, show stopper although I have yet to hear/read someone say that they would prefer one that was less than 5 inches in length and even less in circumference. It is far more common to see the preferences on the high end of the scale. Re: voluptuous_vixen or another popular howto thread OMG! It's so big. HELP!!!!!

4x4
 
What size of dildos/vibrators do women here like for Penetration?
This way its not about the body, his personality or lovemaking skill.
Any women want to answer this?
 
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