Does it seem like psychological/mental domination is the dirty secret of bdsm?

[Betticus]

Finding any kind of actual relevant information on this topic is pretty frustrating. It seems that all you find is either totally nuts, perverted or just plain bullshit roleplay fantasy type stuff.

 

[HisArpy]

Well, it IS the internet. Nothing but dirty little secrets spread all over the universe for everyone to see and wank to.

 

[LucyBee01]

Got to rule the mind before you rule the pussy

 

[Bramblethorn]

Finding any kind of actual relevant information on this topic is pretty frustrating. It seems that all you find is either totally nuts, perverted or just plain bullshit roleplay fantasy type stuff.

Warren's "The Loving Dominant" is quite good on this.