Do you prefer them young, mature or in your own age group ?

For a woman in her early 20-30's, a FWB situation would be cool if I could somehow pull that off.

However, my preference is an age range of 30's-50's, with the woman having a dirty mind AND being able to make time for us to explore it, with reasonable time boundaries with her friends & family.

Things happen of course, but I don't need non-stop cockblocking from the intrusive/needy people in her life.

Also, I'd like us to have a few overlapping interests/hobbies that we can do together in our non sex time.
 
Just being curious.
Even as a young man I was always attracted to people who were older than I.
Young twinks and lovely young ladies are always nice to look at, but I find I have nothing in common with them.
My entire life I have found that my most satisfying sexual encounters have been with mature people. They generally seem to be more open to various experiences and definitely know how to have fun in and out of the bedroom.
Older women definitely do it for me love to worship a nice sexy granny
 
For me, younger every time - and by that I mean 20s to early 40s (I'm 58). I find the allure of youth and fitness, sexual desire and stamina intoxicating.
 
I really enjoy younger girls yet, theres something about that fit, sexy lady in my age group that are just as intriguing.
 
Older women are so sexy they may not have the body's but they do have the experience
 
All of my sex has been with my wife, who is my age, but if I were to have another, I would want younger. My wife has experienced her own age, 10-15 years younger, and 25 years older. She greatly preferred the older man.
Curious, if you’d care to share, the details here?

Doing the “age math” on your statement means one of only a couple of scenarios of which I’m keen to understand:

1) you were a virgin when you married your wife, and it was much later in life, and you’ve been exclusive ever since. And she did all of her adventuring before you got married.

Or

2) you’ve been married a long time, or at least long enough, and you have a hot wife relationship where you stay loyal to her and she is free to enjoy other lovers and has.

Is there a third/different?
 
Depending on my daily mood. But yes all those options.

Each one has advantages and disadvantages. But each has their own fun too.

Keep options open and you’ll have the best time of your life.
 
Curious, if you’d care to share, the details here?

Doing the “age math” on your statement means one of only a couple of scenarios of which I’m keen to understand:

1) you were a virgin when you married your wife, and it was much later in life, and you’ve been exclusive ever since. And she did all of her adventuring before you got married.

Or

2) you’ve been married a long time, or at least long enough, and you have a hot wife relationship where you stay loyal to her and she is free to enjoy other lovers and has.

Is there a third/different?
I was a virgin when I married my wife when both of us were 22. She was a bit of a slut in college, so she was experienced when we married. When she was in her 30's, a lot of men were trying to seduce her, so I gave her permission to have sex with them. One date only, so no affairs. Most were younger men, but one was one of her former college lovers and the other was a 65 year old doctor from Russia who sometimes used the medical office where she worked. When she turned 40, she stopped having sex with others. She is still free, but chooses not to fuck around.
 
I was a virgin when I married my wife when both of us were 22. She was a bit of a slut in college, so she was experienced when we married. When she was in her 30's, a lot of men were trying to seduce her, so I gave her permission to have sex with them. One date only, so no affairs. Most were younger men, but one was one of her former college lovers and the other was a 65 year old doctor from Russia who sometimes used the medical office where she worked. When she turned 40, she stopped having sex with others. She is still free, but chooses not to fuck around.
Wow!! Any incredible story and adventure!! (So #2 on the scenario list)

Congrats to you both for having the bond and trust to allow her to explore and keep a healthy relationship.

I can’t help but believe many marriages would/could have been saved if more couples were willing to admit the human condition and address the sexual needs/curiosities they have.

I think more would have ended up where you are.
 
Wow!! Any incredible story and adventure!! (So #2 on the scenario list)

Congrats to you both for having the bond and trust to allow her to explore and keep a healthy relationship.

I can’t help but believe many marriages would/could have been saved if more couples were willing to admit the human condition and address the sexual needs/curiosities they have.

I think more would have ended up where you are.
I can't recommend it for anyone else, but it worked for us with absolutely no problems. To be honest, I was terribly jealous when she dated others in college, but I only saw her once or twice a month and it would not have been fair to make her sit in the dorm when I wasn't there. She told me not to worry, and she told all of her dates that she loved me. If they got serious, she dumped them. I knew then that I could trust her.
 
I can't recommend it for anyone else, but it worked for us with absolutely no problems. To be honest, I was terribly jealous when she dated others in college, but I only saw her once or twice a month and it would not have been fair to make her sit in the dorm when I wasn't there. She told me not to worry, and she told all of her dates that she loved me. If they got serious, she dumped them. I knew then that I could trust her.
How long have you been married?
 
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