Does Size matter?

gruvyspy said:
when you ladies say size doesn't matter what exact sizes are we talking about. (BTW i'm 6 1/2 in and what do u ladies think about that??)

Interesting question. I wonder if anyone really whips out the old tape measure before having sex, to measure. Somehow I doubt it but I might be wrong. It does pose another question though. How does a lady really know how long and especially how thick their lover's dick really is? Could someone please enlighten me?

4X4

I've never had the pleasure of being measured by one of my lovers but if I were a record catch it might be different ;)
 
4x4in said:
Interesting question. I wonder if anyone really whips out the old tape measure before having sex, to measure. Somehow I doubt it but I might be wrong. It does pose another question though. How does a lady really know how long and especially how thick their lover's dick really is? Could someone please enlighten me?

I only know because he measured it once out of curiousity and he told me. It doesn't really matter to me how many inches it is, but it's proportional to his body, which is an aethestics factor, and I love to touch it and please it, and isn't that all that really matters?

And gruvyspy, 6 1/2 is on the high side of average, and I don't think that many females would actually complain about it, unless of course the sex was horrible, but then it wouldn't be because of your penis size, it would be because of you. :p

As much as this topic is beat into the ground on this site and by every single person on the planet, I think it really just comes down to who you are and what you believe. Some will believe size matters, others won't. But if a woman ever insults you for that, then she's not worth being with.
 
The only time size matters is when it feels like fucking a bucket of water. As far as length goes, I'm average. That is 6" give or take depending on heat level. Girth is is on the thick side but I'm not a beer can, so when I run into a wet bucket, there's a problem there. So women please, use your ben wa balls!
 
sterlingclay said:
The only time size matters is when it feels like fucking a bucket of water. As far as length goes, I'm average. That is 6" give or take depending on heat level. Girth is is on the thick side but I'm not a beer can, so when I run into a wet bucket, there's a problem there. So women please, use your ben wa balls!

We have a hole tigher than our pussy. ;)
 
Interesting debate here...

So many insecurities floating around here....

My size is 8-9 inches long and 5-6 inches circ......big deal!
my last girl in an abstract thought said i was adequate....
made me laugh....
wondered if she wasn't doing the farmers horse?????
my first ex wife loved the guy she cheated with, he had a 5 inch bone...
get over cock size people!

TITS? my last ex had 34-NOTHING when we met, vain bitch she was...i bought her 36-DD. so what, fake tits...
i liked the flat bumps with nipples better...reminded me of an adolescent.
GIRLS...find a guy with a good tongue....KEEP HIM!
GUY...find a girl who can give a better hand job than you....KEEP HER!

NUF SAID.....LIttlecuntz
 
gruvyspy said:
thanks alot college geek. always wondered what real (nonpornstar) girls thought about average sized guys. but yeah its true its not really the size that counts but how u use it.

LOL, as long as You get off, what does it matter eh?
 
gruvyspy said:
i consider it more erotic and stimulating when i see my girl getting off even if i don't. i just love helping women get off, especially if they're multiorgasmic.

I hear what you're saying (three times over). As a lover I'm known as someone who wouldn't dream of coming until she told me to.

All bragging aside, sex is still a two (or more) way street, so I wouldn't make that offer to a wet bucket.



Must be getting late. My posts are looking like jibberish again...
 
I'm so confused...someone help me here please...what the hell is a wet bucket! I've never heard of this term before! :confused:
 
Originally posted by College_geek
I'm so confused...someone help me here please...what the hell is a wet bucket! I've never heard of this term before! :confused:

From the women use your ben wa balls comment I'm assuming it's a too large, in his definition, pussy...that when it gets wet gives him no friction so no satisfaction.
 
wicked woman said:
From the women use your ben wa balls comment I'm assuming it's a too large, in his definition, pussy...that when it gets wet gives him no friction so no satisfaction.

That is correct. Then again if you're into fisting, wet buckets are perfect.
 
Size matters when the owner of the big penis or tits (or tight pussy) shows up and thinks that since they are "blessed" they don't have to work at it....

Look at all the stories that include "he showed me his 9 inches and I HAD TO HAVE IT or LEFT MY 5 INCH HUSBAND"

TOTAL BULLSHIT in real life.
 
sterlingclay said:
The only time size matters is when it feels like fucking a bucket of water. As far as length goes, I'm average. That is 6" give or take depending on heat level. Girth is is on the thick side but I'm not a beer can, so when I run into a wet bucket, there's a problem there. So women please, use your ben wa balls!

This raises an interesting issue. If a woman can't be satisfied by the average penis, then is it the guys fault or hers? Do you think most women that are into big dicks are the type that aren't satisfied by an average penis because their pussy is so large it's like the guy is putting his dick into a bucket filled with water?

Maybe personals websites need to add an option under eye color, hair color, height, sex. Add penis size, and vagina size, so that people can match up better together. :D
 
P. B. Walker said:

Maybe personals websites need to add an option under eye color, hair color, height, sex. Add penis size, and vagina size, so that people can match up better together. :D

Not a bad idea pb. I'm pretty sure I saw one like that somewhere... Maybe it was just an email joke.
 
Karma Sutra classes men and women (each) into three sizes (small, medium, large) and assigns them animal names (which I forget). It then discusses which combinations are good and bad.
 
ReadyOne said:
Karma Sutra classes men and women (each) into three sizes (small, medium, large) and assigns them animal names (which I forget). It then discusses which combinations are good and bad.

That book is really pretty damn helpful. It's too bad that the majority of people just see it as a book of positions and not as the book of really helpful information (besides the positions). :D
 
The problem with generalization is that several options or categories are left out. For example, there are women who enjoy more a bigger phallus, while others who enjoy a smaller one. There shouldn't be a discrimination towards neither types, nor sizes. Plus, if a woman likes bigger penises or a man bigger breasts (or tighter vaginas, or biggers labias as I have met some), they should not be criticized or branded. It's true that almost any man has what it takes to satisfy a woman, but it is equally true that women have also their own preferences. Meaning, some women would be satisfied by a 5 inches penis, but - all things being equal - they would prefer a 7 or 8 inches. In addition, I have known or heard about few women who could not have sex with a partner because it was too small, while other (few) women could not do it because it was too big. So, in a certain way, size does matter. It would suffice to say that size is still a factor, among others, in sex. :)

The good news is that, if a man is not satisfied with his size, he can enlarge it. Now, I would really be interested if a man can reduce his size, tho.



Another interesting phenomen is the fact that women are terrible at estimating sizes. While it's true that a lot tend to overestimate it, I believe that there are also some who underestimate. Oftentimes you hear a woman who described her partner's 9 inches phallus, when you find out soon after that the guy was in fact 7 inches big.
 
Every so often, I feel like reminding everyone that sexual organs are attached to PEOPLE. I am not a single body part, no matter how humongous it might be...:p
 
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