do you want a hint about my identity?

[sunstruck]

All this over a hand on the leg?

I haven't much liked Lo during my time here, but to see him castigated as one step from a rapist for hitting on a woman is a little much. If every woman went off their rocker this much every time a guy put his hand on our legs, they'd all be in jail.

That was pretty much my point. Wasn't there a boob grab too though?

Either way, it sounds like a typical night out in a club to me. And usually, if it's really crowded, I have no idea who just cupped my ass or slid a hand around my chest. By the time I turn around it's just a mass of bodies. So I ignore it. It's not that big a deal. If I made myself feel violated every time that happened I'd have to give up concerts and clubs forever. What fun would that be?

The thing people have to remember about Littogethers is, no matter how innocent the setting, even if there was no alcohol involved and it was just a picnic in the park, it's going to be a sexually charged situation.

Why? You all met on a freakin' porn board! lol Half the people who seem to attend Littogethers have posted naked or partially naked pics of themselves on lit. The people going to the events HAVE SEEN YOU NAKED.

Now, I'm not saying that's a bad thing, but think about it. How often do people usually meet others who've tits and ass or cock or pussy they've already seen? Pretty fuckin' rarely. And people are going to be thinking about it. "I've seen your nipples" is going to pass through their brains. And once it does the charge has happened. Boom, sex is in the air.

It's not that difficult to fathom someone getting a little touchy feely when they've had a few drinks. You pretty much have to expect it.

 

[DarkAngel]

You mean people don't have self control...

 

[Lancecastor]

That's funny, I managed to let him know our flirting wasn't going any further before his hands were anywhere they were unwelcome and without showing off my blowjob skills on my dinner.

If I were living with someone, and another guy put his arm around me and his hand on my leg, it wouldn't be there for hours. It wouldn't be there for thirty seconds.

Guess we have a different definition of the requirements of being polite. *shrugs*

Intrigued was leading Lobito on.

And now she protesteth too much to be credible.

I say she was wet the whoooole time.

 

[Freya]

Nobody grabbed my boob at our Lit together. Bastards.

But yeh, you're right. Again.

*sigh*


Errr....that was to Sunny. Damn faster posters.

 

[intrigued]

Here's what happened, as I recall it:

She arrived late to the restaurant, and ordered her dinner. In the meanwhile, I noticed that his hand was resting on her leg as he was talking to her. His hand crept up and - to her credit - she politely rebuffed his advances.

Later, she was eating her dinner. Nora asked to take a picture of her. She wanted to make it a little racy, so she picked an asparagus spear off of her plate and sucked the butter off of it in a suggestive manner. That was the wildest thing she did all night.

There was no impropriety done on her part. She mingled, she danced, she had a good time.

Mind you, intrigued still has a large part of the old-school "southern belle" in her. Very polite, prim and proper. She makes sure that what she does is right in her mind before doing it, and if she happens to be in the wrong, she apologizes for it.

As I see it, she has made atonemnt for her action here. And she shouldn't have to apologize for talking about it.

God bless you. After just reading Lo's blurt (Which BTW, all hell is gonna cut loose when Trail sees it) I have not lied in anything I have said. He knows what he did, Trail knows what he did because he stood there watching him do it, and he knows that he sent me a PM apologizing for groping my breast. Yet now he claims innoncence and that I'm a cunt. Oh man. Explain to me then why it is that one of your female friends PMed me telling me that you called her the next morning and told her about it?

Don't keep pushing me, Lo. I've bent over backwards apologizing to you, mostly because I understand you (You're just yet another man that wanted to get away with a little something more than he had a right to) and because I was wrong to name you. I've explained my side a dozen times, I have nothing more to say to you because now, after all this, you're calling me a lying cunt and blaming me for ruining your three years here. Don't you dare! You have total responsibility for your hands and your actions, as you are a grown man. Maybe you should have thought about that instead of blaming me for YOU doing what YOU did to me.

I never wanted anyone to judge you or stop being your friend, or even pick sides. I would hope your friends wouldn't do so, so if I've cost you friends, I'm truly sorry. I've lost too many to even count, so don't feel so all alone. It's been explained repeatedly why I responded to this whole mess as I did, I'll spare us all the repeat. Hell, I understand your world a lot more than you realize. I never wanted you hurt, which is why I took it as long as I could. That is why I kept Trail off you, that is why I never breathed a word of it when it happened, or anytime thereafter until yesterday when I was damned certain you were trolling me.

I cannot believe I've sat here all day just about in peices feeling so bad and worried about you and wondering how on earth you'd be able to continue here after all this, taking full blame for everything. What a fucking idiot I am. I was right about you the entire time. You may not be a troll, but you are a pitiful man seeking revenge on someone YOU hurt.

Fuck off, Mo, Xanax should help.

APhil, wherever you end up and whatever you decide to do, I'll be thinking of you and thanking God you spoke up. I enjoyed meeting you very much, and I especially appreciate your honesty. And I'm with you, this is no place for me.
I really appreciate this post, and YOU.

Pure Trash is now signing off. Don't bother PMing me anymore, NONE of you, I will no longer read anything from any one of you as I will never grace the halls of this fucked up, sickening place again. I don't give a fuck if you don't believe me, but this shit surpassed anything I've ever experienced here and it cut deep. I almost lost Trail that night because of you, lol, but as it turned out, that night turned a corner for us and as he is my world, what he knows to be the truth, and what Aphil knows to be the truth, is all that matters to me anymore. So you guys go on clapping him on the back and defending him and letting him getting away with what he did, and attacking me for handling myself with decorum, saving his ass, and taking way too much crap from him. I've confessed all that I did wrong, I've apologized repeatedly, but I'll be damned if I'm passing out any blood samples.


One more time, thank you APhil. Thank you very much. I hate losing contact with you, but I damn sure do understand it.

 

[glamorilla]

personally i think its the ones denying it the most who are supplying it here.

they've even trolled themselves.

intrigued hun...take a lit break.

please.

 

[Debbie]

I see guileful has managed to achieve it's goal of starting as much crap as possible.

Causing suspicion, distrust and a lot of nastiness.

From my POV guileful is either several different posters or one person who has managed to glean info from the boards or through gossip.

There will be people here who have an inkling of who this person is based on the snippets they know about the posters here.

Either way I feel we let the troll win if people start leaving or mistrusting their friends.

intrigued, there have been many of us who have stuck up for you or tried to be honest and helpful to you.

We are not all mean in this place you now see as sickening.

Sometimes the flowers get missed amongst the scatterings of poo. Or else the flowers get ignored. Because negativity gets a better response than the positive stuff that does happen here.

This place can't be that bad since you and Trail found each other through lit.




As for lo? I hope he changes his mind and comes back to the board.

 

[Cheyenne]

And I'm with you, this is no place for me.
I really appreciate this post, and YOU.

Pure Trash is now signing off. Don't bother PMing me anymore, NONE of you, I will no longer read anything from any one of you as I will never grace the halls of this fucked up, sickening place again.

You challenged the troll less than two months ago:

Me leave? Not a chance, so just grin and bear it and it wouldn't hurt for you to come up with some new material.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=256797&perpage=25&pagenumber=28

 

[JinXed]

As always Debbie, the voice of reason and sanity.


Intrigued hon, I don't think that blurty was really about you. You yourself have said that you hadn't had really any contact with Lo until just before the get together. So that 3 year comment can't be directed towards ya.

I agree with Glam, take a nice break, put all this crap behind ya and move on. Live and learn.

 

[sunstruck]

What blurty? There's a blurty now?

 

[Le Jacquelope]

And the plot thickens...


I'm not sure who went where, but I can look at that list and tell you who it most definitley isn't

Hey, Image!
Has Celine Dion started singing yet?

 

[freakygirl]

What blurty? There's a blurty now?

I think she meant the blurt thread post of Lobitos.

 

[freakygirl]

This one:

Thanks, You're a pathetic liar, and you know it. Several others do too. They just won't step up and defend me.

You musta been really doped up to make such scathing accusations and lies concerning me.

You've done a great job of wasting 3 years of my life for me and others. You'll never be forgotten, except it's for the wrong reasons. CUNT!

Goodbye Lit. Goodbye the friends I actually had. To the rest, FUCK YOU ALL!

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Mia, reread intrigueds posts.






According to intrigued he grabbed her breast and felt her legs.

He isn't a rapist.

I have had this happen many times. Especially where alcohol is served. It isn't pleasant but you deal with it.

I don't think guileful is lobito. The trolls intention was palin from the beginning. To cause trouble and mistrust amongst the board.

Stupid fucking men. Always so desperate for action that they're willing to try and cop a fucking feel uninvited.

People like that need to be shot so the rest of us don't suffer a bad name because of their crap.

 

[JinXed]

I think she meant the blurt thread post of Lobitos.

*nods*

God bless you. After just reading Lo's blurt (Which BTW, all hell is gonna cut loose when Trail sees it) I have not lied in anything I have said.

 

[freakygirl]

And jinxed I'm reading it as it's being directed to Intrigued.

I think the three year comment was the fact that Lobito has been here three years and now has (maybe) lost a lot of friendships that he had built in that time.

 

[sunstruck]

Ahhhhhhh.

Yeah, Lo was never anything but nice to me. I feel badly for him.

 

[guileful]

*nods*

she did lie
she said she didnt do anything kinky with her asparagus
aphil said she did

 

[JinXed]

It's possible but my honest opinion is he *may* have directed that towards Mia.

With whom he has a bit of a history with, not all good.

Mind you, someones blurt is open for interpretation unless they actually name the person.

 

[freakygirl]

It's possible but my honest opinion is he *may* have directed that towards Mia.

With whom he has a bit of a history with, not all good.

Mind you, someones blurt is open for interpretation unless they actually name the person.

Oh.. I guess you could be right. I had no idea that they had a bad history. I thought they were friends.

I stand corrected. I shouldn't assume things.

 

[JinXed]

Oh.. I guess you could be right. I had no idea that they had a bad history. I thought they were friends.

I stand corrected. I shouldn't assume things.

What I meant to say is it could have been towards more than just one person, including Mia.

I don't know, none of us do really.


er as far as that history the only I know of is from reading stuff on the boards over the past few years.

 

[Cheyenne]

Ahhhhhhh.

Yeah, Lo was never anything but nice to me. I feel badly for him.

ditto.

 

[Mia62]

It's possible but my honest opinion is he *may* have directed that towards Mia.

With whom he has a bit of a history with, not all good.

Mind you, someones blurt is open for interpretation unless they actually name the person.

Hold up a second here....there is no history between lobito and I...good or bad. Just because two people disagree over something and have no problems posting that they disagree does not equal a "history". Quit trying to create more drama in a big enough mess.

I have no idea who he directed his isolated blurt at.

What I meant to say is it could have been towards more than just one person, including Mia.

I don't know, none of us do really.


er as far as that history the only I know of is from reading stuff on the boards over the past few years.

Thank you for attempting to backpeddle here.

 

[Vilac]

Wow. Literally...*Wow.

I'm sitting here at work and just sifted through the 13 pages of nonsense that is this guileful thread and it blows my mind. I didn't even know this thread was here until 1 hr. ago...and I was linked to it since I've had the "guileful" alt on iggy since last week.

And people were wondering why I had hesitation to go to a Lit-together in the first place? lol....seems rather ironic now.

It's really too bad. I had some good feelings about meeting some genuinely nice people at that meet - and now the perception is blown, as well as part of the whole experience.

I was there the entire evening and even *I didn't catch some of the things that were going on at those tables, it seems.

This whole thread irritates me.

But...Lit has always adored a good witch-hunt from time to time. It was just those of us in St. Louis who provided the ammo for this particular one.

Carry on.

 

[Tx girl]

Ya know, i barely come here anymore. Not only is it hell to open the threads you can never get into chat.

Guileful, seems to me like your a huge dick. Why in the fuck would you want to open a can of worms? Oh wait thats right your a troll, low life, scum. Dude get real and get a life. Your messages are shit and all you want to do is hurt people.

Funny thing though is all these promises of you saying who you really are... Yet no one knows. Your a fucking pussy, a spinless one at that. No one here likes trolls.