Do you prefer CFNM or CMNF

[Erosfan]

I have seen a number of threads about CFNM/CMNF and most are just pic threads. I am curious about which is arousing to you and why? Would like to hear from women and men on the subject.

What is arousing to me is to give all control to her. To be her toy, her fantasy. I love being whatever my SO wants at any given moment.

 

[Erosfan]

I'm working on a CFNM story, but I haven't worked out all of the details, yet. This is vaguely based on a real scenario of which I am aware, but which I have not experienced.

It does help if you have experienced it. I've been into CFNM for years and it never gets old.
I have several stories here on Lit. Check them out if you are looking for examples.

 

[boo56]

I have several stories here on Lit. Check them out if you are looking for examples.

I may. My concern is that reading too extensively in the genre could taint my creative process. We'll see.

 

[Erosfan]

I may. My concern is that reading too extensively in the genre could taint my creative process. We'll see.

I understand.

 

[lil_jenni]

CMnf for me. I love being naked before Hubby. I spent most of Valentine's Day weekend naked except for new collar and cuffs. Hell, I was even naked for a quick but exhilarating fuck in the snow.

For me, the allure of CMnf has many sources. I've always been a bit of an exhibitionist. But until my latest pregnancy, no one would have ever considered me busty. But I could wear tight, revealing clothes and get attention even without the aid of large breasts. And being willing to get partly or fully naked didn't hurt. Plus, there is a delightful shock value to being naked when everyone else is clothed, whether "everyone else" is one person or a group of people.

Also, my intro to being a sub included a lot of nudity on my part. In my mind that's part of the whole experience (even though the guy who introduced me was a predatory asshole). If I'm not naked or nearly naked, I don't feel as subservient as I want/need to feel.

Add to all the above that I find my Hubby fire AF in a suit, and I'm ready to strip down and serve just about any time I see him that way. And it works for us, because in many ways, he's not a "traditional" Dom. He has a commanding personality, so being in charge is natural to him. But he only exercises it when he needs to do so. Sure, he can play all traditional, with bondage and punishment and humiliation and all that, but that's for me. He's most comfortable with situational dominance over active dominance, and CMnf fits that dynamic quite well.

 

[cowboyup6977]

CMnf for me. I love being naked before Hubby. I spent most of Valentine's Day weekend naked except for new collar and cuffs. Hell, I was even naked for a quick but exhilarating fuck in the snow.

For me, the allure of CMnf has many sources. I've always been a bit of an exhibitionist. But until my latest pregnancy, no one would have ever considered me busty. But I could wear tight, revealing clothes and get attention even without the aid of large breasts. And being willing to get partly or fully naked didn't hurt. Plus, there is a delightful shock value to being naked when everyone else is clothed, whether "everyone else" is one person or a group of people.

Also, my intro to being a sub included a lot of nudity on my part. In my mind that's part of the whole experience (even though the guy who introduced me was a predatory asshole). If I'm not naked or nearly naked, I don't feel as subservient as I want/need to feel.

Add to all the above that I find my Hubby fire AF in a suit, and I'm ready to strip down and serve just about any time I see him that way. And it works for us, because in many ways, he's not a "traditional" Dom. He has a commanding personality, so being in charge is natural to him. But he only exercises it when he needs to do so. Sure, he can play all traditional, with bondage and punishment and humiliation and all that, but that's for me. He's most comfortable with situational dominance over active dominance, and CMnf fits that dynamic quite well.

You sound like me and he’s like my husband

 

[FreckledSprite]

I enjoy desperately fucking without removal of clothes. Just a thong pulled to the side and pants unzipped and pushed down a little ways.

But of the two, I’d choose CFNM because it could be a situation where he got into the hotel room first and had time to strip down completely.

 

[sanjuinmood]

He wished that he could bump into a Domme,
To earn himself such a fine thrashing,
That he could relax and watch her having fun,
Giving her submissive a wonderful bashing...

Méli

Standing unclothed for his domme
Red buttocks and a hard on
He submits his will to her strength
As she pulls him by his length

Sanj

 

[Dudeqwe]

Either can be sooo fun. Cfnm when I get the chance.

 

[SherlockianMan]

I used to have frequent fantasies of finding myself unexpectedly in a CFNM situation with several women being able to do whatever they wanted to me while I had no control.

 

[Erosfan]

And knowing that you look at his excitement, he would loose all limits, he would become so uninhibited that he would fulfill all your sexually charged requests no matter how kinky they are.

Anything. any time, anywhere!

 

[Erosfan]

I love CFNM because of the (gentle) femdom power dynamics that can come with that scenario. Being on display, vulnerable, while a self-assured lady is fully clothed and appreciating me being naked for her is an amazingly erotic fantasy.
Love,
Thom

Gentle femdom is the key for me. I've been there a number of times and I've never been disappointed. Much of this genre is about cuckold or humiliation. To each his own, but those don't work for me.
Get me naked, show me your control, tell me what you want from me and I'm all in.

 

[Cfnmlover84]

CFNM. The idea of stripping for a crowd of women is hot.

 

[Lost_Writer01]

CMnf for me. I love being naked before Hubby. I spent most of Valentine's Day weekend naked except for new collar and cuffs. Hell, I was even naked for a quick but exhilarating fuck in the snow.

For me, the allure of CMnf has many sources. I've always been a bit of an exhibitionist. But until my latest pregnancy, no one would have ever considered me busty. But I could wear tight, revealing clothes and get attention even without the aid of large breasts. And being willing to get partly or fully naked didn't hurt. Plus, there is a delightful shock value to being naked when everyone else is clothed, whether "everyone else" is one person or a group of people.

Also, my intro to being a sub included a lot of nudity on my part. In my mind that's part of the whole experience (even though the guy who introduced me was a predatory asshole). If I'm not naked or nearly naked, I don't feel as subservient as I want/need to feel.

Add to all the above that I find my Hubby fire AF in a suit, and I'm ready to strip down and serve just about any time I see him that way. And it works for us, because in many ways, he's not a "traditional" Dom. He has a commanding personality, so being in charge is natural to him. But he only exercises it when he needs to do so. Sure, he can play all traditional, with bondage and punishment and humiliation and all that, but that's for me. He's most comfortable with situational dominance over active dominance, and CMnf fits that dynamic quite well.

Amazing and understand this so much.

 

[kneelingmatt]

CFnm for the win

 

[melimelissa]

CFnm for the win

CFnm for the wang
CMnf for the sin
CMnf for the tang
CnFm for the fashion
FCnm for the (football) game
FMn(o)c for the passion
Acronyms feel so lame

Méli

 

[EasyBrad59]

Cfnm turns me on. Would love to be naked in a group of well-dressed women.

 

[Erosfan]

And knowing that you look at his excitement, he would loose all limits, he would become so uninhibited that he would fulfill all your sexually charged requests no matter how kinky they are.

This is me! When I am thoroughly aroused, I lose all limits with my lady. I will do whatever she wants. I am hers to do with as she wishes.

 

[whiskeytangofoxtrot]

Both work for us but I do enjoy cmnf and cfnf.

 

[t_platz4]

A long time back I used to an art model at university. The reason was mostly a little extra cash, but also to deal with that fear of being naked in front of others. It was never sexual. But the rush came after wondering if I was attractive to anyone, most especially this lovely woman in a short plaid skirt while I was posing for a sculpture class. She returned a smile which nearly resulted in me getting an erection…. So I do like the idea of CFNM quite a bit, I suppose.

 

[Erosfan]

And knowing that you look at his excitement, he would loose all limits, he would become so uninhibited that he would fulfill all your sexually charged requests no matter how kinky they are.

Oh yes! This is exactly how I feel, when she has me aroused. I am completely at her disposal.

 

[Erosfan]

And knowing that you look at his excitement, he would loose all limits, he would become so uninhibited that he would fulfill all your sexually charged requests no matter how kinky they are.

My late wife had this effect on me. I would become so uninhibited that she would have to calm me down to keep from getting in trouble. We got a little crazy at times, and she was the one that kept me from getting us arrested.

 

[J D Danger]

CMnf for me. I love being naked before Hubby. I spent most of Valentine's Day weekend naked except for new collar and cuffs. Hell, I was even naked for a quick but exhilarating fuck in the snow.

For me, the allure of CMnf has many sources. I've always been a bit of an exhibitionist. But until my latest pregnancy, no one would have ever considered me busty. But I could wear tight, revealing clothes and get attention even without the aid of large breasts. And being willing to get partly or fully naked didn't hurt. Plus, there is a delightful shock value to being naked when everyone else is clothed, whether "everyone else" is one person or a group of people.

Also, my intro to being a sub included a lot of nudity on my part. In my mind that's part of the whole experience (even though the guy who introduced me was a predatory asshole). If I'm not naked or nearly naked, I don't feel as subservient as I want/need to feel.

Add to all the above that I find my Hubby fire AF in a suit, and I'm ready to strip down and serve just about any time I see him that way. And it works for us, because in many ways, he's not a "traditional" Dom. He has a commanding personality, so being in charge is natural to him. But he only exercises it when he needs to do so. Sure, he can play all traditional, with bondage and punishment and humiliation and all that, but that's for me. He's most comfortable with situational dominance over active dominance, and CMnf fits that dynamic quite well.

I love this and want to experience this one day

 

[bisissyhusband1]

NFNM!

 

[Liquidmess1]

I have seen a number of threads about CFNM/CMNF and most are just pic threads. I am curious about which is arousing to you and why? Would like to hear from women and men on the subject.

CFNM. I would love to be pegged while I jack off. Also, I am bi so CMNM is a fantasy I would try. The turn-ons for both are exhibitionism and humiliation.