Do You Really Exist?

[janeyl]

We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.

Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love's light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.

Touched by An Angel - Maya Angelou

Wow, thank you

 

[Riles]

That sounds so painful!! I am so sorry to hear this. Glad it's setting

ok and you don't need surgery however.

It hurt like the devil, and worse when Mr. Riles literally hung a bag of ice off of it. But as we farm folk like to say, it was a long way from my heart. -wink-

Thanks for the kind thoughts.

 

[luvzmature]

Why would you think you missed the boat honey? You totally got it.

In my 10 years on Lit, there has only been one person that I shared

and bared my soul too. It was a magical feeling that I wish I could

have bottled. It would be so nice to have that again......... I wonder

though, is it possible. That is all.

That is one very lucky man

I bet he realizes it too.

To have a person laid bare before them

and be so vulnerable is a very scary proposition for both involved.

On his end unless he is less than worthy of such a gift

I bet he made (or makes) time and effort to include you into his life as much as possible

Unfortunately most of us on here are at the very least, in a relationship if not married.

So the occasion to be together can sometimes skip a day, a week, or more.

But if this person is anything like me, out of sight does not mean out of mind

I think about my special friend all the time and I try to make an effort to spend quality time with her either on line or on the phone.

Sometimes that isn't possible with our schedules though, and a lot of times it seems like we just miss each other.

I know she is disappointed when this happens as am I but I know she realized the commitments I have on a daily basis both with work and my home life.

It's not a perfect world out there and if I had my way we would both be together in real life. But her children are still at an age where they need a stable family, and I have my father I am taking care of in addition to a "less than perfect" real life relationship.

But she knows that when I just "stop by" and say hello that I wish I was able to be with her full time to share and bare my soul to her, which I have also done.

My 2 cents on the whole O.L. vs R.L.

Hope it helps Mrs.H...

 

[Mrs.H]

We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.

Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love's light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.

Touched by An Angel - Maya Angelou

Daus............. beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

 

[Mrs.H]

It hurt like the devil, and worse when Mr. Riles literally hung a bag of ice off of it. But as we farm folk like to say, it was a long way from my heart. -wink-

Thanks for the kind thoughts.

You're very welcome beautiful.

 

[Mrs.H]

That is one very lucky man

I bet he realizes it too.

To have a person laid bare before them

and be so vulnerable is a very scary proposition for both involved.

On his end unless he is less than worthy of such a gift

I bet he made (or makes) time and effort to include you into his life as much as possible

Unfortunately most of us on here are at the very least, in a relationship if not married.

So the occasion to be together can sometimes skip a day, a week, or more.

But if this person is anything like me, out of sight does not mean out of mind

I think about my special friend all the time and I try to make an effort to spend quality time with her either on line or on the phone.

Sometimes that isn't possible with our schedules though, and a lot of times it seems like we just miss each other.

I know she is disappointed when this happens as am I but I know she realized the commitments I have on a daily basis both with work and my home life.

It's not a perfect world out there and if I had my way we would both be together in real life. But her children are still at an age where they need a stable family, and I have my father I am taking care of in addition to a "less than perfect" real life relationship.

But she knows that when I just "stop by" and say hello that I wish I was able to be with her full time to share and bare my soul to her, which I have also done.

My 2 cents on the whole O.L. vs R.L.

Hope it helps Mrs.H...

He was in my life many years ago for two beautiful years.

He chose to end it on my birthday when he whispered in

my ear "Go home..." at the airport and walked away,

right after my plane had just landed to see him.

Thank you for your very nice note.

 

[garbage can]

He was in my life many years ago for two beautiful years.

He chose to end it on my birthday when he whispered in

my ear "Go home..." at the airport and walked away,

right after my plane had just landed to see him.

Thank you for your very nice note.

Wishing you many more beautiful years, Mrs.H................

 

[IhateClowns]

I am sure men like that exist, but I think it is difficult to find a man like that on a website such as this. Now you say in real life as well and I believe that it can be found.

As for finding it on here I think that shot is a 1 in a million type of situation. I cannot speak for the women, but as a man I can tell you that it would be difficult to stick with one woman on here. Whether in fantasy or in real life. Reason being is because you are surrounded by horny, willing and able bodies all around you. In the fantasy world and in some cases in person.

I came here for a couple of reasons. Couriosity of exactly what this place is, making friends, and flirting. If some more came of it then so be it, but I surely didn't come on here to end up with one person. I like a lot of men on here already have 1 person in my life.

It is difficult enough maintaining that relationship in real life. I cannot imagine trying to maintain one set up in a fantasy world. The amount of egos on here, the amount of flirting, the amount of sexual charge that goes on in here would make it nearly impossible for me to be faithful to an online/telephone relationship.

I think the same could be said for the women as well. Not all of you, but a vast majority. I have chatted with a few on here and they can be just as bad, just as naughty as some of us boys are. So i certainly think it is a two way street.

As for real life, I wouldnt be on this website if there wasn't something lacking at home. My wife is stunning, talented, and funny as hell. She is just unfortunately going through some issues and the medication she is on has squeezed her sex drive to basically nothing.

Maybe it isn't a health issue for the other married men on here, but I can tell you that there is something missing at home that brings them here. I would love to be everything that peom stands for to a woman, but if I am not getting it in return then after a while I will stop. So I think you hve to give to receive.

If you aren't getting what you want at home or on here, sure there is issues your partner is having, but start looking at what you are bringing to the table and ask what you can do differently to make your partner want to be those things to you.

There is way too much mistrust, way too much back stabbing, way too much sexual discussions on this site for me to ever think I could be with just one woman, no matter how awesome she is. Why is that? Because there are other women on here that bring something totally different then she could and since I come here for the fun and flirting as well as the friendships, i would want to explore what would happen with that new person.

As much as women want their man to be this ideal person they have in their heads, men want the same thing from their women. I am ready and willing to leave this site as soon as she figures out what is going on in her head and health. As soon as she does that there will be NO need for me to come here anymore. The friends I have made know who I am and how to get in touch with me. I would MUCH rather live in the real life then online. Unfortunately for me right now, the online life tends to be a bit more fun and less stressful then real life.

 

[Mrs.H]

Wishing you many more beautiful years, Mrs.H................

Well thank you kindly Mr. Garby, sir.........*curtsy*

 

[garbage can]

Well thank you kindly Mr. Garby, sir.........*curtsy*

BTW, Sweetie, you have one of my fav av's up....Mmmm..........

 

[Mrs.H]

I am sure men like that exist, but I think it is difficult to find a man like that on a website such as this. Now you say in real life as well and I believe that it can be found.

As for finding it on here I think that shot is a 1 in a million type of situation. I cannot speak for the women, but as a man I can tell you that it would be difficult to stick with one woman on here. Whether in fantasy or in real life. Reason being is because you are surrounded by horny, willing and able bodies all around you. In the fantasy world and in some cases in person.

I came here for a couple of reasons. Couriosity of exactly what this place is, making friends, and flirting. If some more came of it then so be it, but I surely didn't come on here to end up with one person. I like a lot of men on here already have 1 person in my life.

It is difficult enough maintaining that relationship in real life. I cannot imagine trying to maintain one set up in a fantasy world. The amount of egos on here, the amount of flirting, the amount of sexual charge that goes on in here would make it nearly impossible for me to be faithful to an online/telephone relationship.

I think the same could be said for the women as well. Not all of you, but a vast majority. I have chatted with a few on here and they can be just as bad, just as naughty as some of us boys are. So i certainly think it is a two way street.

As for real life, I wouldnt be on this website if there wasn't something lacking at home. My wife is stunning, talented, and funny as hell. She is just unfortunately going through some issues and the medication she is on has squeezed her sex drive to basically nothing.

Maybe it isn't a health issue for the other married men on here, but I can tell you that there is something missing at home that brings them here. I would love to be everything that peom stands for to a woman, but if I am not getting it in return then after a while I will stop. So I think you hve to give to receive.

If you aren't getting what you want at home or on here, sure there is issues your partner is having, but start looking at what you are bringing to the table and ask what you can do differently to make your partner want to be those things to you.

There is way too much mistrust, way too much back stabbing, way too much sexual discussions on this site for me to ever think I could be with just one woman, no matter how awesome she is. Why is that? Because there are other women on here that bring something totally different then she could and since I come here for the fun and flirting as well as the friendships, i would want to explore what would happen with that new person.

As much as women want their man to be this ideal person they have in their heads, men want the same thing from their women. I am ready and willing to leave this site as soon as she figures out what is going on in her head and health. As soon as she does that there will be NO need for me to come here anymore. The friends I have made know who I am and how to get in touch with me. I would MUCH rather live in the real life then online. Unfortunately for me right now, the online life tends to be a bit more fun and less stressful then real life.

I thank you for being so open and honest. Your insight

is so refreshing and so appreciated. Your wife is a very

lucky woman, I hope you realize that. Lots to think

about most definitely.

 

[Mrs.H]

BTW, Sweetie, you have one of my fav av's up....Mmmm..........

Thank you Garby you sweet talkin hunk of a man!!

 

[IhateClowns]

I thank you for being so open and honest. Your insight

is so refreshing and so appreciated. Your wife is a very

lucky woman, I hope you realize that. Lots to think

about most definitely.

I am not sure how lucky she is...lol I am here after all flirting around behind her back. I mean she knows I am on here but not to what extent. I hope that people that come on here for whatever intentions find what tey are looking for. I found what I was looking for as have others. Whether it is to break the boredom of the day and make friends, whether it is just to get off, or fal in love. Whatever the reason I hope it happens for them.

 

[m_anew1]

This is deep, heavy stuff. Out of my emotional league, and comprehension, for sure

 

[Mrs.H]

I am not sure how lucky she is...lol I am here after all flirting around behind her back. I mean she knows I am on here but not to what extent. I hope that people that come on here for whatever intentions find what tey are looking for. I found what I was looking for as have others. Whether it is to break the boredom of the day and make friends, whether it is just to get off, or fal in love. Whatever the reason I hope it happens for them.

She has your precious heart. That is why she is so lucky!!

 

[Mrs.H]

This is deep, heavy stuff. Out of my emotional league, and comprehension, for sure

Fair enough...... hope youre having a lovely evening.

 

[blade_rocknut]

Clowns makes some good points. Some folks here are MORE honest about many things than in RL....because the anonymity alowws more free expression. That same anonymity; however leads to much deceit here in the land of ten inch *%^@ and 36DD's.

It's no secret that I'm married, no secret that I flirt with about a hundred women here....I truly hope they all realize that....

 

[Mrs.H]

Clowns makes some good points. Some folks here are MORE honest about many things than in RL....because the anonymity alowws more free expression. That same anonymity; however leads to much deceit here in the land of ten inch *%^@ and 36DD's.

It's no secret that I'm married, no secret that I flirt with about a hundred women here....I truly hope they all realize that....

WHOAH.........

Ok......*catching my breath*

Just fuckin whoah......

One cotton pickin minute here.

You're married?

You were going to tell me? When?

*falling over laughing*

 

[thejabber27]

Kind men kill people?

No explosions kill kind men.

 

[blade_rocknut]

WHOAH.........

Ok......*catching my breath*

Just fuckin whoah......

One cotton pickin minute here.

You're married?

You were going to tell me? When?

*falling over laughing*

Shaddup & kiss meh, wuhman....

 

[luvzmature]

He was in my life many years ago for two beautiful years.

He chose to end it on my birthday when he whispered in

my ear "Go home..." at the airport and walked away,

right after my plane had just landed to see him.

Thank you for your very nice note.

I know. Thanks for reminding me. That is the coldest most mean hearted thing anyone has ever told me. No one, especially you deserve that.

And you are very welcome...

 

[Mrs.H]

No explosions kill kind men.

It's a good happy explosion though. Think and envision

hershey kisses all over the place.

 

[thejabber27]

It's a good happy explosion though. Think and envision

hershey kisses all over the place.

Well it'd kill me, I'm a diabetic lol. XD

 

[sno_22]

Actually, guys like that do exist. Unfortunately, many of them have serious battle scars that preclude them from being themselves. Thank the lying, cheating, asshole women out there that steal the innocence and hearts of good guys.

That leaves men, and women I know it goes both ways...that either run and hide from real relationships, or they just get in, get theirs, and get out before they can be used again.

Thankfully, I've had some women friends that have reminded me over and over that not all women are fucked up...it's the only thing keeping me from being a misogynist sometimes.

What he said

 

[Mrs.H]

Well it'd kill me, I'm a diabetic lol. XD

Then I will cut out 1,000s of tiny paper hearts, how does that sound?