Do You Like Vanilla Discovery Moments?

[Lancecastor]

Do you like the sweet taste of fresh vanilla now and then?

Do you get a special thrill from opening new eyes to the taste for something a little spicier?

I think that those moments when a vanilla other realizes you like things a wee bit differently....when the light first goes on in their head...and you see the mixture of shock and moistened interest... are terribly erotic.

Likewise, when someone I'm interested in but assume is straightlaced first says something that twigs me to the kink that lies within...is another electric moment of erotic discovery.

Do those vanilla discovery moments do anything for you?

Curious Always;
Lance

 

[MissTaken]

Yes!
Yes!
Yes!


I have several friends who will spend an evening, one at a time, during times of great frustration.

I find it very exciting and erotic to tell them what I need them to do or to surprise them with a little something and see their reaction.

Of course, it may be my ego, but I love when all is done and all my partner can say is, "Wow"

 

[Sandia]

I'm a lightweight.. at least around here.. but pretty much everyone I've been with (and no, it ain't that many) has had at least *a little* interest.. in BDSM.

 

[Lancecastor]

Same here....

...pretty much everyone I've been with (and no, it ain't that many) has had at least *a little* interest.. in BDSM.

...Sandia. I don't think I've met anyone mainstream in years who doesn't find a way to mention fairly early that she likes bondage, spanking and other entry-level play.

And, like MissTaken, the "wow" moments are most delightful....like finding another fan of the band XTC...only better.

Lance

 

[Sandia]

The other day I was having drinks with someone I know professionally.. His wife was handing out cards identifying herself as a dominatrix. She's started a website...

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: Same here....

...Sandia. I don't think I've met anyone mainstream in years who doesn't find a way to mention fairly early that she likes bondage, spanking and other entry-level play.

And, like MissTaken, the "wow" moments are most delightful....like finding another fan of the band XTC...only better.

Lance

I love XTC. Can we be friends now?

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Re: Same here....

I love XTC. Can we be friends now?

Yes please. I'd like that.

Let me worship at the church of women.

Please do bend down for the one called the green man.

I'm the man who murdered love.

Just like a helicopter;
Lance

 

[Ebonyfire]

I have never

met a vanilla man in my entire life. I seem to bring out the kink in them all. I wonder why?

Ebony

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: Re: Re: Same here....

Yes please. I'd like that.

Let me worship at the church of women.

Please do bend down for the one called the green man.

I'm the man who murdered love.

Just like a helicopter;
Lance

That please me greatly, Lance. And it illustrates why i don't believe that the board shouldn't try to stick to closely to topic all the time. By sharing a little bit of our other interests we can get to see each other as real people and not as cardboard antagonists.

 

[Sandia]

Re: Re: Re: Same here....

Yes please. I'd like that.

Let me worship at the church of women.

Please do bend down for the one called the green man.

I'm the man who murdered love.

Just like a helicopter;
Lance

Lyrics and/or titles from the band XTC?

 

[cymbidia]

I've just spent a most wonderful 24 hours (give or take a few) with a self-professed dominant who i met via alt. In that 24 hours, there were a number of moments of great and intense vanilla-ness, moments like dancing around my bedroom to the music playing from his little whiz-bang portable m3p player and lots of really nilla but outrageously exciting kissing.

I think good sex is good sex and it doesn't matter too much about the flavor. As long as one is getting what they need from it, and being able to give what they need to give, it's all good touching.

 

[Lancecastor]

Hmmmm...

That please me greatly, Lance. And it illustrates why i don't believe that the board shouldn't try to stick to closely to topic all the time. By sharing a little bit of our other interests we can get to see each other as real people and not as cardboard antagonists.

"cardboard antagonist"...that kinda sounds like a keeper!


LC

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Same here....

Lyrics and/or titles from the band XTC?

Good thinkin', Lincoln.
LC

 

[Never]

cymbidia:
"I've just spent a most wonderful 24 hours (give or take a few) with a self-professed dominant who i met via alt. In that 24 hours, there were a number of moments of great and intense vanilla-ness, moments like dancing around my bedroom to the music playing from his little whiz-bang portable m3p player and lots of really nilla but outrageously exciting kissing."

Rock on witchou bad self. I'm glad to see things are going well for you.