Does she want it?

[Pj2424143]

So last night I got the chance to go down on my longtime gf, after she came and squirted in my mouth she told me " I can't fuck you, I'm over stimulated".
Was this her way of saying my cock doesn't satisfy her.. Or she simply didn't want it

 

[C2W]

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My wife has had the same thing happen to her many times over the course of our thirty three year marriage... so is yours lying to you???
Find her pulse without being obvious, then ask her directly as you have stated it here--, then pay attention to any change in your heart rate. Watch her pupils at the same time for any correlation with her pulse.

 

[luvnmyboys]

i need a few minutes after an orgasm from oral to have sex, but i wouldn't say i can't do it.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

If she has just has a very intense clitoral orgasm, it can become extremely sensitive for quite some time after...to the point of real pain if it is touched even gently. Tho when that happens, there are still hands mouth and tits to give pleasure.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

So last night I got the chance to go down on my longtime gf, after she came and squirted in my mouth she told me " I can't fuck you, I'm over stimulated".
Was this her way of saying my cock doesn't satisfy her.. Or she simply didn't want it

Well, has this happened before? If this was an isolated incident then I wouldnt worry about it at all.

But yes, to be overstimulated or overly sensitive after cumming from intense oral is not uncommon and can be quite uncomfortable for sex afterwards.

From the little bit of information we have here, I dont think the jump to "my cock doesnt satisfy her" is reasonable.

 

[SophieUK]

My wife has had the same thing happen to her many times over the course of our thirty three year marriage... so is yours lying to you???
Find her pulse without being obvious, then ask her directly as you have stated it here--, then pay attention to any change in your heart rate. Watch her pupils at the same time for any correlation with her pulse.

1) This sounds like CSI.
2) I've yet to meet a man that could be this pragmatic during sex!!

 

[monkeyman057]

I've been with women that have reported the same thing. It's got nothing to do with your cock - it's got everything to do with how hard you just made her cum.

Pat yourself on the back and then ask her if she could finish you off another way, or finish yourself off while she watches. Also, in the future you might consider saving the oral for after you're finished so you don't get left hanging.

Reciprocation isn't always required but it's damn sure considerate on the part of your partner. If she makes a habit of leaving you high and dry after she's got hers then consider that a warning sign. If the shoe was on the other foot you can bet your ass that she would take exception to it.

Back on point though - she's giving you a totally legit excuse for passing on the PIV action. I've heard it a few times and talked to my partners about it. It happens.

 

[amofiga]

There are times when my wife will orgasm extremly intensly and multiple times or for an extended time through oral. When it's over, she's really not interested in fucking but would "let me fuck her" to get off or would just blow me. It's probably a relatively normal thing just like a guy isn't really interested in sex anymore after he cums. If a woman really really cums hard and it completely wrung out, it's probably not surprising that she's not interested (and indeed maybe too sensitive) to want to be pounded by some hard cock. First rule of good sex and a good sexual relationship.....it doesn't always have to include fucking.

 

[Pj2424143]

It's just she rarely wants to have sex (maybe once every three months) but she always wants me to go down on her

 

[Carnevil9]

It's just she rarely wants to have sex (maybe once every three months) but she always wants me to go down on her

Sounds like you need her to go down on you first.

 

[Pj2424143]

Sounds like you need her to go down on you first.

That sure as shit won't happen

 

[Pj2424143]

I think she knows she has the upper hand and likes it that way

 

[cynical_bitch]

Think of it this way: after you finish during sex, you you want her to keep fucking you immediately after?

Most guys I've been with pull out and need at least a ten minute break before thinking about going again. It's too sensitive right after finishing. The same goes for women. After I finish, I don't want to be touched at all because the feeling is too intense. I usually have sex first, and then once my guy is taken care of, he plays with me until I'm done.

If you still haven't gotten off and want to, try getting her to suck on you. That way you stay aroused and her body has a chance to cool off before you start round two.

Andddd if she only wants her to get you off, I'd say she's just being selfish. Refuse to sexually satisfy her until she agrees to give you some lovin'.

 

[Pj2424143]

Think of it this way: after you finish during sex, you you want her to keep fucking you immediately after?

Most guys I've been with pull out and need at least a ten minute break before thinking about going again. It's too sensitive right after finishing. The same goes for women. After I finish, I don't want to be touched at all because the feeling is too intense. I usually have sex first, and then once my guy is taken care of, he plays with me until I'm done.

If you still haven't gotten off and want to, try getting her to suck on you. That way you stay aroused and her body has a chance to cool off before you start round two.

Andddd if she only wants her to get you off, I'd say she's just being selfish. Refuse to sexually satisfy her until she agrees to give you some lovin'.

I can't refuse, I love sucking on her... It's just I get so hot after she cums all over my face I want a release to

 

[southern_gal]

I have had orgasms that made me laugh and have even cried before after a rather intense O. I cannot explain it but my doctor assured me it was nothing to worry about. I will say that during the time immediately after a moving O like that I really do not want any further stimulation anywhere close to that region.

 

[Litfanman_inGB]

Sure, it can happen. Sometimes they can even get a headache or migraine from the orgasm. There's not much that can be done about it. When I bring my wife to orgasm during oral, she immediately wants penetration. There have been a few times when she needed to recuperate though.

 

[monkeyman057]

I can't refuse, I love sucking on her... It's just I get so hot after she cums all over my face I want a release to

Then you've made your own bed my friend. It seems to me like you're happy with your arrangement. Why would she bother changing anything if she's getting everything that she needs and you're not requiring her to reciprocate?

If denial is your thing, you've got it. If it's not your thing then you need to have a talk with her. Relationships are two way streets.