Does caring ALWAYS have to hurt?

[SpiceCake]

What the fuck is up with that?

 

[glamorilla]

it's only easy when it doesn't matter.

 

[bad kitty]

What the fuck is up with that?

In my experience yeah, but it also can have great rewards.

 

[SpiceCake]

it's only easy when it doesn't matter.

yup!

 

[christophe]

depends on the person you care for...they may opt to make it difficult...test your resolve

 

[sufisaint]

attachments always do...by there very nature they have to end.

 

[SpiceCake]

attachments always do...by there very nature they have to end.

and that sucks!

 

[Saint Valentine]

In my expirience, yes.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Be shallow...that cures the problem pretty well.

 

[SpiceCake]

Be shallow...that cures the problem pretty well.

I'm definitely looking at that option right now!

 

[Guru]

 

[sufisaint]

and that sucks!

but everything that is beautiful is temporary...thats what makes it so precious and alive...don't skim the shallow water...dive in deep, this moment is all you have...

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Shallow is good.

No, it isn't...but sometimes it is necessary.

 

[SpiceCake]

but everything that is beautiful is temporary...thats what makes it so precious and alive...don't skim the shallow water...dive in deep, this moment is all you have...

So true, but the pain lasts so long!!!

 

[JerseyBoy]

it's never the caring that hurts...just the disappointment it can bring

 

[sufisaint]

So true, but the pain lasts so long!!!

thats because you choose to hold onto it...

 

[SpiceCake]

it's never the caring that hurts...just the disappointment it can bring

you know - that is so right! EXACTLY!!

 

[dragonhearted]

and that sucks!

gives Spicecake a warm lingering hug...humming softly to her...stroking her hair....

it does, but the pain helps you to appreciate it when someone cares for you just as much as you care for them.

 

[SpiceCake]

gives Spicecake a warm lingering hug...humming softly to her...stroking her hair....

it does, but the pain helps you to appreciate it when someone cares for you just as much as you care for them.

"Thank you!" she whispers.

 

[Guest]

A lot of cheap words in this thread.

 

[WynEternal]

I think caring is the mark of a truely special person, and yes it can hurt, especially if the feeling is not reciprocated. You can choose to hold on to it and make the pain linger, or you can let go, move on and know that you are a better person for caring.

 

[SpiceCake]

A lot of cheap words in this thread.

Good thing, 'cause I'm broke!

Always the sensitive one, arent' ya CV?

 

[dragonhearted]

"Thank you!" she whispers.

softly, she replies "You're welcome dear.."