Does it turn you on?

What a definite turn-on when my wife masturbates in front of me. It is even more exciting when she is "caught" pleasuring herself. When we were first married, She would not admit that she had ever masturbated. As we grew together, we would share our past experiences and as it turns out, there were times when I would come home early and nearly catch her masturbating. She would always 'get it together' before I got into the house. I never knew! Some time later, she would share these 'close encounters' with me and what a turn-on! She told me that nearly being caught was extremely arousing for her and that lead to some wild and exciting sex later that evening.
 
Watching

So I think the majority of us would say a great big YES to it being a turn on! *lol*
 
I know my partner loves to watch me masturbate. Some nights he'll get me extremely worked up so that he can sit back and watch me masturbate to orgasm. Other nights he'll add a hand (or a tongue) to make things interesting. Definitely a big turn on for him!
 
Phone Sex

I've only had phone sex two and a half times. But it was some of the intense sex I've ever, ever had. It shows how powerful the imagination is, and the power of words.

In fact, it's hard for me to think of phone sex as a kind of masturbation it is so intimate and fun.

What a wonderful thing to explore--anybody have any favorite techniques they use for phone sex--for seduction and carry through?

R.V.
 
I myself can safely say that i can think of nothing that excites me more than being allowed the privlage to watch a woman pleasure herself to ultimate ecstasy.

And the experiences i have had with phone sex have been very pleasurable ;)

The truth is that it is so personal, i would be glad to watch, hear or even be told about any such experiences!!

:cool:
 
Hi you all, very first reply,
As a husband, i love to watch my wife masturbate, I believe that most women do and the others are liars! hehe Just wished she would do it more often.
 
Zoey said:
Hi you all, very first reply,
As a husband, i love to watch my wife masturbate, I believe that most women do and the others are liars! hehe Just wished she would do it more often.

I would give anything to catch my wife doing it!!!
 
Have you ever thought to tell your wife/GF/SO to do it for you? As you play with yourself of course. ;)

Its what my man does. Directs me you might say. Would I do it without a little push? Probably not.
 
lovetoread said:
Have you ever thought to tell your wife/GF/SO to do it for you? As you play with yourself of course. ;)

Its what my man does. Directs me you might say. Would I do it without a little push? Probably not.


yep. she got mad at me for it.
 
Thats Right

vixenshe said:
first off, it's normal. Secondly, it's a turn on. It shows not only that a woman is libidinous, but also that she's willing to take matters into her own hands, she's independant, and she's horny enough to need to or want to play. Same question can be asked about men. I personally love watching a man get off, and I'm sure he would feel the same about watching me.
I definately would love to watch you <wink>
 
Oh gawd...

There is something so erotic about watching a man touch himself-

the way the fingers move in a dance he knows all too well...

the sound of his breathing as he moves...

his facial expressions....

mmmmmmm

I do so think watching a man masturbate is a turn on.
 
I absolutely love watching my guy masturbate, and he enjoys watching me too.

Another thing that is so erotic, is laying side by side, and masturbating each other, or, wrapping my hand around his while he's jacking off.

I find masturbating together is one of the most intense intimate moments two can share.

I love to catch him in the act as well. Or wake up to the sounds of a pumping hand and hard breathing!

Shaaaaaawing!

:D:
 
LittleIndianGrl said:
I've masturbated in front of him several times, right next to him on the bed, and he does not seem to be affected. So i thought maybe it was just a weird thing I do, but that "normal" women don't. Also, it seemed to me that women don't really do it. But I love it!
Well, you can tell by now surely that it's very widely practiced. I do it at least once a day, maybe to fruition, maybe not, but not 24 hours goes by that I don't t least make certain the pump is still primed. In addition, let me add that my s/o has a very rich collection of toys and techniques and doesn't hesitate to use them at will.
 
go for it

I see nothing wrong with you pleasuring yourself all day everyday i f you want to. It is a great way to get to know yourself and know what you like. Also, let your husband watch. I do it in front of my boyfriend all the time and it totally drives him wild. Show your husband as you are touching yourself what feels better and what feels best. Take his had and guide him.
 
Turn on!

My honey definitely likes it! He loves to hear about it and watching me. Sometimes, thats what gets it all going for us!

-Bel
 
stroking cock

I always stroke my cock after work. It is such a stress relief from the job I have. Yes thats right, I just got home from work. Anyone wanna watch<wink>
 
How should one act if your wife thought it was gross? What if she got mad or something?
 
Good darn question

Good question, huskie.
I need it daily--often at work. She doesn't appreciate it.
R.V.
 
Re: Good darn question

Random Variable said:
Good question, huskie.
I need it daily--often at work. She doesn't appreciate it.
R.V.

how should I act if she just shot me down? I know if I got mad back at her it wouldn't help or have the effect I WANT her to have, like "Oh baby let me help" more like "god thats gross. go to the bathroom"
 
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