Does it turn you on?

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Definitely a turn on. I love to see a woman with the confidence to take her own pleasure. However, some men may find it threatening, that you are able to give yourself what he can't. After a time, he may develop resentment towards you.
Try to coax his confidence by telling him you masturbate because you are turned on by him.
Randy
 
Huskie
I know what you mean. My ex thought i was a sick pervert from doing it. She would never do it and she thought I was a sex addict for wanting to. But then again she did not care for sex either. One of the reasons we divorced.
I think it is fun and enjoyable and something a couple can do together. I love to watch and to me, to see a woman doing it, is awesome. There is nothing more exciting then to see a woman pleasure herself and watching her get turned on.
I also want to say, that it is so cool to read so many of the people on here have partners that love sex as much as they do. That a blessing you all have. Some of us never had that or still don't which is one of the reasons we are on here. Count your blessings and go for it. This site is the best.
 
One of the great things about some of these open forums is that some people can read the threads and maybe realize that some of their sexual hangups are NOT relevent. Repressive parents, organized religion or maybe something a little darker in their past may have given them a totally warped view of all things sexual. Not only are these threads great for sharing info (like the GSpot thread on: TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK) and expanding sexual pleasure but getting people (not just women either) to realize that, providing you have a couple of consenting adults, virtually ANYTHING is OK. If ones' brain is turned on then the potential for pleasure is UNlimited.

And that's a good thing.
 
I think the most sex thing that could happen to a man coming back to home is finding his wife masturbating in the kitchen....
I'm just cumming just thinking to that!
 
Pussy stroking-yessssssssssssssss

Young Lady---Your husband is one strange dude if he isn't turned on watching you stroke that sweet pussy...My prick would be so hard a cat couldn't scratch it..When you finished I'd eat you out of your mind......So keep strokin it. :p :p
 
we luv it

Yes, a BIG turn on. We do it solo, together, watching one another, and helping each other out too. Great turn on for both of us.
 
I find nothing more sexy than seeing a women touch herself..Although i have not personally seen this I do have a friend who has sent me pics of herself and her dildo ..I think it is the sexiest think to see:devil:
 
InnocentAngel81 said:
I do it often but my boyfriend claims he never has the urge to do it

:p first off i love it when my girlfriend does it, she seems so innocent, but myself its only been a rare occasions for it to happen
 
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Show the way...

It’s a huge turn-on; however, some less experienced people might feel threatened. They might feel they were inadequate, and not up to the job at hand. A sensitive woman would take her partner’s hand, and show the way.
 
I can not think of anything I would rather see a woman do. I would want to join in though.:D
 
LittleIndianGrl said:
I am 28, female. I mastrubate almost every day, and my husband very rarely does. I find this unusual. I was wondering how people felt about a woman who masturbates (a lot or a little bit). Is it a turn-on or a turn-off?

Huge turn on. In my current relationship we enjoy watching each other. Then the joining in part is really fun :)
 
Hello all

Yes, i think it is an absolute turn on, I wish i could meet a woman so open to sexual things. To let me look is one thing, to join, when I think that she would slowly lead my hand to her special parts it would be an heavenly gift.
 
solitary pleasure

Like Woody Allen said, I'm very good because I practice a lot when I'm alone!;)
 
Prescription: Try this and call me in the morning!

LittleIndianGrl said:
I'm seeing some stuff that's helpful. We met on the internet several years ago, and back then, we had a lot of net and phone sex... all while we marturbated. But I think he has somehow gotten uncomforable with his own body. He has no problem with me marturbating, but he won't touch himself in front of me anymore. *shrug* i need to keep working on it. And I'm glad to know that I am not abnormal... that other women do it too.

Try the phone and net sex again; stir those memories of your first times together. Phone and net also take the body image out of the equation. Try calling him when you know he's home alone, or send him a steamy email. :devil:

Also, be sure that you're letting him know that YOU think he's sexy, that YOU are comfortable with his body. Worship it, let him hear you say aloud how much you want him. (Saying this while masturbating may be good too! :D ) Most guys are a bit insecure and all would love to hear themselves praised, their cocks in particular.
 
I think its definetly a huge turn on. I just wish my g/f would teach me how to masturbate her. I think masturbating each other would be very erotic.
 
Hello All,
From experience I have found that most men love to watch you finger yourself. Especially when they get to see everything. Pinkcat:cathappy:
 
Major turn on

Haveing just recently witnised first hand for the first time in my life a women masterbating infront of me hell yes it is a turn on it has allways been one of my fantesys :devil: :devil:
 
Oh, Yea

Yes it's defintly a turn on.

Ask you hubby to visit his family doctor. Perhaps a lack of testrone or case of depression. both affect desire and sex drive.

good luck

Mahalo
 
My husband (who is reading over my shoulder :rolleyes: ) says it's definately a turn on....and he ought to...I masturbate frequently and I always tell him I have...boy does that make him horny...*LOL* We have sex frequently and I've never done it because I feel unsatisfied..it's just something I've always done...I enjoy it and it relaxes me....the fact that my doing it turns him on is just a bonus. :devil:
 
LittleIndianGrl said:
I was wondering how people felt about a woman who masturbates (a lot or a little bit). Is it a turn-on or a turn-off?


A huge turn on!

Watching her pleasure herself is one of the most erotic things to experience
 
Nice quote Midnight Angel

Just say your quote, very ironic isn't it?

Loved the movie too?
 
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