Do you care if she spits or swallows?

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If you're receiving oral sex and cum in her mouth does it bother you if she doesn't take all of your cum in her mouth? Or even if she does take it all in her mouth, do you feel offended or disappointed when she gets up to spit it out and rinse? I'm also wondering about how men feel about kissing after she swallows... I've always wondered about how men really feel about this. Do you like it? does it make you squeamish? I once had a guy cum on my tits and didn't want to put his mouth near them afterwards. I've never swallowed cum but I have tasted it it on my tongue and it usually doesn't taste pleasant (most likely due to the man's diet). I'm not against swallowing but just haven't felt inclined to do it yet. Lots of questions here but I am curious :)
 
When I was about 18 I remember really not liking a girl kissing me after I came in her mouth.

These days, if I don't get at least half of the cum I will be very dissapointed. Don't care if she wants to swallow or take it in her mouth or not, so long as I get my share. :)
 
I don't think I care if my partner spits or swallows. But what I do desire is for my cock to be inside of my lovers mouth throughout the entire orgasm. After that spitting is not offensive. And I am not at all turned of by my cum. I don't view it as biohazard. And have had it in my mouth many times. :) By the way I swallow. :D
 
depends on mood

Depends on mood i prefer her to swallow to me it shows she is into me, but its hot when she lets it drip out her mouth and all over her tits. I used to be against kissing but if she is willing to let me do it in her mouth who am i do say eww that's gross to kiss her and plus it really turns her on when i do, every guy is different just like women, to many guys want want want, but don't like to give into what she wants as well
 
I am not a big fan of cumming in a woman's mouth unless she is totally for it. Some girls feel obligated to swallow or have it shot in their mouth and it may not be such a turn on to me if they seem like they didnt enjoy it.

But if she is totally into it and loves to do that and lets me know that is what she wants, it can be a huge rush.

If it isnt your up of tea, don't do it.
 
I am not a big fan of cumming in a woman's mouth unless she is totally for it. Some girls feel obligated to swallow or have it shot in their mouth and it may not be such a turn on to me if they seem like they didnt enjoy it.

But if she is totally into it and loves to do that and lets me know that is what she wants, it can be a huge rush.

If it isnt your up of tea, don't do it.

Well said.

I only recently started swallowing, and before that I really didn't like the pressure to do so- I think that kept me away from doing it longer than if he had been more understanding.
 
I m all for whatever the woman wants,

if its swallowing or my favorite

a facial,

but spitting isnt sexy to me,

id rather just cum on her breasts

her spitting kind of makes me feel rejected

like my cum is gross etc,

like if i brushed my teeth right after i ate her pussy,


oh and id love to kiss her after she swallowed or ill cum in her mouth and she can snowball.
 
It does not make difference to me. I'd rather come in another hole anyway.
 
It doesn't matter to me at all, the only thing that bugs me (or would bug me) is if she acted like it was disgusting and she is just barely tolerating it. So, always better to do what you're happy with, ladies.
 
I am not a big fan of cumming in a woman's mouth unless she is totally for it. Some girls feel obligated to swallow or have it shot in their mouth and it may not be such a turn on to me if they seem like they didnt enjoy it.

But if she is totally into it and loves to do that and lets me know that is what she wants, it can be a huge rush.

If it isnt your up of tea, don't do it.

I totally agree. If she wants it then CIM can be super hot and fulfilling for both parties. If not there is no point.

Swallowing, letting it leak out all over me, or sharing it with me in a post CIM kissing session can all be super hot depending on the situation. Again, if she is into it I probably will be too and it is all good.
 
If you're receiving oral sex and cum in her mouth does it bother you if she doesn't take all of your cum in her mouth? Or even if she does take it all in her mouth, do you feel offended or disappointed when she gets up to spit it out and rinse? I'm also wondering about how men feel about kissing after she swallows... I've always wondered about how men really feel about this. Do you like it? does it make you squeamish? I once had a guy cum on my tits and didn't want to put his mouth near them afterwards. I've never swallowed cum but I have tasted it it on my tongue and it usually doesn't taste pleasant (most likely due to the man's diet). I'm not against swallowing but just haven't felt inclined to do it yet. Lots of questions here but I am curious :)
I'd prefer that she have my shaft well lubed (either from her mouth or a jell) and be stroking me at the same time she is sucking. Just as I explode I would rather have her pull me out of her mouth and then stroke me fast and softly as I cum. I had a girlfriend give me a BJ once and shoot in her mouth, then she kissed me and passed some of my cum to me as we kissed. Like you, I didn't like the taste and I think most women feel the same...although I'm sure there are some that love it.
 
The way i look at it is, as soon as she has drained my balls into her mouth, it is no longer my cum, but her cum. So she is free to do whatever she wants with her cum.

My preference is, if she doesn't want to drink it, that she slowly drool it out of her mouth all over her breasts.....then help me massage it into her skin. So hot.

I've never kissed her with a mouth full of her cum, yet. :cool:
 
Without getting explicit like others here I will throw my 2 cents in. My feeling is this: It is her choice and either way I would be fine with it. That is the thing about an equal partnership. A mutual decision always works best.
 
Interesting answers....


But!!!! surely it's not a erotic moment if after your partner has taken all your cum she runs off to the toilet to spit it all away. How would people feel if she took ur cum and then spat it back all over you?

What if its a one nightstand and she spits it all over your bed sheets before she goes home
 
But!!!! surely it's not a erotic moment if after your partner has taken all your cum she runs off to the toilet to spit it all away. How would people feel if she took ur cum and then spat it back all over you?

What if its a one nightstand and she spits it all over your bed sheets before she goes home

Agreed... If she is not comfortable with it in her mouth I don't want it there either.
 
Hmm. There is that. But again I don't sweat shizzle like that. It is what it is basically.
 
Yes... because I'd like to at least cum in her mouth. she can let it dribble down my cock for jeeps sake. :eek::rolleyes:
 
I have always perfered for my girl to swallow. When I first met my current girl she would spit but very shyly . I asked her one day if she had ever swallowed before and she said no but she would like to try. The very first time she did she took all of it and since then it's a mandatory duty . She doesn't want it anywhere else besides deep in her tummy :)
 
I agree with Beck. It really should be a mutual decision between lovers. Afterall she doesn't have to take a cock in the mouth to begin with. If she isn't comfortable with swallowing. I would hope that the both of you are well aware of that before you get to the point of 'where do I deposit this load?" If she isn't a swallower then its a nice visual for him to see his cum on her face or tits.

I on the other hand prefer it in my mouth. While its nice to have a facial I would rather not have cum spurting on my nose and eyes.
 
If you're receiving oral sex and cum in her mouth does it bother you if she doesn't take all of your cum in her mouth? Or even if she does take it all in her mouth, do you feel offended or disappointed when she gets up to spit it out and rinse? I'm also wondering about how men feel about kissing after she swallows... I've always wondered about how men really feel about this. Do you like it? does it make you squeamish? I once had a guy cum on my tits and didn't want to put his mouth near them afterwards. I've never swallowed cum but I have tasted it it on my tongue and it usually doesn't taste pleasant (most likely due to the man's diet). I'm not against swallowing but just haven't felt inclined to do it yet. Lots of questions here but I am curious :)
actually, i like to see it drip down her chin after i cum in her mouth. doesn't matter if she swallows it. sexier if i can see it. i don't have a problem kissing her after either. in fact, i have a fantasy of eating her pussy clean after i cum inside her.
 
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