Does Size matter?

[razon]

Men. Women. Cocks. Pussies. Tits. Does size matter? What are your opinions?

 

[Kemet]

Just thought I would add a reply to get it going . Not so much to say on the subject myself. From what I have heard it seems to have importance, although I have no idea what is a "good/big" size

 

[done_got_old]

Just thought I would add a reply to get it going . Not so much to say on the subject myself. From what I have heard it seems to have importance, although I have no idea what is a "good/big" size

Here's an old cliche.....
It's not the size of the pencil that matters, it's how well you write your name.


However, too small is bad and too big can be just as bad.

 

[CelticFrog]

You know, I think it's all about the fit.

If a guy is huge, a girl with a tiny vagina probably won't particularly enjoy sex with him. Likewise for vice versa.

My husband fits me. Perfectly. The whole cheesy "parts made for each other" thing has GOT to be totally true with this.

Tits? I don't think it really matters to most guys... as long as they can get their hands on them.

So it's not really about the 'best' size, but what size is best for each person. I have a feeling you're going to get some insanely varied answers here.

Ang

 

[Bobmi357]

Does size matter? Sure, women want guys with 42inch long, 12 inch wide penises and men want women with 64EEEE boobies.

Next dumb question.

 

[Dionysus2003]

I don't think size of tits etc is important. However I find these gigantic tits simply too big. When I see some of those pornstars with tits they need a wheelbarrow for... Then my pecker implodes

It is all individual as mentioned by others - and some fit better to each other than others do. My fiancé fits me perfect... Or should I say I fit perfect in her???

 

[quickfoot]

Just as in life most people wont like the extreme of either side, we are somewhere in the middle.

You shouldn't superior because you are larger than everyone else or inferior because you are average.

Each size has its own advantages and disadvantages the trick is how to use them.

 

[Parklife]

God, I hope not....

 

[morninggirl5]

Of course size matters, anything over about 1500 cc and you're talking about a certified genius OR a Neanderthal and i don't really think i'd enjoy the company of either one very well.

Less than 1300 cc and there's going to be a serious lack of conversation and i'm going to be bored to death.

Average size is 1400 cc, so i'm looking for someone who's pretty much average. Of course, there has to be a fully developed frontal cortex or the person's going to be prone to violence.

So, yes, size does matter.



Now, where's my portable PET scan machine.

 

[Bobmi357]

Of course size matters, anything over about 1500 cc and you're talking about a certified genius OR a Neanderthal and i don't really think i'd enjoy the company of either one very well.

Less than 1300 cc and there's going to be a serious lack of conversation and i'm going to be bored to death.

Average size is 1400 cc, so i'm looking for someone who's pretty much average. Of course, there has to be a fully developed frontal cortex or the person's going to be prone to violence.

So, yes, size does matter.



Now, where's my portable PET scan machine.

Interesting. Someone that talks in brain volume. I would think that the volume wouldn't be as important as how much control over it a person has. Someone using, say 50% of their brain mass, even at 1300cc's would be smarter than someone using only 10% of a 1500cc brain.

 

[kiwis29]

my hubby is pretty small and he admits it..But you know what he can work it and it gets me off..

My tits are super small..I wear a 34A...My hubby likes them though!!!

 

[4x4in]

my hubby is pretty small and he admits it..But you know what he can work it and it gets me off..

My tits are super small..I wear a 34A...My hubby likes them though!!!

Kiwis,

Sounds good to me and I apreciate your honesty. I have a couple of questions if you would be willing to help someone else who shares your husband's "small problem" .
- Do you ever feel somewhat short changed?
- Have you two done anything special to keep size from
being an issue?
Thanks for your help.

BTW, I would like to add that I think that crazybbwgirl's post on the "OMG! It's so big. HELP!!!!!" forum was one of the best and more honest that I've seen on the subject.

"I agree that women try very hard to be politically correct regarding cock size on this board. But I think men bend over backwards to be kind towards us bbw's here too - so I'm not complaining! lol But re-read this thread - most of us say sure we like a big cock, but its not the end-all, be- all. We'd rather have an average cock used well. -- crazybbwgirl"

Thanks,

4x4

 

[JenLynnJ]

It's not what ya have, it's how ya use it that counts!

Jen

 

[Bobmi357]

I don't think the women of this board are really going to admit that size does matter to them. Mainly I believe this for a couple reasons.

1) Whomever their main squeeze is, no matter what his size, nothing can be done about it. Therefore complaining about the size is a complete waste of time for women.

2) If women did admit size matters, then they would be admitting that for all these years when they've been saying size doesn't matter, they have been lying. And a woman, especially a wife, will not easily admit to being wrong about something to their husband.

3) Assuming size does matter, then women would have to stop complaining to us guys about our fixation on penis size. Giving up a complaint? You might as well ask them to burn their charge cards!

So women claim size doesn't matter, then go GAA GAA over some oversized studmuffin who gave up most of his IQ for penis length. It most definitely sends a mixed message to the guys of the world. And then women wonder why we're confused by them?

Shrug, I'm a shorty, I know it, I don't like it, but it works ok and what I can't do, I make up for with some tongue and finger action. Lots of large guys figure that their size is good enough, I pity them. And I'm fortunate because my wife has no problem deep throating me.

(For anyone too dim to note, this post is meant to be taken as a lighthearted attempt at humor).

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Bobmi357
I don't think the women of this board are really going to admit that size does matter to them. Mainly I believe this for a couple reasons.

1) Whomever their main squeeze is, no matter what his size, nothing can be done about it. Therefore complaining about the size is a complete waste of time for women.

2) If women did admit size matters, then they would be admitting that for all these years when they've been saying size doesn't matter, they have been lying. And a woman, especially a wife, will not easily admit to being wrong about something to their husband.

3) Assuming size does matter, then women would have to stop complaining to us guys about our fixation on penis size. Giving up a complaint? You might as well ask them to burn their charge cards!

So women claim size doesn't matter, then go GAA GAA over some oversized studmuffin who gave up most of his IQ for penis length. It most definitely sends a mixed message to the guys of the world. And then women wonder why we're confused by them?

Shrug, I'm a shorty, I know it, I don't like it, but it works ok and what I can't do, I make up for with some tongue and finger action. Lots of large guys figure that their size is good enough, I pity them. And I'm fortunate because my wife has no problem deep throating me.

(For anyone too dim to note, this post is meant to be taken as a lighthearted attempt at humor).

Damn Bob you're funny! Yup give me an 'oversized studmuffin'. Talk is over rated...so is intelligence...and doesn't matter what his face looks like...or his personality for that matter either. Just make sure he's big enough so my eyes pop out when I get a look at him...I choke, gag and vomit when I lovingly take him into my mouth....my ass cries for mercy when he rams his mammoth cock into it....and it feels like my pussy reaches my chest when he thrusts his rod into my cervix. Yeah baby give it to me

Of course size matters.

 

[Bobmi357]

Damn Bob you're funny! Yup give me an 'oversized studmuffin'. Talk is over rated...so is intelligence...and doesn't matter what his face looks like...or his personality for that matter either. Just make sure he's big enough so my eyes pop out when I get a look at him...I choke, gag and vomit when I lovingly take him into my mouth....my ass cries for mercy when he rams his mammoth cock into it....and it feels like my pussy reaches my chest when he thrusts his rod into my cervix. Yeah baby give it to me

Of course size matters.

Lord Save us from oversized studmuffins with low IQ's. They just might mistake your screams of pain for cries of joy.

 

[morninggirl5]

Interesting. Someone that talks in brain volume. I would think that the volume wouldn't be as important as how much control over it a person has. Someone using, say 50% of their brain mass, even at 1300cc's would be smarter than someone using only 10% of a 1500cc brain.

Only use 50% of your brain mass?????? Perish the thought, that is definitely NOT allowed.

 

[razon]

I think size does matter for some women as I think size matters for some men and I don't see anything wrong with admitting that.

But I also don't assume a woman is lying when she says size doesn't matter or that she prefers a more average size. My question is: why would someone lie about that on a BB where they are pretty much anonymous anyway? I think it all works out in the end. The preferences balance out. Does that make sense?

There are other things that matter much more to me and most of them are lifestyle choices and results of those choices rather than what a guy is born with. (Unless he's born with too much. Eeek!)

When a man says boob size doesn't matter I believe him. Only because I can see that they are lovely and how can a man resist? Maybe more is better but less is pretty too and sometimes better, depending on preference.

I am amazed at how many erotic stories star "the biggest cock I ever saw". Yeah? Now what do you do with the leftovers? But there are never leftovers in the stories. It cracks me laugh.

I do agree with what somebody else up there said about fitting together (or something like that). It's a compatibility issue and not everybody is compatible with a large size.

 

[kiwis29]

To answer your questions 4 x 4in....I never feel shortchanged..My husband loves me and the foreplay is great and he loves to kiss me..I love to kiss when having sex so by the time penetration is used I am so onfire anyways, that it usually doesn't take long..Another thing about him being smaller is anal sex is great also..I don't feel like I am being ripped to shreads..Course anal sex doesn't happen very often for us unless I am super super hammered than maybe I offer him my ass..Put it this way..Last time was in March of 2003..LOL I told you it didn't happen very often.. I have been with guys that are big and it did feel great..I like that feeling when your eyes water cuz they are pushing your guts clear to your throat..But I love my husband and in or out of the bedroom we find other ways to make our sex life wonderful..Roleplaying, watersports..It all works out in the end.. and I usually am satisfied...same with him...

 

[4x4in]

To answer your questions 4 x 4in....I never feel shortchanged..My husband loves me and the foreplay is great and he loves to kiss me..I love to kiss when having sex so by the time penetration is used I am so onfire anyways, that it usually doesn't take long..Another thing about him being smaller is anal sex is great also..I don't feel like I am being ripped to shreads..Course anal sex doesn't happen very often for us unless I am super super hammered than maybe I offer him my ass..Put it this way..Last time was in March of 2003..LOL I told you it didn't happen very often.. I have been with guys that are big and it did feel great..I like that feeling when your eyes water cuz they are pushing your guts clear to your throat..But I love my husband and in or out of the bedroom we find other ways to make our sex life wonderful..Roleplaying, watersports..It all works out in the end.. and I usually am satisfied...same with him...

Kiwis,

Thanks, so much for the reply. An amazingly, frank, honest and helpful reply. I have a feeling that many/most women who are with smaller than average guys have similar feelings but are never able to express them and consequently they and their partners are probably seldom satisfied. Your husband is one lucky guy, but I'm sure he knows that.



4x4

 

[Cakegirl]

It's all a matter of personal taste. Everybody's different, and everybody likes different things. My best friend likes thin men. I like broad shouldered, bigger guys. Regardless of anything else, I simply would not be able to get physically turned on by her husband or any of her ex-boyfriends, and likewise for her with any of the guys I'm physically attracted to. It's just the way it is! Some guys like big tits, some guys like little tits, some guys don't care, as long as there are tits around! Some women like big dicks, some women like little dicks, and some women don't care what size the dick is, because it's the person on the end of the dick that is important for them. I prefer small-to-average dicks, but if I was in love or falling in love with someone, them admitting to me that their dick was enormous wouldn't matter.

Cakegirl

 

[Wulf7]

I don't think the women of this board are really going to admit that size does matter to them. Mainly I believe this for a couple reasons.

1) Whomever their main squeeze is, no matter what his size, nothing can be done about it. Therefore complaining about the size is a complete waste of time for women.

2) If women did admit size matters, then they would be admitting that for all these years when they've been saying size doesn't matter, they have been lying. And a woman, especially a wife, will not easily admit to being wrong about something to their husband.

3) Assuming size does matter, then women would have to stop complaining to us guys about our fixation on penis size. Giving up a complaint? You might as well ask them to burn their charge cards!

Indeed! They'd also have to give up complaining about guys obsessions with "big boobs"

 

[4x4in]

It's all a matter of personal taste. Everybody's different, and everybody likes different things. My best friend likes thin men. I like broad shouldered, bigger guys. Regardless of anything else, I simply would not be able to get physically turned on by her husband or any of her ex-boyfriends, and likewise for her with any of the guys I'm physically attracted to. It's just the way it is! Some guys like big tits, some guys like little tits, some guys don't care, as long as there are tits around! Some women like big dicks, some women like little dicks, and some women don't care what size the dick is, because it's the person on the end of the dick that is important for them. I prefer small-to-average dicks, but if I was in love or falling in love with someone, them admitting to me that their dick was enormous wouldn't matter.

Cakegirl

Cakegirl,

I pretty well agree with you except for some strange reason I've never read or heard a woman told how lucky she was to have a boyfriend whose dick was 4 inches in circumference. I have heard them express acceptance of average dicks but there again average is relative and quite often if not always as in the "eyes of the beholder".

I'm not saying that she can't/won't fall in love with, marry and live happily ever after with the guy with the 4 inch dick but I don't think the analogy is the same as with a person's build because of the physical aspect of the penis in sex, although I do agree that tit size does fit because as someone said previously, tit size is only important if you're titty fucking. Many of us honestly prefer small tits.

Bottom line is that we can't change what we were given but we can be a bit less deceptive and a lot more proactive but only if we are honest with ourselves and each other. For example Kiwis seems to have done that quite well.

4x4

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Y'know, size isn't what matters to me. REAL-ness, however, is preferred. I would much rather squeeze and caress REAL boobs than fake ones, and I would much rather stroke an unaltered cock than one that's gone under the knife. My only exceptions, I believe, would be those who've had sex-change operations, and that, I consider to be extenuating circumstances. It's about being who you are, and who you are meant to be, not about changing what you are to please others, or to live up to society's view of what you should be.

 

[College_geek]

Okay, I won't really be saying anything new here, but I felt the need to post.

Size does matter...but not in the way that the majority of people think, joke, and talk about. Like previously said, it's a fit. Personally for me at this point in life where I'm still a virgin, a large penis frightens me. When I look at pictures, anything over 8 inches just frightens me (and on sites and such, they always try to find the largest possible guys, which just fuels this mistake of size matters). Actually, most men who are larger than that feel quite insecure about their size because a lot of women are actually afraid of large penises as well. The majority of men never seem to be happy with their size, much like how the majority of women are never happy with their breast size or their appearance. Our society just fuels these negative thoughts, always making us feel bad about ourselves, and some lucky souls are able to break through it, while others cannot.

Plus, guys who brag about size are usually pretty average at best. Guys who are large usually don't advertise as much. But in the end, it doesn't even matter. (a little Linkin Park for you all).