Do you burn off your frustrations with sex?

[Shy Tall Guy]

I find I do - not so much that I want more sex, but I want a different kind of sex more. When frsutrated or angry, I tend more towards the Dom/rough/raw kind of sexual mood. Not that I would ever hurt anybody beyond voluntary spanking, role playing or something like that, but I definitely find myself wanting to be more in control and less caring what someone else wants - I want it now, and I want it my way. *Grrrr!*

I find that helps burn off the frustration and/or anger.

How about you? Do you ever feel that way?

 

[juicylips]

I had vowed to

stay away from your threads, STG, because they make me think, but then you go and post something intriguing like this


Yes!!! Fucking relieves stress, frustration and insomnia. It is a cure all for most things for me.

Rough sex? You bet! Better to take your aggressions out in the bedroom then in public

Cassidy

 

[Mellon Collie]

*Sigh*

I would not know.

(<---- still a virgin)

 

[lovetoread]

Yes. I find that the best stress reducer is hard and fast sex.

No softness or anything. Just jump in there and go at it. Makes you feel alot better afterwards.

 

[Guest]

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

*Sigh*

I would not know.

(<---- still a virgin)

Don't sigh MC - you have your whole life in front of you - I envy you.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Don't know...

Think I'd go for the soft gentel stuff.... Sex would not be the right thing for me when I'm angery...... I tend to flip out i'd be scared I"d hurt her....

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Re: Do you burn off your frustrations with sex?

STD/g is confused or he is lying.maybe both?

I am going to break my own rule and read/reply to a troll:

YaYa Idiot, you must have flunked reading comprehension in grammar school. Go back and read my post again - slowly.

You must have also read my post about what ticks me off by trying to call me a liar.

Sorry to dissapoint you - but it just doesn't work with trolls; they have no credibility/integrity to start with, so I consider it just so much hot air, especially from a troll who spews out so much pathetic vile and idiocy as you do.

 

[Mellon Collie]

Don't sigh MC - you have your whole life in front of you - I envy you.

How ironic, I would say I envy you for the having the opposite to a certain degree.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

How ironic, I would say I envy you for the having the opposite to a certain degree.

Ahh, but you have it in front of you, yet to experience, and you will experience it, whereas I cannot go back again.

To a certain degree, yes, it is nice to have the experience - would I go back and do it all over again? In a heartbeat - if I could actually do it over and make different choices.

Would I trade places with someone half my age if it meant giving up what I have experienced? Now that is a tough one - sounds like another of my "make you think threads".

I think the answers would be as lopsided as my Love/Sex choice though. For many people it would be a hard choice as we have as many good memories as bad usually. But given the chance at youth again? I would probably take it, even at the cost of not remembering what I know now.

 

[Demian]

Meloncholy

That izn't really a virgin picture of you...The guys in your area would have to be total retards

Shy Tall Duder
You don't sound so shy to me
Hmmmm, you ride a Harley, like rough sex to mellow out...I'm glad they caught the Green River dude...or did they?

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Mellon I know what you mean your around your friends and they are talking about it... you just want to hit them or grabe the next person you see....

Then I just think to myself, well first time is gonna be something i'll never forget (like stg said) It's only going to be experianced once.

So i'd rather wait till i'm ready..... But I still have to agree with you.. I envy others

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Meloncholy

That izn't really a virgin picture of you...The guys in your area would have to be total retards

Or MC is an intelligent young lady who is not in a hurry to lose her virginity to just anybody.

Shy Tall Duder
You don't sound so shy to me
Hmmmm, you ride a Harley, like rough sex to mellow out...I'm glad they caught the Green River dude...or did they?

Demian - I do not ride a Harley and I don't really care to. Lost Cause rides a Harley. We live next to each other, but we are not the same person - he is more the Ren to my Stimpy, or the Duckman to my Cornfed (no that isn't a hidden clue, here on Lit Duckman and CF are both me).

I am more into performance bikes - especially those bikes I can ride just about anywhere, and a Harley is neither of those; most HDs are cruisers for riding down to Alki once a week. Currently I own a BMW and a Suzuki, both fairly capable of going where I want to go.

 

[Mellon Collie]

Re: Meloncholy

That izn't really a virgin picture of you...The guys in your area would have to be total retards

Shy Tall Duder
You don't sound so shy to me
Hmmmm, you ride a Harley, like rough sex to mellow out...I'm glad they caught the Green River dude...or did they?

If you are talking about my av, yes that is a picture of me. As for me being a virgin, it has nothing to do with the guys in my area, you don't know me so please do not be so presumptuous about why I am the way I am.

 

[iann666]

How True

I once had sex with a girlfriend I had been living with about 6 months. And without thinking I took her hard and fast from behind and when it was over and we lay recovering she asked me if she had upset me in some way. In fact it was not her but I had a lousy day at work and the frustration had been carried home with me. I apologised but she said she enjoyed it and I should get pissed off more often so all was well in this instance.
The frightening thing was I was unaware I was taking out my frustration on her.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: How True

The frightening thing was I was unaware I was taking out my frustration on her.

I would not be "rough" or raw with someone if I didn't know they at least wanted it that way sometimes. Some women don't like even the hint of rough/raw sex - so it is best to know each other's limits and desires ahead of time. It's a good thing she liked it - but you both discovered something new and that's cool.

 

[SpanishEyesF]

Frustration as in build up sexual tension .... yes.

Frustration as in angry or upset .... no.


Usually if we are upset at one another by the time we get to the sex part its long gone and its all about that sweet pleasure.

 

[Demian]

Sorry melancholic

I just don't think that is a real picture of you...If you'd really like to talk and not Pose, I'm always here...If that is a real picture, you look too young to be here, like other avs here...

ShyDude

BMW's are cool...so are Harleys...But you sound Scary

 

[Elizabeth]

I find that if it's been a little while since I last had sex, I like the rough stuff alot more. Nothing to hurt anyone, of course. Just the thrusts a little harder and maybe a little more demanding than normal. Because it is a sweet pleasure, I wouldn't want to cloud it by it becoming a "vent"

 

[Summery]

I find that if it's been a little while since I last had sex, I like the rough stuff alot more. Nothing to hurt anyone, of course. Just the thrusts a little harder and maybe a little more demanding than normal. Because it is a sweet pleasure, I wouldn't want to cloud it by it becoming a "vent"

I agree with that completely! I call it 'tension' relieving sex. It is definately something mutual between both people.
Sex helps with not only frustration/tension, also headaches and cramps. Sex may not be a cure all, but it has it's benefits.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Sorry melancholic

ShyDude

BMW's are cool...so are Harleys...But you sound Scary

Boo!

The only people I scare are the Harley riders and the cagers when I pass them in the corners - and myself when I get carried away.

 

[marduk]

I wish i could have sex when im frustrated and angry but its the lack of sex that is making me that way...

 

[iann666]

So right

Sex helps with not only frustration/tension, also headaches and cramps. Sex may not be a cure all, but it has it's benefits.

My first wife swore blind that sex cured her headaches which certainly put paid to the "Not tonight I have a headachce" excuse.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Mellon Collie]

Re: Sorry melancholic

I just don't think that is a real picture of you...If you'd really like to talk and not Pose, I'm always here...If that is a real picture, you look too young to be here, like other avs here...

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