Does Confidence in a Person Turn YOU On?

[juicylips]

I don't necessarily mean arrogance or aggressiveness. Just a quiet self acceptance and assuredness someone has about their sexuality. They just seem to KNOW what they want and how they want it.

When you meet someone like that, are you drawn to them?


Do you project confidence?

JL

 

[Spinaroonie]

Nah. People who are attempting suicide are realllly hot.

 

[SleepingWarrior]

I'm drawn to women who are self confident, but then again to some degree I am also drawn to women with low confidence.

And no, I don't project confidence at all. Must have confidence to project it.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Hell yeah it does. That's the good stuff, and mix that with some funny...you got yourself a man salad. Yummy time.

I've heard from others that I'm confident. I kick a little ass here and there, so I can only agree.

 

[glamorilla]

I'm shy.

 

[cybergirly]

confidence is a huge turn on. I want a person who knows what they want and are not afraid to go get it.
I'm confident in some areas of my life, but not in others.
Hey, I'm working on it.

 

[VanB]

Confidence is a must. That belief in self that allows someone to be considerate to others.

If you don't have self confidence you will worry more about yourself than your partner/prospective partner.

Loud overbearing people generally are not confident

 

[Sillyman]

Confidence isn't really the first trait I look at so much as intelligence. Plus, most of the women I seem attracted to end up being really insecure about themselves.

 

[juicylips]

Confidence is a must. That belief in self that allows someone to be considerate to others.

If you don't have self confidence you will worry more about yourself than your partner/prospective partner.

Loud overbearing people generally are not confident

Morning, V

Missed you.
JL

 

[meop79]

I don't necessarily mean arrogance or aggressiveness. Just a quiet self acceptance and assuredness someone has about their sexuality. They just seem to KNOW what they want and how they want it.
When you meet someone like that, are you drawn to them?
Do you project confidence?
JL

Of course

And yes I do

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[VanB]

Morning, V

Missed you.
JL

Morning gorgeous - missed you too

 

[Summery]

Self confidence is definitely something I want in a SO. But, I seem to pick ones that end up more on the arrogant side. As for myself, it's not so cut and dry. Sometimes in certain situations, I feel I have complete confidence, and other times I definitely lack self confidence. A demon of mine I am working on. Insecurity can really suck!

*Waving hello to Happy Puppy* So nice to see you!

 

[Rex1960]

self confidence is a must
it might appear with some arrogance
but it's a turn-on for me to tear that wall down...

Rex

 

[meop79]

Unconditional love is the key to beating insecurity

Love yourself, love everybody who is not yourself

Arogance... hmmm not good....

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Rubyfruit]

Absolutely. It's the first thing that attracts me to a person. That and humor.

 

[CAROSI]

Confidence

Absolutely. It's the first thing that attracts me to a person. That and humor.

I'm confident that if I see one more enticing photo of Ruby, I'm going to need to run a bath and see if my Barbie doll wants to wrestle.

 

[Ukin]

I don't necessarily mean arrogance or aggressiveness. Just a quiet self acceptance and assuredness someone has about their sexuality. They just seem to KNOW what they want and how they want it.


JL

All I know is that I am confident and KNOW that I want to give pleasure to females..and I don't stop until they have had as many orgasms as they can take....I just love a confident woman...one who knows that she wants satisfaction..so yes, I am drawn to that type..and the quiet ones too..hell, I just love women!!

 

[Rubyfruit]

Re: Confidence

I'm confident that if I see one more enticing photo of Ruby, I'm going to need to run a bath and see if my Barbie doll wants to wrestle.

You still wrestle with your barbies?

 

[CAROSI]

Re: Re: Confidence

You still wrestle with your barbies?

She and the "big spitting monster" have had several encounters I need a referee Ruby

 

[VanB]

Self confidence is definitely something I want in a SO. But, I seem to pick ones that end up more on the arrogant side. As for myself, it's not so cut and dry. Sometimes in certain situations, I feel I have complete confidence, and other times I definitely lack self confidence. A demon of mine I am working on. Insecurity can really suck!

*Waving hello to Happy Puppy* So nice to see you!

Summery - you have every reason to be confident about yourself.

Nice to see you too

 

[meop79]

Re: Re: Re: Confidence

She and the "big spitting monster" have had several encounters I need a referee Ruby

Errrrmmmmm what a picture....

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Summery]

Summery - you have every reason to be confident about yourself.

Nice to see you too

Too sweet Van. Thank you.

 

[meop79]

Too sweet Van. Thank you.

Just my 0.02 but I think he's right

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Lovepotion69]

Self confidence is always a turn on, but when it starts to border on arrogance - forget it.

I just like my men to be self-confident in the sense that they are comfortable with themselves, and others. I find that you can tell a lot about someone when observing how they are around others. Especially around his/her own friends, and yours.

I'm shy when with ppl I don't know well. I'm outgoing and crazy with ppl I know.

 

[meop79]

Exactly lovepotion69

But arogance and self confidence are two different things.... totally different...

Self confidence is all about being sure of yourself and being happy with who you are.

Arogance is a fealing of superiority.... bad news....

Meop79@yahoo.com