Do You Really Exist?

-soft smile-

I think we all have stories of "One". Sometimes the fire burns hot and long and other times it smoulders out, leaving you with nothing but dust. The way I see it is you need to embrace the experience, acknowledge the positive ways that person changed you, then blow the ashes into the wind, because if I have learned anything over the years, it's that measuring all others against the "One" is an exercise in futility and completely undermines the potential of new possibilities.

Thank you Riles. This is absolutely perfect.

I too have that online friend who has left to get his life straightened out. I miss his friendship more than I ever thought I could... your words hit home today. He did have a very positive impact on my life and I am a better person because of the time we spent...:heart:
 
hey what the hell was that about a cast?????? are you okay???

Broke the navicular bone on my right arm while needling a cow in a chute. It's fine, it's weeks old now and setting properly without surgery thankfully.

:heart:'s for asking.

/hijack
 
Yes.

Inspired all the time? How would you know the difference? What was once extraordinary, becomes meerly ordinary. Contrast is needed to keep things fresh.


I'm sorry but I do not agree with you.

My parents? They dance in the kitchen. They leave love notes for one another

throughout their home, all the time. They hold hands when eating. There is

nothing ordinary about them. They found each other and they take so

little for granted.
 
Thank you Riles. This is absolutely perfect.

I too have that online friend who has left to get his life straightened out. I miss his friendship more than I ever thought I could... your words hit home today. He did have a very positive impact on my life and I am a better person because of the time we spent...:heart:

(((((((((((((((Kat)))))))))))))))) :heart:
 
Broke the navicular bone on my right arm while needling a cow in a chute. It's fine, it's weeks old now and setting properly without surgery thankfully.

:heart:'s for asking.

/hijack

just wanted to make sure it didnt interfere with your "diddling":devil::eek:

glad things are getting better:*
 
I'm sorry but I do not agree with you.

My parents? They dance in the kitchen. They leave love notes for one another

throughout their home, all the time. They hold hands when eating. There is

nothing ordinary about them. They found each other and they take so

little for granted.




:) If this is what you wish in your life, then you will find it.
 
Broke the navicular bone on my right arm while needling a cow in a chute. It's fine, it's weeks old now and setting properly without surgery thankfully.

:heart:'s for asking.

/hijack


That sounds so painful!! I am so sorry to hear this. Glad it's setting

ok and you don't need surgery however. :heart:
 
What girl would not wish for romance?


Sounds like the start of a new thread?

I think many many wish for it. I don't think all do, and of course many do but not all the time.


Being the one who initiates 99% of all the romance at my house....I can say with 100% certainty, it's not always welcome.
 
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Riles......very well written and thought provoking for sure. I was very intriqued by what you had to say and I agree a whole lot what you had to say. Thanks.

CF
 
Riles......very well written and thought provoking for sure. I was very intriqued by what you had to say and I agree a whole lot what you had to say. Thanks.

CF

awww forget that! I just wanna see her naked with a cast on!! well and cowgirl boots too!
 
awww forget that! I just wanna see her naked with a cast on!! well and cowgirl boots too!

Was actually thinking of muck boots, daisy dukes, and a tied up flannel shirt, beat up straw hat, with a long piece of straw sticking out of lips. Lol.....good one Ryan
 
Sounds like the start of a new thread?

I think many many wish for it. I don't think all do, and of course many do but not all the time.


Being the one who initiates 99% of all the romance at my house....I can say with 100% certainty, it's not always welcome.


Romance is dead here and when I did try? It was a wasted

effort. On my wedding night, we had this amazing hotel suite,

I changed into this killer outfit, garter belt, bustier, high heels,

he said he was watching a movie. It was 'My Cousin Vinny' he

sat in the living room area of the suite watching the movie,

never coming to bed. For the whole night. He fell asleep on the

couch. I should have known from that day forward what I was

in for.

When we dated, I worked at Victorias Secret for the discount

and I had dresser drawers FULL of lingerie. I'd meet him at

the door after work dressed in lingerie, candle light dinner,

bubble bath drawn........... He'd go into his home office after

dinner or something.

Romance works both ways. I gave up years ago with him

however.
 
Romance is dead here and when I did try? It was a wasted

effort. On my wedding night, we had this amazing hotel suite,

I changed into this killer outfit, garter belt, bustier, high heels,

he said he was watching a movie. It was 'My Cousin Vinny' he

sat in the living room area of the suite watching the movie,

never coming to bed. For the whole night. He fell asleep on the

couch. I should have known from that day forward what I was

in for.

When we dated, I worked at Victorias Secret for the discount

and I had dresser drawers FULL of lingerie. I'd meet him at

the door after work dressed in lingerie, candle light dinner,

bubble bath drawn........... He'd go into his home office after

dinner or something.

Romance works both ways. I gave up years ago with him

however.

I trust you've chosen to relish other wonderful aspects of life together, Hawtmama....but;

Damn, I think we were meant to be!!!!
 
Romance is dead here and when I did try? It was a wasted

effort. On my wedding night, we had this amazing hotel suite,

I changed into this killer outfit, garter belt, bustier, high heels,

he said he was watching a movie. It was 'My Cousin Vinny' he

sat in the living room area of the suite watching the movie,

never coming to bed. For the whole night. He fell asleep on the

couch. I should have known from that day forward what I was

in for.

When we dated, I worked at Victorias Secret for the discount

and I had dresser drawers FULL of lingerie. I'd meet him at

the door after work dressed in lingerie, candle light dinner,

bubble bath drawn........... He'd go into his home office after

dinner or something.

Romance works both ways. I gave up years ago with him

however.

Kinda lost for words after reading this H,

What I will say is nothing comes for free in this world, and your experiences are not a waste, they happen for a reason.
Only if you are lucky will life's rich tapestry unfold to give you the reason.
When you find the right person, and I am sure you will, then you will remember and compare, and be able to enjoy your new relationship that much more.
Your previous experiences will make you afar better catch for the lucky guy that finds you
 
I trust you've chosen to relish other wonderful aspects of life together, Hawtmama....but;

Damn, I think we were meant to be!!!!

Yes indeed. He is the most incredible father

I couldnt ask for more. He loves our H'ettes

like there is no tomorrow. We both think

they hung the moon. He is a wonderful provider

as well, there are many good qualities he

upholds. Just no romance ..... barely a hug.
 
Kinda lost for words after reading this H,

What I will say is nothing comes for free in this world, and your experiences are not a waste, they happen for a reason.
Only if you are lucky will life's rich tapestry unfold to give you the reason.
When you find the right person, and I am sure you will, then you will remember and compare, and be able to enjoy your new relationship that much more.
Your previous experiences will make you afar better catch for the lucky guy that finds you

Dwagon? When the right man and I find each other?

My heart is going to explode all over him!!

Just hope he's prepared.

Your kind words have truly touched me these

past few days and I thank you my dear friend.
 
Dwagon? When the right man and I find each other?

My heart is going to explode all over him!!

Just hope he's prepared.

Your kind words have truly touched me these

past few days and I thank you my dear friend.

Kind men don't deal well with explosions, they usually kill people which makes us sad.
 
Yes indeed. He is the most incredible father

I couldnt ask for more. He loves our H'ettes

like there is no tomorrow. We both think

they hung the moon. He is a wonderful provider

as well, there are many good qualities he

upholds. Just no romance ..... barely a hug.

((((((((((Mrs H.))))))))))

Wish I could make that a warm hug.......:rose:
 
We, unaccustomed to courage
exiles from delight
live coiled in shells of loneliness
until love leaves its high holy temple
and comes into our sight
to liberate us into life.

Love arrives
and in its train come ecstasies
old memories of pleasure
ancient histories of pain.
Yet if we are bold,
love strikes away the chains of fear
from our souls.

We are weaned from our timidity
In the flush of love's light
we dare be brave
And suddenly we see
that love costs all we are
and will ever be.
Yet it is only love
which sets us free.

Touched by An Angel - Maya Angelou
 
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