Do you think having a small to midsized penis makes a man less attractive as a

[ChemistryMike69]

Do you think having a small to midsized penis makes a man less attractive as a dominant male ? Does having a large cock make a man more attractive as a dominant male ?

 

[Miss Trickery]

depends on the person you're trying to attract. Some like em big, some don't, others don't even care. It's the way that you carry yourself, which determines if you're a dom or not. Not the size of your pant-snake (or worm).

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Do you think having a small to midsized penis makes a man less attractive as a dominant male ? Does having a large cock make a man more attractive as a dominant male ?

If having a big dick makes a man more attractive as a Dominant, I'm going to have to hang up my leathers!

Seriously, I'm Joe Average in the pants and so far I haven't had any complaints or subs running off giggling. They might try crawling away screaming, but that's after the SM play, not the sex! *evil grin*

 

[Xelebes]

Hey Mike.

 

[Kierae]

hell - honey there will always be a toy "bigger" than you so lose that notion. It's all about you and not the cock size.

 

[cati]

Seriously speaking, I don't think penis size has anything to do with your being considered more attractive as a Dominant. That's the same thing as asking a woman if they would find you more attractive if you had a larger than average dick, period. As someone has already said, it's up to the woman and what she wants in a man. Considering the average penis size, there aren't too many men out there who are exceptionally "well endowed" anyway.
I mean you aren't going to dominate your partner with your penis are you? It's whats going on in the head above your shoulders not the one below. Unless of course you are planning to use your dick as a flogger?

...my two cents

 

[Joe Schmoe]

...No

 

[cinnamonstick]

I think penis size has nothing to do with it.

 

[tealsphynx]

Shit if penis size has anything to do with dominance level...based on my sub's cock size I'd hate to see the size of a Doms cock..I think it would have to border on horse sized or something. Yeah, I completely agree with Kierae There wil ALWAYS be a toy bigger than you, so I guess it really shouldn't matter anyway.

 

[Epona's Chylde]

Most of us don't care. As long as its big enough to get the job done, we're happy.

Too big is actually a bad thing (makes oral and anal much more difficult!)

 

[Marquis]

Haven't we heard from you before?

MilwaukeeMike, was it, coming around asking little dick questions?

 

[RJMasters]

Yes. Not necessarily from a woman's perspective, but if you have a low self esteem issue which stems from feelings of inadequacy from the size of your dick, this can and will effect how you act or over-react in order to make up for the misconception that you don’t measure-up. It is this over-reaction or unfounded insecurity that usually makes a person less attractive as a Dominant.

Face it, some women like long thick cocks, but most are just happy to find a man that has enough blood to operate both heads in a sensible manner.

If your with a lady who isn't satisfied with your length, slap a 3-4 inch extension on ya and make her whimper.

 

[cati]

Too big is actually a bad thing (makes oral and anal much more difficult

Honestly, and can I be honest here? Loving oral as I do, if I swallow him up in one mouthful I'm not a happy camper. I'm sorry if I appear shallow in this respect, but I don't like having sex with men who have small dicks (not average, but smaller than small). I want to be able to feel him inside me, so being proportionate is a good thing, but then again give me enough to work with and I'm happy ..grinz.

I've never met a man who has apologized for having a smaller member. Maybe they hoped I wouldn't notice. I have had men who worried that they might hurt me with their larger penises tho'.
I would like to think (or so the story goes) that men who are lacking in that department tend to make up for it in other ways...shrugs. Nevertheless, I would never, ever turn a man away as a potential play partner because of penis size.

I found out through the grapevine that a certain "very strong" and respected Dominant, who we know personally, purportedly has a small dick (women like to talk, even femme Doms) This is something I would have preferred not to know about him. Does it change my feelings toward him as a "Dom" no of course not, but I can't forget about his penis size either.

 

[Epona's Chylde]

My opinion would be that "perfect" equal average-to slightly-larger-than-average. Overall, I'm much more concerned with girth than length. 5-6 inches is just plenty if he's thick. 8 inches and too thin doesn't sound fun at all!

 

[CutieMouse]

We are who we are with all our faults, our flaws and our glorious differences. I could give a rip how well endowed a Lover is; a nervous insecure must-compare-myself-to-porn-images attitude would result in my running the other direction...

 

[Miss Diva]

I been with guys whose dicks did not function fully but they could do miracles with their tongues

We all have our hang ups. And we just communicate our needs.

 

[h_i_s]

Do you think having a small to midsized penis makes a man less attractive as a dominant male ?

No.

Does having a large cock make a man more attractive as a dominant male ?

No.

A man's cock has never been the organ of priority in my book.
Some men with small sized cocks perform just fine (some of those, to an exceptional extreme). Some of them ... could make a woman wish she'd passed them by and chosen to go solo with a favorite dildo, vibrator, etc.
Some men with larger sized cocks perform just fine (some of those, to an exceptional extreme). Some of them ... could make a woman wish she'd passed them by and chosen to go solo with a favorite dildo, vibrator, etc.

A larger cock is not a guarantee of a good time. A smaller cock is not a guarantee of disappointment.

The organ which interests me the most, and would more likely impress me, is located between a man's ears, not his thighs. The larger the levels of creativity, the wider the span of the imagination & interest, & the higher the sense of his self confidence ... the more likely he will be capable of rocking my world.

If i had to choose between these two organs, and had to pick one over the other ... i'd choose the smaller endowed (or even impotent) and pass over the brain dead.

Give me a man with an active and perverted mind over a man with a big cock any day of the week.

 

[caela]

No.
No.

A man's cock has never been the organ of priority in my book.
Some men with small sized cocks perform just fine (some of those, to an exceptional extreme). Some of them ... could make a woman wish she'd passed them by and chosen to go solo with a favorite dildo, vibrator, etc.
Some men with larger sized cocks perform just fine (some of those, to an exceptional extreme). Some of them ... could make a woman wish she'd passed them by and chosen to go solo with a favorite dildo, vibrator, etc.

A larger cock is not a guarantee of a good time. A smaller cock is not a guarantee of disappointment.

The organ which interests me the most, and would more likely impress me, is located between a man's ears, not his thighs. The larger the levels of creativity, the wider the span of the imagination & interest, & the higher the sense of his self confidence ... the more likely he will be capable of rocking my world.

If i had to choose between these two organs, and had to pick one over the other ... i'd choose the smaller endowed (or even impotent) and pass over the brain dead.

Give me a man with an active and perverted mind over a man with a big cock any day of the week.

Very, very well put Sinnocent! Especially the last line.

 

[Vixandra]

Do you think having a small to midsized penis makes a man less attractive as a dominant male ? Does having a large cock make a man more attractive as a dominant male ?

Only if he worried obsessively about it.

Honestly- I don't have large breasts, doesn't make me any less attractive as a dominant female, in my opinion.
Its not the penis that establishes dominance, its the mind of the man controlling it.
Though I could see a problem with an overly endowed man- sub more scared of his penis then the rest of him, at least until shown otherwise.


Of course, I don't have a penis. So I could be wrong, it could be vitally important to one's ability to dominate another person. But I highly doubt it.

 

[cati]

Right on ... smiles.

You're the first person to mention breast size. The flip side of the coin.

 

[Joe Schmoe]

Shit if penis size has anything to do with dominance level...

Let's take that one step further...how would that equate to a Fem Dom? Strap-ons not included.

 

[shy slave]

Yes. Not necessarily from a woman's perspective, but if you have a low self esteem issue which stems from feelings of inadequacy from the size of your dick, this can and will effect how you act or over-react in order to make up for the misconception that you don’t measure-up. It is this over-reaction or unfounded insecurity that usually makes a person less attractive as a Dominant.

I agree with this completely. I have met men who have major issues all connected with the size of their cock.

I have learnt to keep walking, I won't nursemaid or stroke a poor ego when there are so many other things I can do.

I spent ten years of marriage in that situation, never again.

Frankly I would rather go and do the washing up than spend 30 secs reassuring him that its an ok size.

Call me a bitch but thats my reality *shrug*

 

[RJMasters]

.....

 

[graceanne]

Haven't we heard from you before?

MilwaukeeMike, was it, coming around asking little dick questions?

That's who it was! I haven't even checked out htis thread till now, cause I was sure it was like the other one.

But I'm bored, so here I am.

And no, it doesn't make a difference. Some women actually prefer them average. I have a friend who's pretty promiscuous and she actually can't take anything bigger than averge - it hurts her. She's the one with endometriosis(sp?). My mother also doesn't like men with bigger than average. (I told her htat was tmi - but I'm used to it.)

 

[Never]

Online it's not the size of your penis but the size of your post count.