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Do You Really Exist?
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No no no sugar not down!! Maybe a tiny bit frustrated but not down.
I promise!!
Oh I love your kisses
How could I be down around you?
You can't...'cuz I'll pinch you......or *bootysmack* you.....or kiss your neck and let my hot breath sends chills..........or, you know; something else to take yer mind off bein' down....
ps. I MAY even brings you sum kaw-fee....
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I'm going to keep it short and sweet....Great thread Mrs.H
(((((((((((((Maggie))))))))))))))) Thank you, that means a lot to me.
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You can't...'cuz I'll pinch you......or *bootysmack* you.....or kiss your neck and let my hot breath sends chills..........or, you know; something else to take yer mind off bein' down....
ps. I MAY even brings you sum kaw-fee....
Where do I sign up for all of the above?
Sugar I am not down LOL!! Stop that....
I was doing the H'ettes hair today and, you know that
song I sent you? I had it loud.... she and I were
singing into the hairbrush and giggling ourselves silly.
I am too busy living a very wonderful life to be down.
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Hey Mrs. H, how's it going tonight?
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So far so good Mrs H. Got a 300 mile drive coming up early morning though... Hope you're having a good one!
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((((((((Mrs H)))))))) My goodness, I miss a day and you all get all deep & stuff on me! I agree, this has turned into a great thread. We all have that "One", don't we? Mine? He is another soul who longs for romance and a special spark in the relationship he has, but there is nothing and never will be. We shared an instant connection the first time we spoke, and if nothing else, I think we remind each other that that spark exists in our lives, even though we will never be together. In a way, it gives us both hope.
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Hello Miles with all of my left over smiles!!!!!!!!!!!
It's going wonderfully!! How are you?
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This is what I want when I get old and grey. I want to have someone who will adore me more than the day we met. I want to adore that someone more than I did the day we met.
I want to spend my life with someone that even though there are ups and downs........that TOGETHER we will get through them.......and come out stronger.
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Thank you Jenny
I am sorry that he will never be your "one" but am glad you
did have that special time together.
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He rarely calls her by her name. It is usually babe, sweetheart, darling,
and when he refers to her? It's "The Princess" "My Bride" and things like
that. She'll go into her bathroom and there will be a sticky note on her mirror
of "I love you." She does the same in return. She mails him love letters
to the house. They are constantly hugging, kissing, he pats her on the
butt and she'll giggle......... they are so in love.
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To find a prince, you gotta kiss some toads.
Foxy Brown
http://weeklyworldnews.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/toad_breedinga.jpg?w=375&h=200
Foxy Brown
http://weeklyworldnews.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/toad_breedinga.jpg?w=375&h=200
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This inspired me. I left a love note for my husband next to his alarm clock last night. He hasn't noticed it yet...
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This inspired me. I left a love note for my husband next to his alarm clock last night. He hasn't noticed it yet...
I hope he notices soon and properly appreciates honey
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I love that!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So romantic.......and sweet!!!!!
It really is!! They are such a delight to be around.
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Romantic Ideas.....
1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold your wife with hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip (discreetly).
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other…not sex)
16. One word…Foreplay.
17. Sit and talk.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Wear your lifemate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.
21. Wear your husband’s clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad…Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper “I love you”.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss and smell your wife’s hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say “I love you”, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry, etc.
36. Tell your wife that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, flirt with each other.
43. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in your lifemate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy your wife a ring.
47. Keep something special of your wife’s/your husband’s somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Displays of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell your wife about how you answered every question in math with her name. (Assuming you’re continuing your education).
53. Draw. (If you can.)
54. Let your wife sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss your wife’s stomach.
58. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.
59. Husbands like half-shirts.
60. Take your wife to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
61. Spaghetti…(Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. Tell your lifemate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.
67. Carry your wife to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your ‘safe’ relationship rules for your lifemate.
72. Make excuses to call your lifemate repeatedly in one day.
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.
74. Call from your business trip to tell your lifemate you were thing about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell your lifemate about them.
76. Drive home from work just to see your lifemate, before turning around and going back to a business meeting in the evening.
77. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Share your deepest convictions.
80. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your lifemate’s parents.
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush your wife’s hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to your lifemate.
84. Hang out with your lifemate’s friends, too.
85. Learn to listen.
86. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your lifemate.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to your lifemate.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Hot tubs are great.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for your lifemate when someone says unkind things about them.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
102. Groom your spouse. Ask to brush your wife’s hair when she gets out of the shower. Shave your husband’s face.
103. A Short Story – You know the guys that go around in restaurants and bars with the basket of roses selling them? My husband sought him out one evening before coming home from work, bought the entire basket of roses, and left them on my doorstep, then called me and told me to go to the front door! That was so romantic!
104. Be waiting at your mates car when they get off work, out of the beauty salon, get done grocery shopping…be creative!
105. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one…leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies… -Mark Ansley
106. Kiss your mate on their forehead.
107. While your lifemate is out. Put a bag of Hershey hugs on the door knob. Put rose peddles mixed with Hershey kisses on the floor leading to the bathroom with lights off. Candles for your light lined up all the way to the bathroom also. Two dozen roses lined all over the bathtub. With a card in plain view. And on the card write ” Now that I have hugged u before u walked in the door, kissed the ground that you walk on, and showered you with roses. Will you be mine 4-ever.” – Joseph Wade Stepp
108. I am in the military so for anyone that has a long distant relationship with their spouse. They can create a jewelry box, you can buy all you need at an inexpensive gift shop store, and decorate it with the things she likes to send you in her letter or emails, for example hearts and stars and stick them all over the box. Then inside the box you can write a thought for every day of what you remember as your great memories with her in your relationship, or things you like about her, reasons why you fell in love with her or even things you want to plan with her for the future. Then tell her when she receives this magic box that when ever she feels lonely like me when I am not with her or thinks of what I am thinking about throughout the day, she can open the box and be reminded that she is all I am thinking about.
109. Take a latex balloon (not inflated) and fill it with some confetti, a love note to your lifemate and a photo of yourself. Take the balloon to a balloon shop and have them fill it with helium while the items are still in the balloon. Attach a pin and a note that says; “Please pop” to the balloon string. Leave the balloon by your lifemate’s bedside before he/she wakes up in the morning. My husband really enjoyed this romantic action.
110. Post a Lovenote to her, even if she is with you, using her office/house address or care off her friend’s postal address.
1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold your wife with hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip (discreetly).
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other…not sex)
16. One word…Foreplay.
17. Sit and talk.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Wear your lifemate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.
21. Wear your husband’s clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad…Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper “I love you”.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss and smell your wife’s hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say “I love you”, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry, etc.
36. Tell your wife that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
40. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, flirt with each other.
43. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in your lifemate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy your wife a ring.
47. Keep something special of your wife’s/your husband’s somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Displays of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell your wife about how you answered every question in math with her name. (Assuming you’re continuing your education).
53. Draw. (If you can.)
54. Let your wife sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss your wife’s stomach.
58. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.
59. Husbands like half-shirts.
60. Take your wife to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
61. Spaghetti…(Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. Tell your lifemate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.
67. Carry your wife to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your ‘safe’ relationship rules for your lifemate.
72. Make excuses to call your lifemate repeatedly in one day.
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.
74. Call from your business trip to tell your lifemate you were thing about them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell your lifemate about them.
76. Drive home from work just to see your lifemate, before turning around and going back to a business meeting in the evening.
77. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Share your deepest convictions.
80. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your lifemate’s parents.
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush your wife’s hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to your lifemate.
84. Hang out with your lifemate’s friends, too.
85. Learn to listen.
86. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your lifemate.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to your lifemate.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Hot tubs are great.
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for your lifemate when someone says unkind things about them.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
102. Groom your spouse. Ask to brush your wife’s hair when she gets out of the shower. Shave your husband’s face.
103. A Short Story – You know the guys that go around in restaurants and bars with the basket of roses selling them? My husband sought him out one evening before coming home from work, bought the entire basket of roses, and left them on my doorstep, then called me and told me to go to the front door! That was so romantic!
104. Be waiting at your mates car when they get off work, out of the beauty salon, get done grocery shopping…be creative!
105. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one…leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies… -Mark Ansley
106. Kiss your mate on their forehead.
107. While your lifemate is out. Put a bag of Hershey hugs on the door knob. Put rose peddles mixed with Hershey kisses on the floor leading to the bathroom with lights off. Candles for your light lined up all the way to the bathroom also. Two dozen roses lined all over the bathtub. With a card in plain view. And on the card write ” Now that I have hugged u before u walked in the door, kissed the ground that you walk on, and showered you with roses. Will you be mine 4-ever.” – Joseph Wade Stepp
108. I am in the military so for anyone that has a long distant relationship with their spouse. They can create a jewelry box, you can buy all you need at an inexpensive gift shop store, and decorate it with the things she likes to send you in her letter or emails, for example hearts and stars and stick them all over the box. Then inside the box you can write a thought for every day of what you remember as your great memories with her in your relationship, or things you like about her, reasons why you fell in love with her or even things you want to plan with her for the future. Then tell her when she receives this magic box that when ever she feels lonely like me when I am not with her or thinks of what I am thinking about throughout the day, she can open the box and be reminded that she is all I am thinking about.
109. Take a latex balloon (not inflated) and fill it with some confetti, a love note to your lifemate and a photo of yourself. Take the balloon to a balloon shop and have them fill it with helium while the items are still in the balloon. Attach a pin and a note that says; “Please pop” to the balloon string. Leave the balloon by your lifemate’s bedside before he/she wakes up in the morning. My husband really enjoyed this romantic action.
110. Post a Lovenote to her, even if she is with you, using her office/house address or care off her friend’s postal address.
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Apologies for coming to Mrs.H's party late. But I saw this from Riles and it prompts a real question for me.
I get and understand what Riles says about the "One". The experience, the memories, the reawakening that I can love again, and yes the way it has changed me.
I also get that it can and does undermine my ability to have other relationships by always comparing what once was with what could be.
Sooooo....how do I get over it? Is it a matter of having enough time pass?
Sometimes the blowing of the ashes reveals the ember still glowing underneath.
Just having a reflective moment. Thanks Mrs.H for this thread...
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Romantic Ideas.....
1. Watch the sunset together.
and a sunrise now and again
2. Take showers together.
it saves water and is steamy fun
3. Back rubs/massages.
always
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with blacklight.
i lost my blacklight in the 70's along with the lava lamp
5. French Kiss.
mais oui!
6. Hold your wife with hands inside the back of her shirt.
best way to unstrap the bra too
7. Whisper to each other.
yes and mouthing the words is good too
8. Cook for each other.
with just an apron on is tasty
9. Skinny dip (discreetly).
or just go to a nude beach
10. Make out in the rain.
under an umbrella for me
11. Dress each other.
lay on your back and throw your legs up I'll get these panthose if it kills me
12. Undress each other.
does ripping the buttons off count?
13. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.
I call it lip mapping
14. Hold hands.
when ever where ever
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other…not sex)
Me always- her twice a year and on my birthday
16. One word…Foreplay.
second word- lots of, ohhh thats third as well
17. Sit and talk.
beats standing and yelling
18. Buy gifts for each other.
diamonds to dollar store- intent is everything
19. Roses.
long stem
20. Wear your lifemate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.
i prefer her natural scent
21. Wear your husband’s clothes.
Mens shirts are a timeless classic but if she wants the boxers have at it
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
go to the mountains away from the city lights for best effect
23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex.
the first three yes- but whats with the blacklights again
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
thousands of types of kisses too
25. Don’t wear underwear and let them find out.
discover is the best part
26. Kinky is bad…Blindfolds are good.
one mans kinky is another mans vanilla ice cream.....hey that just gave me another idea!
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then whisper “I love you”.
the jawbone connected to the collarbone, the collarbone connected to the.....
28. Bubble baths.
and submarine games
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
anf bring a blanket
30. Make love.
repeatedly
31. Write poetry for each other.
and limericks too.... the once was a girl with great legs........ l
32. Kiss and smell your wife’s hair.
mmmmmmmmm
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
given and recieved
34. Say “I love you”, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
j'adore
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry, etc.
working that poetry thing aren't we
36. Tell your wife that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie.
want and desire may not be the same
37. Spend every second possible together.
I think we all need out own time as well but I get the jist
38. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it.
she a Taurus- hello
39. Look into each other’s eyes.
gazing is better
40. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
its in man manual chapter 3
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
do pelvic undulations count?
42. When in public, flirt with each other.
yes but not to the get a room point
43. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.
she keep her money elsewhere
44. Put love notes in your lifemate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.
at the bottom of grocery list is my fav
45. Clothes are no fun.
i'm not giving up my leather speedo
46. Buy your wife a ring.
not to be rude but cock ring popped into my pervy brain
47. Keep something special of your wife’s/your husband’s somewhere where you see it everyday.
does wearing her panties qualify
48. Sing to each other.
i broke out an ozzie song just the other day
49. Read to each other.
from literotica or the book club?
50. PDA = Public Displays of Affection.
if you love her show the world
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
define "take advantage"
52. Tell your wife about how you answered every question in math with her name. (Assuming you’re continuing your education).
I didn't fair well with calc....but a sliderule has possiblities
53. Draw. (If you can.)
stick figures doing it is fun
54. Let your wife sit on your lap.
commere little girl- i have a surprise
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
reminds me a spot on the AT where a large carpet of moss provided quite alot of fun
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
the point is?
57. Kiss your wife’s stomach.
and lick it too
58. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.
comment censored by mods
59. Husbands like half-shirts.
skin-skin-skin
60. Take your wife to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
fuck that....go to a tapas restaurant cheapskate
61. Spaghetti…(Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
just make love before you go to dinner so your not stuffed
62. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
then move it to....hush up
63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.
i like the sound of panting
64. Dance together.
its veritical lovemaking
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
go to bearskinrug.com for the full effect
66. Tell your lifemate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.
lifemate isn't a word i use
67. Carry your wife to bed.
glad I keep up with my squats and lunges
68. Waterbeds are fun.
been many moons since I had one
69. You figure it out.
isn't that what a relationship is
70. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.
i like pig latin
71. Break every one of your ‘safe’ relationship rules for your lifemate.
easier said then done
72. Make excuses to call your lifemate repeatedly in one day.
texts too
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.
agreed
74. Call from your business trip to tell your lifemate you were thing about them.
skype
75. Remember your dreams and tell your lifemate about them.
i do and thats why she knows I'm crazy
76. Drive home from work just to see your lifemate, before turning around and going back to a business meeting in the evening.
nooner
77. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work.
honking is rude....call from your cell and tell her come to the front window
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
even about the clowns?
79. Share your deepest convictions.
done
80. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your lifemate’s parents.
be yourself but discretion is the better part of valor
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
where's my toga
82. Brush your wife’s hair out of her face for her.
especially if you got it tangles and sweaty
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to your lifemate.
what if you can only get to 93
84. Hang out with your lifemate’s friends, too.
group sex you say?
85. Learn to listen.
we are men don't ask the impossible
86. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
butter scene- last tango in paris
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
don't forget your off
88. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice.
will do
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
just stop fucking up
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your lifemate.
joy and comfort
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
anything
92. Really love each other.
trying to
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to your lifemate.
I first saw her working the stripper pole...it was lust at first sight....i had plenty of dollar bills.....
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren’t thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
I'll give every minute...seconds make my brain hurt
95. Hot tubs are great.
make waves
96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.
I Ove-Lay Ou-Yay
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
do it on twitter now
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
you hang up- no you hang up-you hang up
99. Sleep naked together.
was this covered already?
100. Stand up for your lifemate when someone says unkind things about them.
nobody says unking things about her except the kids did once and I corrected that
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
and always brush your teeth beforehand
102. Groom your spouse. Ask to brush your wife’s hair when she gets out of the shower. Shave your husband’s face.
can I shave her girl parts?
103. A Short Story – You know the guys that go around in restaurants and bars with the basket of roses selling them? My husband sought him out one evening before coming home from work, bought the entire basket of roses, and left them on my doorstep, then called me and told me to go to the front door! That was so romantic!
i went to home depot and bought her hanging baskets of flowers
104. Be waiting at your mates car when they get off work, out of the beauty salon, get done grocery shopping…be creative!
did a brit or aussie write this?
105. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one…leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies… -Mark Ansley
drippy
106. Kiss your mate on their forehead.
hell yeah!
107. While your lifemate is out. Put a bag of Hershey hugs on the door knob. Put rose peddles mixed with Hershey kisses on the floor leading to the bathroom with lights off. Candles for your light lined up all the way to the bathroom also. Two dozen roses lined all over the bathtub. With a card in plain view. And on the card write ” Now that I have hugged u before u walked in the door, kissed the ground that you walk on, and showered you with roses. Will you be mine 4-ever.” – Joseph Wade Stepp
he forgot the glad wrap
108. I am in the military so for anyone that has a long distant relationship with their spouse. They can create a jewelry box, you can buy all you need at an inexpensive gift shop store, and decorate it with the things she likes to send you in her letter or emails, for example hearts and stars and stick them all over the box. Then inside the box you can write a thought for every day of what you remember as your great memories with her in your relationship, or things you like about her, reasons why you fell in love with her or even things you want to plan with her for the future. Then tell her when she receives this magic box that when ever she feels lonely like me when I am not with her or thinks of what I am thinking about throughout the day, she can open the box and be reminded that she is all I am thinking about.
the post office has those $5 shipping packs I like
109. Take a latex balloon (not inflated) and fill it with some confetti, a love note to your lifemate and a photo of yourself. Take the balloon to a balloon shop and have them fill it with helium while the items are still in the balloon. Attach a pin and a note that says; “Please pop” to the balloon string. Leave the balloon by your lifemate’s bedside before he/she wakes up in the morning. My husband really enjoyed this romantic action.
will a latex condom work?
110. Post a Lovenote to her, even if she is with you, using her office/house address or care off her friend’s postal address.
huh? chalk on the driveway is easier
Thanks for posting Mrs H- great ideas and excuse my smart-ass remarks.
Apologies for coming to Mrs.H's party late. But I saw this from Riles and it prompts a real question for me.
I get and understand what Riles says about the "One". The experience, the memories, the reawakening that I can love again, and yes the way it has changed me.
I also get that it can and does undermine my ability to have other relationships by always comparing what once was with what could be.
Sooooo....how do I get over it? Is it a matter of having enough time pass?
Sometimes the blowing of the ashes reveals the ember still glowing underneath.
Just having a reflective moment. Thanks Mrs.H for this thread...
Rycat,
I'm sure there are others who can answer this from their experiences. For me, this is a learning process currently in the works.
I think the ways and means to 'moving on' are different for everyone. There's no written rule on how to gain closure. Some people use rebounds - ie. best way to get over one is to get under another. Others do a form of exorcism and kill off the lasting emotions. Or it can be a waiting game and they let time dull the memories.
I don't know if my situation has been unique or not, but I've been given the opportunity to work at this several times over and I have found that I gain more accurate perspective after repeated injury to both my pride and my heart. I am learning that rejection is both humbling and helpful, exposing weaknesses and taking the shine off the surface so I can see things as they really are. Painful, yes. But necessary too, since each time I have come back from sorrow to be much stronger and have my needs and wants better defined.
So maybe that's what you need? Take the shine off a little...
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Thank you Riles for the insight. Taking the shine off is easier said than done for me. It might be timing. I think for me it probably is the waiting game.
How long has it been for one's separation for what ever reason. It might be personalities as well. Who knows...to each his own I guess.
I have just recently been contacted by my past and we had a brief exchange. Good? Yeah I think so. The circumstances of our breakup left a lot to be desired but then I believe that goes for anyone of a million breakups doesn't it? We will talk some more.
What ever happens she will occupy a place in my heart till the day I die.
As I wondered about this the other day is it like the "first love" back in high school? Where our hearts are virginal?
Or...is this something that has been building up over the years in our primary R's and when we meet up with someone in the same place and all of a sudden a void is being filled we rush towards consummating the relationship?
*Reflective smile*...things to ponder. And a great place to ponder!
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