Do you use risk in sexplay?

[SweetAnnie40]

(I know this isn't really a GLBT topic but you are my tribe so I'm posting here)

The real risk of being caught and exposed is a potent spice to any sex time... And if you don't get caught every once in a while, you aren't really being risky.

My boyfriend at the time and I tried to have sex in the dorm laundry room around 3am, me sitting on the running washer which felt damn good to start. We were really enjoying ourselves when a couple other co-eds popped in for some off-hours washes, yelped, laughed and ran out.

My hubby, the sissy, loves to risk being found out as a sissy and its happened a few times. Of course, hubby goes to lingerie stores, women's shoe stores, etc., tells them he's buying for himself so he's being exposed as a sissy but intentionally so that isn't really what I'm talking about.

Do you like to risk being seen/exposed while sex-playing? What is your favorite scenario to do? What happened when you were caught (if ever)?

 

[longhornfan]

I enjoy spending time in the mornings before my wife wakes up sitting around naked and going through the forum. It always causes precum to bubble out of me, often heavily. So I use a paper towel to catch it and wrap that around my dick. Occasionally she will get up early and come in to my cave. She has caught me three times, the last time she asked me what I was doing. I pulled off the paper towel and got a drop of precum in my finger. I offered it to her to taste and she shyed away. So I liked it off my finger myself. Oh the look I got for that...

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I enjoy spending time in the mornings before my wife wakes up sitting around naked and going through the forum. It always causes precum to bubble out of me, often heavily. So I use a paper towel to catch it and wrap that around my dick. Occasionally she will get up early and come in to my cave. She has caught me three times, the last time she asked me what I was doing. I pulled off the paper towel and got a drop of precum in my finger. I offered it to her to taste and she shyed away. So I liked it off my finger myself. Oh the look I got for that...

LOL, I love it! Thanks for sharing.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I'm surprised there aren't more people who enjoy adding some risk into their sex games. Anyone else?

 

[notnice66]

I am a serial monogamist cheater. I get in a serious relationship but can't resist screwing around, just quick casual flings, and always careful afterwards to wash the smell of pussy off my mouth, but maybe one day i will be careless...

 

[SamMalone12]

Interesting. Following.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I was pretty surprised that this original thread never took off but I'm drawn back to it in a very different context. Since I started the thread, I've discovered that I find bondage to be rather erotic and have developed a fine focus on that edge of true risk and vulnerability. Unfortunately I have only experimented with self-bondage (but that should change very soon YEA!). But toying with locking three of four wrist/ankle cuffs spread eagle on a bed with a hitachi wand humming on my pussy... fingering that last lock knowing I could be trapped there, stimulated for three hours before my hubby came home and released me. Even just getting that far, it would take me a few minutes to get totally free and would likely be caught... if not by my husband then by my son who is back home living with us or his girlfriend who moved in as well... I rather like the thought of her finding me... I suspect she might just take advantage of the situation.

 

[OpenMouth]

Back when we were in our 20s, my wife loved to get naked in woods, barns etc for me to fuck her. The closer to a footpath the better; she had a beautiful, lithe body with long legs, and I know she was excited at the thought of being seen with her legs apart and me inside her.

It makes things even harder for me nowadays, given her chronic disinterest in sex. Bastard menopause.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Back when we were in our 20s, my wife loved to get naked in woods, barns etc for me to fuck her. The closer to a footpath the better; she had a beautiful, lithe body with long legs, and I know she was excited at the thought of being seen with her legs apart and me inside her.

Only toyed a little with that sort of risk. Didn't hook me for more.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

One more try... almost everyone here indulges in risk to embrace and live out their sexual desires and fantasies. No one else finds that risk to amp up the arousal?

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

One more try... almost everyone here indulges in risk to embrace and live out their sexual desires and fantasies. No one else finds that risk to amp up the arousal?

Once I wore a pair go black satin and lace panties to a hockey game. Instead of going into a stall I stood at the urinal and if any of the other guys bothered to look they would see what I was wearing.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

Once I wore a pair go black satin and lace panties to a hockey game. Instead of going into a stall I stood at the urinal and if any of the other guys bothered to look they would see what I was wearing.

Thanks for sharing. So why did you do it? Was it arousing to do it? Or something else?

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Thanks for sharing. So why did you do it? Was it arousing to do it? Or something else?

For the excitement. I guess i wanted to see what reaction I would get if I was discovered.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

For the excitement. I guess i wanted to see what reaction I would get if I was discovered.

Hubby loves to go to the doctor in his lingerie and go shopping a lot where he has to confess to the pretty sales girls that he's buying for himself and wearing panties. If he can he'll try things on and get their opinion or judgment on sizing so they see him in his panties and in women's clothing, lingerie, and swim suits. Gives him lots of thrills.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

Hubby loves to go to the doctor in his lingerie and go shopping a lot where he has to confess to the pretty sales girls that he's buying for himself and wearing panties. If he can he'll try things on and get their opinion or judgment on sizing so they see him in his panties and in women's clothing, lingerie, and swim suits. Gives him lots of thrills.

I just went to the local drug store to pick up a few things. Since I’m teleworking I can finally get a chance to wear something sexy. I had to get some supplies for a possible hook up, new panty hose, condoms, and an enima, and when I went to the register the young lady gave me a coy wink. I wish I was wearing something that would have flashed the plum thong and pantyhose I was wearing...but I’m not that ambitious yet.

 

[SweetAnnie40]

I just went to the local drug store to pick up a few things. Since I’m teleworking I can finally get a chance to wear something sexy. I had to get some supplies for a possible hook up, new panty hose, condoms, and an enima, and when I went to the register the young lady gave me a coy wink. I wish I was wearing something that would have flashed the plum thong and pantyhose I was wearing...but I’m not that ambitious yet.

You should have worn women's yoga pants or tight leggings. But yeah, she knew exactly what was happening.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Riskier than I thought

Traveling by rail in Europe in my 20s I met an American woman around my same age. We hit it off, took seats on the train together and talked and flirted into the night. The train car was nearly full and most other passengers were sleeping there was a limit to how far we could go. In the next car though there was a private compartment that was unoccupied. We slipped in and alone at last started making out. About as soon as it became clear that we were going to have sex in the compartment the train pulled into some little town. We could hear people getting on and off, but it took forever for the train to start moving again and in the meantime we buttoned up and zipped up -- just in case, but we didn't leave the compartment.

It must've been half an hour before the train lurched to a start again and in a few minutes it was up to speed rolling down the tracks. We helped each other off with clothes, she laid back, spread her legs, i could feel her pubic hair with my erection as she guided me into....

The compartment door opened suddenly. A train conductor was standing in the doorway. I couldn't understand him, but I didn't have to to know that he was really pissed off. He gave us a minute to dress and get back to our seats in the open coach. We never had sex. In the morning she left the train in one town and I rode on to another. Never saw her again.

It was riskier than I thought, but even accepting that there was a small risk of being found out made the experience more exciting, much more worth doing.

If the conductor would've opened the door just a little later we might have made a baby.

 

[OpenMouth]

Riskier than I thought

Traveling by rail in Europe in my 20s I met an American woman around my same age. We hit it off, took seats on the train together and talked and flirted into the night. The train car was nearly full and most other passengers were sleeping there was a limit to how far we could go. In the next car though there was a private compartment that was unoccupied. We slipped in and alone at last started making out. About as soon as it became clear that we were going to have sex in the compartment the train pulled into some little town. We could hear people getting on and off, but it took forever for the train to start moving again and in the meantime we buttoned up and zipped up -- just in case, but we didn't leave the compartment.

It must've been half an hour before the train lurched to a start again and in a few minutes it was up to speed rolling down the tracks. We helped each other off with clothes, she laid back, spread her legs, i could feel her pubic hair with my erection as she guided me into....

The compartment door opened suddenly. A train conductor was standing in the doorway. I couldn't understand him, but I didn't have to to know that he was really pissed off. He gave us a minute to dress and get back to our seats in the open coach. We never had sex. In the morning she left the train in one town and I rode on to another. Never saw her again.

It was riskier than I thought, but even accepting that there was a small risk of being found out made the experience more exciting, much more worth doing.

If the conductor would've opened the door just a little later we might have made a baby.

That is a great story.

 

[PFWilly]

I’m not so much the risk taker, OTOH my wife...

Several years ago my fair lady began an affair with a coworker. He had a corner office space with floor to ceiling windows. The first time they did the deed was on his desk. Although the windows had a mirrored finish that made it difficult to see in from outside, from the inside they appeared completely transparent. The illusion that someone in a neighboring office building could be watching really heightened her arousal...on the sixth floor of the building.

 

[cuck72]

I was pretty surprised that this original thread never took off but I'm drawn back to it in a very different context. Since I started the thread, I've discovered that I find bondage to be rather erotic and have developed a fine focus on that edge of true risk and vulnerability. Unfortunately I have only experimented with self-bondage (but that should change very soon YEA!). But toying with locking three of four wrist/ankle cuffs spread eagle on a bed with a hitachi wand humming on my pussy... fingering that last lock knowing I could be trapped there, stimulated for three hours before my hubby came home and released me. Even just getting that far, it would take me a few minutes to get totally free and would likely be caught... if not by my husband then by my son who is back home living with us or his girlfriend who moved in as well... I rather like the thought of her finding me... I suspect she might just take advantage of the situation.

I like this, your son's girlfriend finding you in bondage.

 

[wcm59]

When my wife and I first hooked up we were pretty intent on fucking whenever possible. One night we had dinner at the Grove Park Inn in Asheville. Very upscale.
We wandered into the gardens after dinner. There was a little nook that we discovered and no one else seemed to notice it. I flipped her dress up and fucked her right there. Our only privacy was the darkness and a thin veil of vines. Fun but I prefer the bedroom.

 

[Marshill72]

Back when we were younger me and the wife had a few good fucks right along side the highway or a back road. I'd find somewhere and pull in and we'd get it on on the car good. If not that I would get road head ever now and then but more times than not shed lay her seat back and pull her shorts or pants down to her feet and I'd have a go rubbing her off. The car windows weren't tinted so I'm sure we were seen by a few truckers but we were never aware if the they saw anything. Past a few coos doing that stuff too. So I guess we were part exhibitionist and part risk takers. As far as anyone finding out our kinks I do get a thrill at the adult store when I'm looking for a new toy and tell them it's for her to use on me! There's only a handful of friends and family that probably know I like to get fucked in the ass.

 

[turbocs37]

I thoroughly enjoy sucking cock in public places. Over the years, I've serviced a lot of men on the walking trails at a local park. The prospect of being caught naked and on my knees with a stranger's cock buried in my throat is a HUGE turn-on. I have been caught a few times by women and men. A few times, I got to suck off the men who caught me but never did anything with the women. Very often I would take facials instead of swallowing so I could walk around with cum visible on my face. Been seen in that condition as well. Lately I've been cruising a nearby rest stop for stranger cum. I've sucked quite a few guys that way and there is a strong risk of exposure there. Only caught once, and the only thing he saw was the aftermath of the young man blasting my face with his big load. He didn't see me sucking.
For me, sex has become a time for me to be submissive, to be used by others. I love going to adult bookstores and getting naked and servicing every cock I can get and letting them cum on my face or in my mouth. After, I always thank them profusely for their load so everyone in the place knows what I did and why I'm there. What I've been looking for lately is a couple that comes in to let her get fucked bareback and then I get to clean her up after each man creampies her. I want to suck his cock clean too and then fluff whoever's next to fuck her. Also, I want the group, especially any women, to actively humiliate me while I'm performing my duties. I want them all to know me for the sissy cumslut I am.

 

[Erosfan]

I love to take risks in sex play. The thought of being caught is thrilling. Actually being caught might not be a good thing.
I love to receive road head and hand jobs while driving. My wife likes to surprise me at times.
One of my best memories was a hand job on the interstate, midday, with lots of traffic. She didn't try to hide what we were doing and she assured me later, we were seen.

 

[cuck72]

I'm a very perverted old uncle in my late 60's. I'd love to be exposed for my dirty stinky panty sniffing. I love to visit my divorced niece in her 40's and get into her dirty thongs and panties in her bathroom hamper. I just wonder how she would handle catching her old uncle jacking off sniffing her stinky pussy and ass in her thongs. I think it would be natural for her to be shocked, and probably disgusted. But I love the thought of her finally finding out that her dirty perverted old uncle thinks of eating her ass, and pussy. Then to think if it would get her excited after a while knowing I think of her sexually. It would be a little uncomfortable when we visit.