Does everyone here just talk?

[Susanthetart]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

 

[floatinfantazee]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

I hope you find what you're looking for,if only I was older & in the same country as you

 

[13Fantasies]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

I think there is a good deal of talk, yes, but there are stories of more.

 

[skirt_chaser]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

I'd say it's some of both, depending on how well you connect together.

 

[Corbal]

I assume you're referencing if people/litsters only talk about what they like sexually or if they act on it. I took your post as a challenge, almost as if it was rooted from someone who talked about something sexually with you but didn't follow through.

Talking and fantasizing about a kink is how one usually produces the desire carry it to fruition. In retrospect, ALL of us have been a newbie at some point sexually. Even the most sexually experienced people have things they want to try but have yet to explore. We rarely go from virgin status to mounting a St Andrews cross in the same breathe. Of course, there are exceptions but it is not as common.

So, to answer your question, I would say, yes, most of us start with seeing or reading something that seems alluring. That sparks interest and said interest may morph into desire and hopefully, at some point, they're able act on it.

On the opposite side, yes, there are people who are all talk, in life, and also in the bedroom.

In summary, too many write checks their ass can't cash. Due diligence; if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

 

[astra_aspera]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

Hi...interesting question. Some people use fantasy as a means to exercise that in real life with their partners. I'm interested in doing something with you so can we exchange information via PM to see what is feasible?

 

[LordofChocolateSauce]

In summary, too many write checks their ass can't cash.

but you need to count for the extreme outlier who does follow through. Making my way from down under to midwest, totally fulfilled a promise.

 

[Kimikimidoll]

In summary, too many write checks their ass can't cash. Due diligence; if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

Sometimes I feel I inadvertently do that. Recently someone I talk to online told me they don't believe half the things I can do, or say that I like (their argument was, "Who the hell actually likes that!?").. Their point was, everything I was saying sounded too good to be true.

Granted, they had a lot less experience than me, so maybe...

But there IS a big difference in talking, and doing... sometimes it's equal, better, worse..sometimes you don't end up doing the thing you planned because while doing it, you realize it's bo-ring.

I think I do suffer from 'performance anxiety' of sorts, and sex is unfortunately one of the things that's so tied up with the psyche, if I'm not doing 'amazing' then I feel like I'm doing shit.

As everyone else said, it's a lot of fun to fantasize, and a lot of fun do do stuff, but I think one should always not nessecarily mean the other.

 

[ab724u]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

I think people come here for many different reasons
Depends on what one is looking for.

 

[thedeepestsigh]

Sometimes it's a case of practicalities, when you consider timezones and geography. I'm in the UK but have dear friends in the states. So talking is what we do and it's not all smut, heavy breathing and panting. That only happens with him. I would love to say I don't walk to Daddy I run to Daddy. But in truth that's not what happens either. I get in the car and drive 162 miles to Daddy,and evey second with him is worth more than gold. And to answer the question to good to be true , he is and he most certainly is.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

I'm all talk.

 

[Adder4321]

I've never taken part in any of my fantasies, but not from a lack of trying.

 

[Porkwarrior]

I'm just wondering if most people in Lit just fantasize or is it more than talk

Careful what you wish for here, this is one of the few places where you'll find somebody that could make them come true.

I assume you're referencing if people/litsters only talk about what they like sexually or if they act on it. I took your post as a challenge, almost as if it was rooted from someone who talked about something sexually with you but didn't follow through.

Talking and fantasizing about a kink is how one usually produces the desire carry it to fruition. In retrospect, ALL of us have been a newbie at some point sexually. Even the most sexually experienced people have things they want to try but have yet to explore. We rarely go from virgin status to mounting a St Andrews cross in the same breathe. Of course, there are exceptions but it is not as common.

So, to answer your question, I would say, yes, most of us start with seeing or reading something that seems alluring. That sparks interest and said interest may morph into desire and hopefully, at some point, they're able act on it.

On the opposite side, yes, there are people who are all talk, in life, and also in the bedroom.

In summary, too many write checks their ass can't cash. Due diligence; if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

She put it better, lol.




I've always been amazed by posts from people that have been here longer than me saying things like "has anybody met anybody from the board" or "we've been PM'ing for X years, but we've never talked on the phone"...
Lit isn't Tinder, not only isn't it a dating site, but most here talk more than do.

 

[OldUncleJack]

Sometimes it's a case of practicalities, when you consider timezones and geography. I'm in the UK but have dear friends in the states. So talking is what we do and it's not all smut, heavy breathing and panting. That only happens with him. I would love to say I don't walk to Daddy I run to Daddy. But in truth that's not what happens either. I get in the car and drive 162 miles to Daddy,and evey second with him is worth more than gold. And to answer the question to good to be true , he is and he most certainly is.

*melts*

 

[lowphat]

I think too many people try to put labels on what Lit is. Lit is what you make it. No more, no less. There's nobody here telling you who you can talk to, or who you can hook up with. Just jump in and see where it takes you.

 

[OldUncleJack]

I think too many people try to put labels on what Lit is. Lit is what you make it. No more, no less. There's nobody here telling you who you can talk to, or who you can hook up with. Just jump in and see where it takes you.

exactly that!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I don't knit a lot of sweaters

 

[13Fantasies]

I'm all talk.

Hahahaha!