Do you ever fantasize about being raped?

warmbread

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I've choked and slapped a girl before because it got her off. But we had to talk about it in detail and establish safe words and such before I became comfortable with it.

The action itself never really got me off...but knowing how much it was doing for her was a turn on.

I do enjoy a bit of domination...but I'm still learning how far I can push it and what I am, and am not capable of.
 
safe

roleplay is a safe answer.my g/f had a wardrobe clearout.we had some fun with some old summer dresses.she put them on & had me rip & tear them off her. it led to some great heated frantic sex !
 
It's the most popular fantasy for women, you know. That doesn't mean all, or even most, by the way.

I had friends who had a "service" they provided for a fee to women & men who wanted to be raped ... consensual, but a giant step beyond role play.

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I love it when my wife fight with me when I rape her it's a real turn on, but I have to say we do have a safe word cause I do get carried away lol
 
yes..... When the kids are out of the house for the night or whatever Sir will chase me around forcing my clothes off and making me do unspeakable things. There is a safeword that is a constant in our house so there is always a way I "could" stop things if they way too out of hand but I have never used it. lol :nana:
 
I understand the attraction at an intellectual level. Perhaps because I have been raped, it is not part of my fantasies (either as raper or rapee). :rose: Neon
 
i have "consensual non-consent" fantasies....but i hesitate to call them rape fantasies. Like others, i have been raped, and NOTHING about that was erotic, kinky, or anything i want to relive in any manner...

This is one of those areas that walks a fine line for me between engaging in certain behaviors for fun and engaging in those same behaviors for their therapeutic value...
 
I've got an RP thread wherein I'm apparently raped...but there's only a little violence in the rape, and there's no real danger in it...it's more of a forceful seduction than anything (to use the IC rapist's words ;) ). Anyway...yeah, I've fantasized about it a few times. My g/f's even played it out for me a few times. But the most painful thing about it is just the biting, and that's only love bites and they're just painful enough to be fun. :)
 
neonflux said:
I understand the attraction at an intellectual level. Perhaps because I have been raped, it is not part of my fantasies (either as raper or rapee). :rose: Neon
it's weird that...
the rape fantasy was caused by rape.
i think some people use it as a way to assimilate the experience, others find it repulsive.
 
My ex was raped, and seeing her go through that pain has always made me a little confused about the whole fantasy thing with this. I know it is not something she fantasised about, nor is it something I could do I guess..

But, each to their own :)
 
She really likes the role play

My wife really enjoys this type of role play and I have used handcuffs, blindfolds, and even included a knife after our Halloween party. She went to bed and I cleaned the house, it was about 2am when I walked into the bedroom with a skull mask on and put the knife to her throat and forced her suck my cock and I just grunted. She got really turned in and started playing with herself and just let me push my cock down her throat. After a while I forced her to the floor and entered her doggy and she moaned like she never had sex before. I came in her and went back downstairs to finish the house work and finally at the end of the night she was still playing with herself waiting for round two.
 
HottieMama said:
i have "consensual non-consent" fantasies....but i hesitate to call them rape fantasies. Like others, i have been raped, and NOTHING about that was erotic, kinky, or anything i want to relive in any manner...

This is one of those areas that walks a fine line for me between engaging in certain behaviors for fun and engaging in those same behaviors for their therapeutic value...

Same for me. There is nothing erotic is being attacked. I guess calling it a rape fantasy for me then isn't really true. It is the "consensual non-consent" fantasy you mention with someone I trust.

Ivy :rose:
 
Andraste said:
it's weird that...
the rape fantasy was caused by rape.
i think some people use it as a way to assimilate the experience, others find it repulsive.
I would absolutely have to agree! :rose:
 
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