Do you need advise???

[Aquagal]

Never ate a peep flavored pussy before, but I am willing to try anything once.

*shudder

 

[Scentofawoman]

Never ate a peep flavored pussy before, but I am willing to try anything once.

*peep*


Hey is edible underwear kinky?

 

[The_Fool]

*peep*


Hey is edible underwear kinky?

Rather wrap you in fruit rollups and eat my way to the good stuff.

 

[Sexturn]

To begin with don't do anything just to indulge someone else.
Choose something that you can get into because otherwise it's going to suck for both of you--during AND after.
What that means is that you need to start exploring your own desires. This site is a good place to start and the internet? WHOO EEE
Read, look at pictures, look at toys, watch videos. Get yourself some toys. Find some alone time and see what feels good.
Something is going to get you hot--I can just about promise you it will. That's the thing you're going to want to try and he's going to be just the guy to try it with.

Then the adventure and the surprise isn't just something you are doing FOR him, it's something you are doing WITH him. It sounds like a small thing but trust me it isn't.

Above all HAVE FUN!

Ya that's what I was meaning to say too well put.

 

[Scentofawoman]

Rather wrap you in fruit rollups and eat my way to the good stuff.

Fruit roll ups are pretty strong. Mummy me baby! Don't forget the wine!

 

[marriedlooker73]

By "vanilla" I mean I'm happy with just regular sex. Maybe occasionally different positions. I guess I'm just boring when it comes to sex? He on the other hand would love trying things from watching others, toys, threesomes, and any kinky thing you could probably come up with. I'm looking for advice on what to start with to surprise him. I want to try new things but I also want to ease into things not dive head first.

Toys and lingerie for starters. Ask him to pick up some porn on his way home some time and try to copy whichever scene gets you the hottest.

 

[Aquagal]

Wow people can be super critical on here! I'm almost afraid to post now. I think this thread is a pretty good idea.

And I do need some advice. I'm pretty "vanilla" when it comes to sex, but I want to try new things and do something to surprise my husband and really wow him. He is not "vanilla" like me. What do you suggest to help me be more adventurous and spice things up?

Milk his cock.

*nods*

 

[C5MiGuy]

Don't you peeps know how to quote an OP before it gets edited? Chop chop!

Yeah yeah yeah. Sometimes I hit reply instead of quote.

 

[Aquagal]

Yeah yeah yeah. Sometimes I hit reply instead of quote.

Don't act like this is your first day.

 

[JennyNo1]

Wow people can be super critical on here! I'm almost afraid to post now. I think this thread is a pretty good idea.

And I do need some advice. I'm pretty "vanilla" when it comes to sex, but I want to try new things and do something to surprise my husband and really wow him. He is not "vanilla" like me. What do you suggest to help me be more adventurous and spice things up?

The fact that you know he isn't vanilla suggests you know some of the things that he enjoys. If you don't know, ask him. I'll bet there's something in that list that piques (dammit, did I spell that right?) your interest. Start there and build on it. Follow some of the suggestions others have made here also. YOU are a lucky lady, too, to be embarking on a fun adventure like this. Scent is right, too - keep communicating, what you like, don't like, fantasize about, get creeped out by, and so on. Have fun!

 

[Kmsvixen12701]

Just to be clear I'm not doing it just for him. I would really like to find what really gets me going too. And we have tried a few things because we have been communicating about it better. We've tried a few toys, anal, and watching another couple(threesome). I was pretty excited about the watching but it didn't turn out great. I was pretty much turned off after the guy took out his dentures !! Yes that happened!! I'd really like to try role play or bondage but I don't know how to go about it without making us both feel stupid. Any ideas??

 

[NotHisLady]

Just to be clear I'm not doing it just for him. I would really like to find what really gets me going too. And we have tried a few things because we have been communicating about it better. We've tried a few toys, anal, and watching another couple(threesome). I was pretty excited about the watching but it didn't turn out great. I was pretty much turned off after the guy took out his dentures !! Yes that happened!! I'd really like to try role play or bondage but I don't know how to go about it without making us both feel stupid. Any ideas??

So what if you feel silly?
So what if you're both laughing your asses off to begin with?
Sex is about pleasure and pleasure is about having FUN!!!
Start a tickle fight, invite him to get into a bubble bath with you and play with the bubbles, bring something messy (like ice cream) to bed and spill it on each other--no napkins allowed.
BE SILLY. As long as you're doing it together and as long as you're naked (or getting that way) it's all good.
If you start out with the idea that you're on a mission to find that perfect thing then you never will. There is no perfect thing for everyone. There are lots of things to try, lots of stuff on the menu but there is no pleasure unless you are pleasing each other which you cannot do if you're trying too hard.
So if you feel stupid so what? This is the guy you love and trust. Don't you trust him enough to let him see you feeling a little foolish? see you fumbling around a little? Don't you think he knows you're no expert?

 

[sunshinegirl05]

So what if you feel silly?
So what if you're both laughing your asses off to begin with?
Sex is about pleasure and pleasure is about having FUN!!!
Start a tickle fight, invite him to get into a bubble bath with you and play with the bubbles, bring something messy (like ice cream) to bed and spill it on each other--no napkins allowed.
BE SILLY. As long as you're doing it together and as long as you're naked (or getting that way) it's all good.
If you start out with the idea that you're on a mission to find that perfect thing then you never will. There is no perfect thing for everyone. There are lots of things to try, lots of stuff on the menu but there is no pleasure unless you are pleasing each other which you cannot do if you're trying too hard.
So if you feel stupid so what? This is the guy you love and trust. Don't you trust him enough to let him see you feeling a little foolish? see you fumbling around a little? Don't you think he knows you're no expert?

This! Sex is anything you want it to be.

 

[luvthedesserts]

This! Sex is anything you want it to be.

I have several restraining orders that will disagree with you.

 

[AltyssaQ]

We have a love hate relationship. Still doesn't tell me who she is.

She seems to gravitate toward Scent too.

That's because you two derailed my gummi train and the PFR faster than a Spanish commuter. If you'll recall, I had all the Lit guys lined up for a big train, and you jealous wimmen just cock blocked me.

 

[sunshinegirl05]

That's because you two derailed my gummi train and the PFR faster than a Spanish commuter. If you'll recall, I had all the Lit guys lined up for a big train, and you jealous wimmen just cock blocked me.

We were jyst saving them from a life of stds!!!

 

[Edensgarden]

That's because you two derailed my gummi train and the PFR faster than a Spanish commuter. If you'll recall, I had all the Lit guys lined up for a big train, and you jealous wimmen just cock blocked me.

That's where you are wrong, my friend. We derailed AlyssaQ's gummi train. Actually, her train was on it's own collision course without our help. She just fucked up and couldn't handle the heat.

You on the other hand, came around for her sloppy seconds. The clean up crew I suppose.

***PM me and come clean. Maybe I'll help ya clean up. ***

 

[AltyssaQ]

That's where you are wrong, my friend. We derailed AlyssaQ's gummi train. Actually, her train was on it's own collision course without our help. She just fucked up and couldn't handle the heat.

You on the other hand, came around for her sloppy seconds. The clean up crew I suppose.

***PM me and come clean. Maybe I'll help ya clean up. ***

Do you mean that you doubt that I am AlyssaQ?

Oy vey. I guess it's time to hang it up. But I've really had a lot of fun - thanks in no small part to you

Send me a pm - take a couple guesses who I am - and if you're right, I'll pm you back.


Please allow me to introduce myself
I'm a man of wealth and taste
I've been around for a long, long year
Stole many a mans soul and faith
And I was round when jesus christ
Had his moment of doubt and pain
Made damn sure that pilate
Washed his hands and sealed his fate
Pleased to meet you
Hope you guess my name
But what's puzzling you
Is the nature of my game

- Jagger/Richards