Does it upset you when

Purrde Flower

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You cry over something? I hate to cry. I know that sometimes it is good for you to just let out a good bawl but I just can't stand it. To me it's a sign of weakness when those who can hurt you see it, strike and attack harder.
 
No, there isn't anything wrong with crying. People who treat you like shit when you cry are assholes. All there is to it.
 
I get mad if I cry when I'm frustrated. Its embarrassing if its in public. I cry sometimes when I get *really, really* pissed off. Its embarrassing if you cant control yourself in public.

But there's nothing like crying at a sad movie, sometimes people even think its cute.:cattail:
 
it doesn't bother me to cry..it does bother me to cry in front of certain people.

my current boss has a way of upsetting me and i feel like it's her personal mission to make me cry once a week. (i've only got 5 more days with her..and then..it's karate chop time!!)
 
You can only get stronger by recognizing what your weaknesses are and accepting them, then begin to move through them, turning them into strengths. Rather than fighting your flaws work in harmony with them, use them to your advantage. There's no shame in crying. We all cry. I cry when ever I see kids in pain, a look of sadness on a beautiful woman, or stick my face in a fan.
 
I end up crying if I get really aggravated or pissed. I hate, hate, hate crying. Not because it can be percieved as weak, but because my nose gets all red and my eyes get all puffy. Add the tears and snot and I'm a total mess. And... it gives me a headache.

Anyone who attacks a crying person is weak, in my opinion. Just leave the argument to a later date when they are up to it.
 
Oh, I'm the one who always bawls at sad movies - get the tissues ready!! But sometimes a good cry helps matters - good relaxation tool.

And you're right, Sillyman, people who make fun of you when you cry truly suck!!!
 
You cry over something?



Yes, at times I hate myself for crying over some thing.

I know there is nothing wrong with crying but at times I do think its a sign of weakness and I should be more in control - I hate losing control. * sigh*
 
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