Does Ever Guy Have One Of These?

[Phil333]

Does Every Guy Have One Of These?

I'm talking about a best friend who is a girl, usually very good looking who you have wanted to go out with since you first met her. Several years later, still good friends and while girls have come and gone in the back of your mind you are still thinking about her. It's nagging you, like she's the one and you need to do something about it, but you have a great friendship and don't want to ruin it. OR you asked her out a while ago, maybe earlier on and are now good friends. You still want to be with her and either she wants to be with you but doesn't know if you are interested or still isn't interested.

So does every guy have one of these? Or had? Experiences??

-Phil

 

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[Guest]

I'm talking about a best friend who is a girl, usually very good looking who you have wanted to go out with since you first met her.

I had four of those. None of which I kept in contact with.

 

[Problem Child]

NO, this only happens to weak guys.

This scenario does not happen to me

Hanns is a world class giraffe fellator.

Have stepladder, will suck.

 

[Purple Haze]

 

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[peachykeen]

Honey, you must be a young 'un. This is called LIFE. God willing as long as you live you will have friends of the opposite sex you find attractive but for whatever reason are unavailable to you. Mayby she (or you, or both) is married, or a colleague, or whatever. This is all part of what keeps life interesting. A long-standing flirtation can be a fantastic thing for keeping you on your toes. Get used to it.

 

[Phil333]

no flirtation, no marriage and yes i am young. I'm not saying having attractive female friends is bad, I'm saying do a lot of other guys have that one really good looking GirlFriend who in the back of your mind you have always wanted something more with?

 

[Chuckwrox]

No. I've had friends I was attracted to, but not one that I kept coming back to with masochistic frustration.

Ew. Just imagining it gives me the willies. The helplessness, the friustration, the pain of pining for someone I can't/won't have. Gives me the willies.

 

[peachykeen]

No. I've had friends I was attracted to, but not one that I kept coming back to with masochistic frustration.

Ew. Just imagining it gives me the willies. The helplessness, the friustration, the pain of pining for someone I can't/won't have. Gives me the willies.

so that would be a highly defensive "yes", then.

 

[Aquila]

Yup I've had one of those..
Got burned, never again.