sweetnpetite
Intellectual snob
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you know, nymphy said something in a previous thread about eating lots of reses cups (I thought of it today as I pulled a handful of minis out of a bag) that seemed to imply that if she ate too many she would gain (too much) weight. A common idea, but one that I -without conciously thinking about it- reject.
Does food really make you fat? Or are we just brainwashed into believing that it does?
For example, many people can eat anything and not gain an ounce, while others joke that if they even look at a pie, they will gain ten pounds. Maybe there is more to that joke after all.
I am the type of person who what I eat has never effected my weight. My birth control method effected my weight, my pregnancies (obviously) effected my weight, even some diet pills I once took effected my wieght. But food- no.
Now some people would say, "well that's just metabalism- of course (too much) food makes people fat." What a contradictory statement! Here what your really saying is that metabolism controls your weight (but apparently only in some) and then food controls your weight.
People are made to be different sizes, and I don't think it has to do with what they eat- *or* for that matter their matabolism (at least not soley) We've also been tought of course that size 6 is 'perfect' when in fact, it is not perfect for everyone. Imagine the girl who is meant to be a size 12 but is an 8 struggling and suffering because she's not yet 'perfect' Naturally, it happens all the time. Is it food that makes her a size 8? Is it her matabolism? Is it those things that make her body naturally want to be a size 12- I don't think so either.
In the case of extememly overweight people, I still believe that by and large (no pun intended) the food is not causing the weight gain. Attitudes about food and self, combined in large part with many of the chemicals we ingest have more to do with weight gain and loss. These things wreck havok on our bodies natural state of being.
I belive that you have to work hard to be overweight. As hard as we so often work to be underweight. (Truly over weight for you, not above societies perfect standard) I think that your body naturally gravitates to a comfortable and healthy medium, when given the chance. If you don't believe me, consider your average overwieght female in America. She's been told that she has no self control- and yet, she has been practicing self control from teh time she was 12- if not before. She's starved herself, dieted, chastized herself, denied herself- and all to no avail- the wieght either stays stubbornly on, or it simply comes right back (and usually brings friends) The constant dieting throws off the natural ballance of the body, making in all the harder for the woman to get to her correct weight. Instead, it feeds her insecurities about herself and her negative emotions and causing her to feel emotional pain and stress. And stress has been proven to signal the body to store fat.
So you may hate me when you see my imperfect size 10 body sitting around enjoying a handful of Reeses and not gaining an ounce. Or you may wrongly assume that I am either going to puke it up later, or work out later to burn it off.
But my suggestion instead is to A) Learn to love yourelf. B) Relax, Destress and C) Enjoy life. None of us live forever.
Does food really make you fat? Or are we just brainwashed into believing that it does?
For example, many people can eat anything and not gain an ounce, while others joke that if they even look at a pie, they will gain ten pounds. Maybe there is more to that joke after all.
I am the type of person who what I eat has never effected my weight. My birth control method effected my weight, my pregnancies (obviously) effected my weight, even some diet pills I once took effected my wieght. But food- no.
Now some people would say, "well that's just metabalism- of course (too much) food makes people fat." What a contradictory statement! Here what your really saying is that metabolism controls your weight (but apparently only in some) and then food controls your weight.
People are made to be different sizes, and I don't think it has to do with what they eat- *or* for that matter their matabolism (at least not soley) We've also been tought of course that size 6 is 'perfect' when in fact, it is not perfect for everyone. Imagine the girl who is meant to be a size 12 but is an 8 struggling and suffering because she's not yet 'perfect' Naturally, it happens all the time. Is it food that makes her a size 8? Is it her matabolism? Is it those things that make her body naturally want to be a size 12- I don't think so either.
In the case of extememly overweight people, I still believe that by and large (no pun intended) the food is not causing the weight gain. Attitudes about food and self, combined in large part with many of the chemicals we ingest have more to do with weight gain and loss. These things wreck havok on our bodies natural state of being.
I belive that you have to work hard to be overweight. As hard as we so often work to be underweight. (Truly over weight for you, not above societies perfect standard) I think that your body naturally gravitates to a comfortable and healthy medium, when given the chance. If you don't believe me, consider your average overwieght female in America. She's been told that she has no self control- and yet, she has been practicing self control from teh time she was 12- if not before. She's starved herself, dieted, chastized herself, denied herself- and all to no avail- the wieght either stays stubbornly on, or it simply comes right back (and usually brings friends) The constant dieting throws off the natural ballance of the body, making in all the harder for the woman to get to her correct weight. Instead, it feeds her insecurities about herself and her negative emotions and causing her to feel emotional pain and stress. And stress has been proven to signal the body to store fat.
So you may hate me when you see my imperfect size 10 body sitting around enjoying a handful of Reeses and not gaining an ounce. Or you may wrongly assume that I am either going to puke it up later, or work out later to burn it off.
But my suggestion instead is to A) Learn to love yourelf. B) Relax, Destress and C) Enjoy life. None of us live forever.