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sno_22 said:
We have to exist, we are, therefore we exist - we may not exist as we think we do, but we have to exist in some manner whether as someones dream, an advanced races computer simulation, or a figment of daytime imagination we do exist
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For now, it is only in my imagination.
 
How to write a love letter...

1
Make a mental outline of what you want to say in the email. Keep it concise. You don't want a love letter sent via email to be several pages. Include only a page worth of sentiments in an email. Save the rest for written letters and personal conversation.

2
Choose your words carefully. Think about what she truly means to you. Never force a loving sentiment and never give compliments that aren't true. Nothing rings more false to the recipient of an email than praise about her punctuality when she characteristically arrives late everywhere she goes. Praise that tells a lover what you wish she were, rather than what she is, is equally damaging. Be positive.

3
Personalize the love letter by calling upon a memory that the two of you share. Explain how she made you feel by her very presence and explain why you behaved a certain way. Maybe share an inside joke that she didn't realize at the time. By calling a shared memory of joy to her mind, it will make her feel loved instantly.

4
Say "I love you" when you open the letter. Include it within the body of the email at least thrice. End the letter declaring your love yet again. Repetition of your love is an assuring and beautiful part of your love letter. Phrase it in other ways when possible, exclaiming your admiration and adoration equally.

5
Give her a compliment that you know she needs to hear. We all have special things that make us feel better and we all have glaring insecurities. Give her a compliment that will boost her confidence. You know her better than anybody. Show her your love through your reassurances.

6
Make a promise in the love letter. An email love letter, like all love letters, should include a promise of your love. If you can promise to love her forever, make that promise in the email. Make a promise to her that you can keep.



:heart:
 
Mrs.H said:
How to write a love letter...

1
Make a mental outline of what you want to say in the email. Keep it concise. You don't want a love letter sent via email to be several pages. Include only a page worth of sentiments in an email. Save the rest for written letters and personal conversation.

2
Choose your words carefully. Think about what she truly means to you. Never force a loving sentiment and never give compliments that aren't true. Nothing rings more false to the recipient of an email than praise about her punctuality when she characteristically arrives late everywhere she goes. Praise that tells a lover what you wish she were, rather than what she is, is equally damaging. Be positive.

3
Personalize the love letter by calling upon a memory that the two of you share. Explain how she made you feel by her very presence and explain why you behaved a certain way. Maybe share an inside joke that she didn't realize at the time. By calling a shared memory of joy to her mind, it will make her feel loved instantly.

4
Say "I love you" when you open the letter. Include it within the body of the email at least thrice. End the letter declaring your love yet again. Repetition of your love is an assuring and beautiful part of your love letter. Phrase it in other ways when possible, exclaiming your admiration and adoration equally.

5
Give her a compliment that you know she needs to hear. We all have special things that make us feel better and we all have glaring insecurities. Give her a compliment that will boost her confidence. You know her better than anybody. Show her your love through your reassurances.

6
Make a promise in the love letter. An email love letter, like all love letters, should include a promise of your love. If you can promise to love her forever, make that promise in the email. Make a promise to her that you can keep.



:heart:
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Good advice but most importantly is actually taking the time to do it.
 
I believe in that feeling... however, that sort of thing seems to be lost on my wife...
 
Relationships require management, like anything else in your life that's as big and complex. One way is to inject a little romance. Now, depending on your definition, you may have to redefine romance a little. It shouldn't always have a direct purpose; in other words, imagine romance as neither a means nor an end. Try to imagine it as something you do for her simply because you love her, and not necessarily to get sex later. I know its always easier said then done but here's some suggestions from Askmen.com

Number 10
Hand her a hot towel
While she's in the shower or taking a bath, throw her towel in the dryer for a few minutes. When she gets out, present her with the toasty towel. It's sweet and thoughtful; she'll love you for it.

Number 9
Give her a massage
She comes home from a horrendous day at work; she's exhausted and even a little bad-tempered. So what do you do? Offer to give her a massage. Using aromatherapy oils, focus on her neck and back, the areas that tend to tense up under stress and cause aches and pains. You can create a mood by dimming the lights and lighting candles; it creates a more relaxing and romantic environment.

Number 8
Bring her breakfast in bed
A classic gesture, breakfast in bed is the proverbial "oldie but goodie." Get up early on a Saturday or Sunday morning and prepare breakfast just the way she likes it, with toast, fresh fruit, cinnamon buns, whatever. Then surprise her by serving it to her in bed. Another great way for her to start the day.


Number 7
Write her romantic notes
The love letter or love note is an amazing thing; little effort is required to write her one, and yet you can express so much. So write her a few creative, unique love notes and leave them in unexpected places around the house. For example, in the morning, tape one to the bathroom mirror or to the coffee machine.

Number 6
Order in
Order in for dinner and have it waiting for her when she gets home. Create a romantic setting by recreating a restaurant feel on the dining room table (or in front of a fire, on the patio or wherever else you think might work), complete with plates, silverware and cloth napkins. For an extra romantic touch, add candles and a small vase with some flowers. Learn how to set a formal table and surprise her with your impeccable taste. Remember: the little details matter most.

Number 5
Start a fire
In the winter, get a fire going in the fireplace (if you have one, obviously). Then, set up some pillows and blankets, and uncork a bottle of wine. If you want to take things to the next level, have a romantic dinner sitting in front of that otherwise uneventful fireplace.

Number 4
Pack her lunch for work
Surprise her by making a lunch for her to take to work. It's an opportunity to be both thoughtful and romantic, since you can also slip in a love note or a flower. Furthermore, you can buy an individual slice of cake or pie from the grocery store, or some other dessert you know she likes.

Number 3
Show her feet a little TLC
Bad day or not, if she's been running around, her feet are probably sore. Prepare a foot bath for her and follow it up with a short foot massage. Then, if it feels right, paint her toenails. It might be best to make that last part spontaneous. If, for example, she's planning to do it herself, you can offer your services. You'll be surprised at how romantic -- even erotic -- it can be.

Number 2
Make her feel sexy with some lingerie
Lingerie is win-win. Your girl feels sexy and attractive wearing it, and the benefits for you go without saying. So buy her some nice lingerie and lay it out on the bed for her to find. Don't buy the sluttiest one you can find, because the point is to make her feel good about herself. Think about what she likes, what she'll feel good in, then combine that with your own tastes.

Number 1
Draw her a bath
The bathtub is one of the most romantic household locales. Ensure that it is clean, then draw her a hot bath and add bath beads or bubble bath. If all goes well, she'll invite you to join her.

Up the romance
All these romantic gestures will make your woman happy. If you get rewarded in the process, so much the better, but making those rewards your sole motivation can only lead to disappointment. Just try to do it for her, and see what happens; it will probably come back to you.
 
daus42 said:
Relationships require management, like anything else in your life that's as big and complex. One way is to inject a little romance. Now, depending on your definition, you may have to redefine romance a little. It shouldn't always have a direct purpose; in other words, imagine romance as neither a means nor an end. Try to imagine it as something you do for her simply because you love her, and not necessarily to get sex later. I know its always easier said then done but here's some suggestions from Askmen.com

Number 10
Hand her a hot towel
While she's in the shower or taking a bath, throw her towel in the dryer for a few minutes. When she gets out, present her with the toasty towel. It's sweet and thoughtful; she'll love you for it.

Number 9
Give her a massage
She comes home from a horrendous day at work; she's exhausted and even a little bad-tempered. So what do you do? Offer to give her a massage. Using aromatherapy oils, focus on her neck and back, the areas that tend to tense up under stress and cause aches and pains. You can create a mood by dimming the lights and lighting candles; it creates a more relaxing and romantic environment.

Number 8
Bring her breakfast in bed
A classic gesture, breakfast in bed is the proverbial "oldie but goodie." Get up early on a Saturday or Sunday morning and prepare breakfast just the way she likes it, with toast, fresh fruit, cinnamon buns, whatever. Then surprise her by serving it to her in bed. Another great way for her to start the day.


Number 7
Write her romantic notes
The love letter or love note is an amazing thing; little effort is required to write her one, and yet you can express so much. So write her a few creative, unique love notes and leave them in unexpected places around the house. For example, in the morning, tape one to the bathroom mirror or to the coffee machine.

Number 6
Order in
Order in for dinner and have it waiting for her when she gets home. Create a romantic setting by recreating a restaurant feel on the dining room table (or in front of a fire, on the patio or wherever else you think might work), complete with plates, silverware and cloth napkins. For an extra romantic touch, add candles and a small vase with some flowers. Learn how to set a formal table and surprise her with your impeccable taste. Remember: the little details matter most.

Number 5
Start a fire
In the winter, get a fire going in the fireplace (if you have one, obviously). Then, set up some pillows and blankets, and uncork a bottle of wine. If you want to take things to the next level, have a romantic dinner sitting in front of that otherwise uneventful fireplace.

Number 4
Pack her lunch for work
Surprise her by making a lunch for her to take to work. It's an opportunity to be both thoughtful and romantic, since you can also slip in a love note or a flower. Furthermore, you can buy an individual slice of cake or pie from the grocery store, or some other dessert you know she likes.

Number 3
Show her feet a little TLC
Bad day or not, if she's been running around, her feet are probably sore. Prepare a foot bath for her and follow it up with a short foot massage. Then, if it feels right, paint her toenails. It might be best to make that last part spontaneous. If, for example, she's planning to do it herself, you can offer your services. You'll be surprised at how romantic -- even erotic -- it can be.

Number 2
Make her feel sexy with some lingerie
Lingerie is win-win. Your girl feels sexy and attractive wearing it, and the benefits for you go without saying. So buy her some nice lingerie and lay it out on the bed for her to find. Don't buy the sluttiest one you can find, because the point is to make her feel good about herself. Think about what she likes, what she'll feel good in, then combine that with your own tastes.

Number 1
Draw her a bath
The bathtub is one of the most romantic household locales. Ensure that it is clean, then draw her a hot bath and add bath beads or bubble bath. If all goes well, she'll invite you to join her.

Up the romance
All these romantic gestures will make your woman happy. If you get rewarded in the process, so much the better, but making those rewards your sole motivation can only lead to disappointment. Just try to do it for her, and see what happens; it will probably come back to you.
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This is beautiful daus, thank you so much for sharing this.
 
Riles said:
-soft smile-

I think we all have stories of "One". Sometimes the fire burns hot and long and other times it smoulders out, leaving you with nothing but dust. The way I see it is you need to embrace the experience, acknowledge the positive ways that person changed you, then blow the ashes into the wind, because if I have learned anything over the years, it's that measuring all others against the "One" is an exercise in futility and completely undermines the potential of new possibilities.
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Riles, I believe there is no such thing as the "one" or a "soul mate". Every woman is different and special in their own way. Depending on what attracted them to you in the first place. Does it sting to break up? of course it does, but we move on and search again. Sometimes it comes to us, sometimes we have to chase it if we want it. We have memories and try to remember what mistakes were made in past relationships, in order not to make them again

Maybe after I've been with someone till my end of days, will I say, SHE was the "ONE"
 
InvisibleFriend said:
Riles, I believe there is no such thing as the "one" or a "soul mate". Every woman is different and special in their own way. Depending on what attracted them to you in the first place. Does it sting to break up? of course it does, but we move on and search again. Sometimes it comes to us, sometimes we have to chase it if we want it. We have memories and try to remember what mistakes were made in past relationships, in order not to make them again

Maybe after I've been with someone till my end of days, will I say, SHE was the "ONE"
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Hi InvisibleFriend how are you? Good to see you!!

I am in agreement with Riles about the one and a soul mate.

Just speaking from personal experience. It was many years ago, he is

no longer in my life but, it was wonderful and magical when he was.
 
I really have no reason to be here anymore so, in essence I guess I don't exist.
 
Mrs.H said:
Hi InvisibleFriend how are you? Good to see you!!

I am in agreement with Riles about the one and a soul mate.

Just speaking from personal experience. It was many years ago, he is

no longer in my life but, it was wonderful and magical when he was.
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Mrs.H, the Matchmaker ;) it's nice to see you again.

It may he that, after a while, the heart doesn't want to see any one person as the "one" ? Maybe saying some one is the "one" too early is a sign of doom? :(

Or maybe for me, it hasn't quite happened :rose:
 
InvisibleFriend said:
Mrs.H, the Matchmaker ;) it's nice to see you again.

It may he that, after a while, the heart doesn't want to see any one person as the "one" ? Maybe saying some one is the "one" too early is a sign of doom? :(

Or maybe for me, it hasn't quite happened :rose:
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Hello!

It's wonderful to see you as well.

I believe (being the eternal optimist) that for you? It hasn't quite

happened. You'll know it when it does. Your heart will sing.
 
Mrs.H said:
Hello!

It's wonderful to see you as well.

I believe (being the eternal optimist) that for you? It hasn't quite

happened. You'll know it when it does. Your heart will sing.
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I think the real trick is finding a heart that you can hear singing to you...

Too many people listen to themselves and miss what their interest is really saying to them. I hope that made sense, I believe this is why there are so many failures.
 
jiimmmy said:
I think the real trick is finding a heart that you can hear singing to you...

Too many people listen to themselves and miss what their interest is really saying to them. I hope that made sense, I believe this is why there are so many failures.
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BINGO!!!!

You hit the proverbial nail on the head!

You have to be listening for it and hear it singing to you!!
 
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