Do you believe that a heterosexual man and woman...

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[MissTaken]

I think it is possible. I am a lousy "best girl friend", but have mostly male friends.

I also think that it is the same with any sort of relationship, if expectations are clear, things will work out.

 

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[Cheyenne]

Yes, it is possible. My best friend in the world is male. He has a wife and family, and his wife knows we are close friends. It doesn't bother her because she knows she is the one he will come home to at night, not me. Sometimes she knows there is something where her husband is more likely to listen to me than to her, and she'll ask for my help in talking to him. I think that is kind of unique- it threw me the first time she did it. She doesn't do it often, but I try to help when she does. I always tell him when I'm doing it though. No secrets.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[Skitten]

Sure it is possible for a man and woman to be just friends, I think it is sometimes easier to be friends with a man they don't get jealous of who you are talking too etc. We have friends that the woman in the relationship gets jealous because her boyfriend says hi to a woman that he knows. Or gives her a hug now I think it is utterly stupid. Now wizzie has lots of friends of the opposite sex and I do not have a problem with it. He always comes home to my bed.

 

[Xander]

Of course it's possible.

Most of my friends happen to be female.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

It is completely posible.

I have 3 male friends and about 10-11 good female friends.
But i live with the rule that i won't hit on friends, so that may be why.
this sounds strange but when i become freinds with a girl she becomes less and less physicly apealing to me. She is still beautiful, but in a new way.

 

[Xander]

I can understand why sometimes, the male/female friendship turns into something more though.

When it does, it is extremely beautiful.

 

[lilminx]

I think it's possible, but I think that the friendship usually starts because one of the people finds the other attractive. I'm friends with more men than women, and I know that all of my male friends have been initially attracted to me. Some of them I dated before we realized we were better off as friends. Now, many of them din't hit on me anymore (while amny of them still do- lol), but we (try to) maintain a platonic friendship.

 

[batter]

most definitely.

i have had some great friends over the years and all were female.
i have some male friends, but not like my female friends for talking to or listening to. people tend to frown on it and think you are having affairs if you have a friend of the opposite sex. why?

i have also lost some of my best female friends because of that.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

it is totally possible.. my best friend is a guy.. as is most of my other friends.. granted the sex issue comes up at least once in awhile.. but its nothing that cant be handled

 

[TonyG]

Yes I do, whether sex enters into it or not.

Nice av btw.

 

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[nasty]

I think it's possible, but if the females is a HOTTIE, it will be HARD!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Xander]

I think it's possible, but if the females is a HOTTIE, it will be HARD!!!!!!!!!!!

I have to disagree with you there Nasty...Its only hard if you want it to be hard.

They can be or so beautiful and all that...but if they are your friends...AND NOTHING MORE.....its not hard at all.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I agree with Xander.

I know some girls that are so sexy guys would sell their souls to be with them. and i'm real comfterble knowing that they are just my friend.

I don't want to make it sound like i'm the onlyone capable of this but, I look beond the physical.

some girls (guys too) can have a knock out body but a real fucking asses, so who wants to be with them anyways. I hang around with the person inside not their bodys so that part really don't matter worth shit.

 

[Spinaroonie]

They can easily be just friends if they don't find each other attractive. Or if only one finds the other attractive, but that can be akward at times (having been on both sides of that)

 

[nasty]

I have to disagree with you there Nasty...Its only hard if you want it to be hard.

They can be or so beautiful and all that...but if they are your friends...AND NOTHING MORE.....its not hard at all.

True, very true. Although, if I have a friend, who's EXTREMELY HOT, I have a hard time not putting them in my list of fantasies. I suspect, if I had a gf, it would be easier.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

True, very true. Although, if I have a friend, who's EXTREMELY HOT, I have a hard time not putting them in my list of fantasies. I suspect, if I had a gf, it would be easier.

Fantacy and reality are two different things. Your dreams are privet you cannot controle your subcontious dreaming isokay so long as it stop there hehe

 

[nasty]

Fantacy and reality are two different things. Your dreams are privet you cannot controle your subcontious dreaming isokay so long as it stop there hehe

Ty, I meant to put it that way.

 

[Xander]

True, very true. Although, if I have a friend, who's EXTREMELY HOT, I have a hard time not putting them in my list of fantasies. I suspect, if I had a gf, it would be easier.

That is all very true...BUT if you have your friend in a fantasy...well if she is friend, and nothing more....DONT TELL HER that you think about boinking the living hell out of her.

I've had friend, and still do, that are so freaking hot...but they dont do a god damn thing to me at all, other than being a friend.

 

[nasty]

I've had friend, and still do, that are so freaking hot...but they dont do a god damn thing to me at all, other than being a friend.

That's why I think if I had a gf, it would be easier. It would divert my attention elsewhere.

 

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psst....Xander?

 

[Rambling Rose]

I have several platonic relationships with men...and I want to fuck every last one of them!