Do You Judge Others By....

[juicylips]

the company they keep?

Birds of a feather and all that jazz.

Maybe you don't post to someone on here because they are friends with someone you don't care for.

Or...at work you kinda avoid a few people because you know they hang out with a different crowd.

Do you accept someone based on their friends or who they are to you?

Tell me.
jl

 

[Guest]

All of my avoiding decisions are made by reading the posts of the person(s) that I am avoiding.

 

[bluemuse]

I judge each person individually. I have friends who can't stand eachother.

 

[juicylips]

All of my avoiding decisions are made by reading the posts of the person(s) that I am avoiding.

Explain that one more time...in english.

I need more depth here, jp.

 

[Smiley777]

I judge each person individually. I have friends who can't stand eachother.

Ditto for me too. The only time I might have a problem is if the person's friends begin to flow into my life, when I don't really want them in it at all.

 

[His_kitty]

the company they keep?

Birds of a feather and all that jazz.

Maybe you don't post to someone on here because they are friends with someone you don't care for.

Or...at work you kinda avoid a few people because you know they hang out with a different crowd.

Do you accept someone based on their friends or who they are to you?

Tell me.
jl

Who I like is never influenced by who they like or dislike. With the exception of if someone harmed a good friend of mine, I'm not to keen on the other person.

 

[Guest]

 

[Problem Child]

If all of someone's friends are jerks and losers, and you think he's a jerk and/or a loser, then give yourself credit for recognizing patterns in nature.

 

[miles]

the company they keep?

Birds of a feather and all that jazz.

Maybe you don't post to someone on here because they are friends with someone you don't care for.

Or...at work you kinda avoid a few people because you know they hang out with a different crowd.

Do you accept someone based on their friends or who they are to you?

Tell me.
jl

Damn, I love the way juicy ends her posts:

Tell me. As if she's saying Miles, you can tell me anything. Anything at all. Your secret is safe with me.

Juicylips, would you fuck me until I forgot my name? Tell me.

Woman, you make me sweat bullets. Jesus F. Christ.

 

[Guest]

Explain that one more time...in english.

I need more depth here, jp.

ok...

I read more than I post. And if I decide to avoid someone... its because of something they have posted that I either thought was rude, or it was plain idiotic or narrow minded. I don't care who is who's friend. It matters not.

And I am also the type of person who will befriend someone just because no one else will... I guess its the 'underdog' syndrome.

 

[juicylips]

Ditto for me too. The only time I might have a problem is if the person's friends begin to flow into my life, when I don't really want them in it at all.

What about me? Can I flow into your life?

 

[Smiley777]

What about me? Can I flow into your life?

You are rapidly turning into a flood. Hmmmm I dunno, some of your friends are pretty crazy.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Do You Judge Others By....

Damn, I love the way juicy ends her posts:

Tell me. As if she's saying Miles, you can tell me anything. Anything at all. Your secret is safe with me.

Juicylips, would you fuck me until I forgot my name? Tell me.

Woman, you make me sweat bullets. Jesus F. Christ.

You hear me say all these things in my little girl voice. That's what does it for you.

I'd fuck you till we both forgot our names.

 

[juicylips]

ok...

I read more than I post. And if I decide to avoid someone... its because of something they have posted that I either thought was rude, or it was plain idiotic or narrow minded. I don't care who is who's friend. It matters not.

And I am also the type of person who will befriend someone just because no one else will... I guess its the 'underdog' syndrome.

Ahhhhh...very clear to me now.

You have a good heart, jp. That's why you have that "underdog" syndrome.

 

[ithaqua]

Judge People.... Never

Far be it for me to judge people.

Some people have tried to keep me in their life, others have not. It is all the same, the world will keep us together or rip us apart as the winds of change move it.

Just protect yourself from the things that could destroy you. That is all.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Judge People.... Never

Far be it for me to judge people.

Some people have tried to keep me in their life, others have not. It is all the same, the world will keep us together or rip us apart as the winds of change move it.

Just protect yourself from the things that could destroy you. That is all.

Hello. I don't think we've met.

I'm JL.

You believe we just float through life with no control as to what happens in it?

 

[Summery]

You are rapidly turning into a flood. Hmmmm I dunno, some of your friends are pretty crazy.

Hey now, you aren't judging JL based on the fact she is my best friend, are you?



;-)

 

[ithaqua]

Re: Re: Judge People.... Never

Hello. I don't think we've met.

I'm JL.

You believe we just float through life with no control as to what happens in it?

Hello JL,
I have been reading your posts from afar, Good to finaly get aquainted.

 

[Smiley777]

Hey now, you aren't judging JL based on the fact she is my best friend, are you?



;-)

Never even crossed my mind.

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Re: Judge People.... Never

Hello JL,
I have been reading your posts from afar, Good to finaly get aquainted.

Well, I'm glad to see you got closer and posted in one.

Stop by often.

 

[ithaqua]

Re: Re: Judge People.... Never

Hello. I don't think we've met.

I'm JL.

You believe we just float through life with no control as to what happens in it?

No,
Though the decisions that guide me through life have little or nothing to do with the people in my life. They have to do with money (job), and comfort in the world.

It is true that we have very little control over where life leads us, but we do have some, and that is very important.

 

[christcat69]

the company they keep?

Birds of a feather and all that jazz.

Maybe you don't post to someone on here because they are friends with someone you don't care for.

Or...at work you kinda avoid a few people because you know they hang out with a different crowd.

Do you accept someone based on their friends or who they are to you?

Tell me.
jl

I tend to avoid people that hang with a bad crowd now. Some of my friends got killed and I very well could have been there. My eyes are open to trouble so I try to avoid it. My girl is my best friend. That and my family is all I need.
When it comes to work, I'm nice to everyone but stay out of any drama that may stir up.

 

[LukkyKnight]

Everyone merits an individual decision. I start from the presumption they are entitled to respect. If somebody consistently proves they are, themselves, disrespectful, I lose interest in hearing/reading what they have to say.

 

[modest mouse]

the company they keep?

Birds of a feather and all that jazz.

Maybe you don't post to someone on here because they are friends with someone you don't care for.

Or...at work you kinda avoid a few people because you know they hang out with a different crowd.

Do you accept someone based on their friends or who they are to you?

I'll limit my answer to 'at Lit'.

From my experience, I like people much better off the board. Some i consider a freind of soem sort I rarely cross paths with on teh board, but will converse with off-board.

The people I associate with is a relatively diverse lot at Lit (much more diverse in real life). I assume I judge people mostly for their own standing but there are actions that bother me, those are ususaly tied to soemone at Lit I dont care for, etc. So its not as clean an issue as maybe some would perceive.

There is one person I stopped speeking with because someone they are in a relationship with has proven themselves to be intentionally loose with information.
There are consistencies with those I choose to talk to off-board. Their circle of friends is not one of them.