Do you masturbate by choice, or only if intercourse is unavailable?
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ilovetojilloff
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By choice for me
iluvyou3638
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i do it cuz it feel good. and i do it all the time, not just when i can't get nookie.
hamishmacbeth
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by choice once or twice a month 
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By choice it just different and feels so good I have even masturbated after sex with wife.
I would shurely jack of on her PICS.
Carmen electra is still my favorite Jack off material
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Carmen electra is still my favorite Jack off material
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ilovetojilloff
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She is good masturbation material. It is also nice to know she enjoys masturbating as much as we all do.
crashD
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I do it mostly during IM with wonderful friends I have met here, trying to act out our discussions as much as possible
bingo!!!
lonelysmile
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I love to masturbate... it's been a couple years since I've had sex, so I've discovered the real joys of solo-sex... I also loved to masturbate for my ex - she really got off on watching
RedHeadedGlory
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I don't masturbate if I'm expecting actual sex.
I do it between 2 and 7 times a day if I'm alone, so if I stop it's pretty noticeable.
Going into that sense of "withdrawal" gives the whole thing a different intensity. When you need it that bad it's almost like being high.
I do it between 2 and 7 times a day if I'm alone, so if I stop it's pretty noticeable.
Going into that sense of "withdrawal" gives the whole thing a different intensity. When you need it that bad it's almost like being high.
sexymisskix
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I just had a six month dry spell so got pretty well acquainted with my hand lol but I do love making myself cum as much as when someone else does it.
cent_fl_guy
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I agree with Mike, although it is my cock I love to play with, not his. My gf lives about 4 hours from me so I like to do little imovie vids for her, she enjoys them.
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I'd say by choice, but sometimes my body doesn't give me one, even if I know I'm going to have sex. I can have sex in the morning, masturbate while he's at work, have sex again that evening and then pleasure myself again before bed. It just depends on if the urge is there.
By choice, I love to feel good about my body and how my body reacts to my hands and fingers. I often do it to relax and do it a lot when I am driving. Just last friday a guy I have known for about 7 years, he is 10 years older than me, were on a drive from Utica NY to Rochester to go to a musuem. We are just friends and have never dated or even made out, we have similar interests and have seen each other naked a couple of times when a lot of friends have done some summer skinny dipping, but never just the two of us together. We are close and can say anything to each other with out either one taking offence, it is a near perfect relationship, completely intamate with no presure of sex and dating to fuck it up.
We had two plus hour drive and we were talking about everything under the sun and he asked me about current GF/Bf situation, he knows I am bi and leaning toward women now and I told him I have nothing on the horizon and I was sort of lonely but I was handling it ok. He made a crack about "taking care of myself" and I said I keep everything well in hand...lol poor joke but who cares. He admitted that it is an area that he also keeps well in hand. I asked him how often he masterbates and he said almost every day and liked to do it while driving. I was a bit surprized because I love to relax when I drive I just slip my hand under my skirt on down my pants and tease and stroke my pussy. It is very private and no one can tell even if I am kneeding my breast with the other hand with my knee under the streerting wheel keeping the car straight.
I told him I love to play with my pussy when driving but asked how he does it in the car and he said he just takes it out and gets his zipper down far enough not to get his dick caught in it. I told him that was hot and dared him to show me...he knows my sexual history and knows my first sexual experince was with masterbation, he does not know that, that was when I first tasted cum, but knows it was with my cuson. He pushed his seat back a little and scooted his ass forward and un did his fly and took out his cock, he told me he was hard from the talking and he was. He looked over at me and raised one eyebrow and started to pull up and down on his dick. I asked him what he did when a car went by and he expalined that if it was a car they could not see down into his car and if it was a van or truck he just pulled his coat over to cover up. He is not an exobittionist ( I know I spelled it wrong) he just loves to jerk off. It was a turn on to see him do this and his cock was beautiful. He was content to just drive and jerk off. He told me we would have to be fair and said it would be nice if i would play with my self the way i do when I drive.
I unbuttoned two buttons on my blouse and took my bra strap down off my shoulder so one boob was free to be fondled and turned my self in the seat to face him. I pulled my skirt up around my waist and slid off my thong, when I am alone I just work around it but since I had an audience and his cock was up and out I wanted to show off. I took my time and did circles a the top of my pussy and pinched my nipple with the other hand, he could see my pussy but not by boob. I stroked with one finger up and down and spread my lips a little more with each pass and watched his hand pull on his cock. After a bit I pressed my finger flat between my lips and really got it wet and drew it up over my clit and did circles with the tip of my finger and then dipped in for more wetness. He was enjoying what i was doing and told me how hot it was and that it was better than being alone and just thinking about hot images. I stuck my finger deep inside a few times got it very wet and with a wicked smile brought my finger to my mouth and sucked my juices off. That got his hand moving much faster and i was wondering how he was going to handle cumming, he was dressed in slacks and a tie and we were going to be out and about all afternoon. I told him I loved seeing him jerk off and got my finger good and wet again this instead of sucking the juice off I spread them on my lips like lip gloss, got both hands on my pussy and masterbated hard with both hand while licking my lips and tasting my pussy. I told him I was close to cumming and he said to show him and I just relaxed and came. I was very hot.
I told him it was his turn and not to make a mess and he smiled and said he was very good at this and did it a lot and never ruined his suits. He stroked and then slowed and tensed and held his cock still and in stead of shooting all offer the car he held back and his cum just flowed out and over the head of his dick. He lossened his grip and slowly moved his hand up and down spreading his cum on his cock like lotion, he put his knee under the wheel for a moment took his free hand got some cum on his finger and licked it off and smiled at me. His cum kept flowing out and he just kept slowly stocking. When he stoped cumming he worked his hand up and down and his cum changed from a flowing liquid to more of thick cream and he just kept working it untill it was like a hand cream. He took out a hanky and clean his hand off and, cleaned up his cock and zipped back up all neat and tidy.
I told him that was so hot to watch and thanked him for being willing to share and he told me I was sexy and crazy and that it was a pleasure for him and will keep him busy for weeks to come when he is alone in the car.
We went on to Rochester and had a great day. We never touched each other except for the standandard good buy hug.
We had two plus hour drive and we were talking about everything under the sun and he asked me about current GF/Bf situation, he knows I am bi and leaning toward women now and I told him I have nothing on the horizon and I was sort of lonely but I was handling it ok. He made a crack about "taking care of myself" and I said I keep everything well in hand...lol poor joke but who cares. He admitted that it is an area that he also keeps well in hand. I asked him how often he masterbates and he said almost every day and liked to do it while driving. I was a bit surprized because I love to relax when I drive I just slip my hand under my skirt on down my pants and tease and stroke my pussy. It is very private and no one can tell even if I am kneeding my breast with the other hand with my knee under the streerting wheel keeping the car straight.
I told him I love to play with my pussy when driving but asked how he does it in the car and he said he just takes it out and gets his zipper down far enough not to get his dick caught in it. I told him that was hot and dared him to show me...he knows my sexual history and knows my first sexual experince was with masterbation, he does not know that, that was when I first tasted cum, but knows it was with my cuson. He pushed his seat back a little and scooted his ass forward and un did his fly and took out his cock, he told me he was hard from the talking and he was. He looked over at me and raised one eyebrow and started to pull up and down on his dick. I asked him what he did when a car went by and he expalined that if it was a car they could not see down into his car and if it was a van or truck he just pulled his coat over to cover up. He is not an exobittionist ( I know I spelled it wrong) he just loves to jerk off. It was a turn on to see him do this and his cock was beautiful. He was content to just drive and jerk off. He told me we would have to be fair and said it would be nice if i would play with my self the way i do when I drive.
I unbuttoned two buttons on my blouse and took my bra strap down off my shoulder so one boob was free to be fondled and turned my self in the seat to face him. I pulled my skirt up around my waist and slid off my thong, when I am alone I just work around it but since I had an audience and his cock was up and out I wanted to show off. I took my time and did circles a the top of my pussy and pinched my nipple with the other hand, he could see my pussy but not by boob. I stroked with one finger up and down and spread my lips a little more with each pass and watched his hand pull on his cock. After a bit I pressed my finger flat between my lips and really got it wet and drew it up over my clit and did circles with the tip of my finger and then dipped in for more wetness. He was enjoying what i was doing and told me how hot it was and that it was better than being alone and just thinking about hot images. I stuck my finger deep inside a few times got it very wet and with a wicked smile brought my finger to my mouth and sucked my juices off. That got his hand moving much faster and i was wondering how he was going to handle cumming, he was dressed in slacks and a tie and we were going to be out and about all afternoon. I told him I loved seeing him jerk off and got my finger good and wet again this instead of sucking the juice off I spread them on my lips like lip gloss, got both hands on my pussy and masterbated hard with both hand while licking my lips and tasting my pussy. I told him I was close to cumming and he said to show him and I just relaxed and came. I was very hot.
I told him it was his turn and not to make a mess and he smiled and said he was very good at this and did it a lot and never ruined his suits. He stroked and then slowed and tensed and held his cock still and in stead of shooting all offer the car he held back and his cum just flowed out and over the head of his dick. He lossened his grip and slowly moved his hand up and down spreading his cum on his cock like lotion, he put his knee under the wheel for a moment took his free hand got some cum on his finger and licked it off and smiled at me. His cum kept flowing out and he just kept slowly stocking. When he stoped cumming he worked his hand up and down and his cum changed from a flowing liquid to more of thick cream and he just kept working it untill it was like a hand cream. He took out a hanky and clean his hand off and, cleaned up his cock and zipped back up all neat and tidy.
I told him that was so hot to watch and thanked him for being willing to share and he told me I was sexy and crazy and that it was a pleasure for him and will keep him busy for weeks to come when he is alone in the car.
We went on to Rochester and had a great day. We never touched each other except for the standandard good buy hug.
NiceanEasy
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By choice. I love masturbating. I like to take my time over it and maintain my level of arousal for as long as I can. An erection feels great. Ejaculation is better but the end of the game.
Pinktacokitty
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By choice, when I want to. Some times when I am having a really bad day taking time to orgasm makes the day seem better.
And when I have a headache always make myself orgasm, makes the me feel better.
And when I have a headache always make myself orgasm, makes the me feel better.
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