Do you ALWAYS have enema before anal sex or anal masturbation???
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This may sound naive but do most gay/bi men who enjoy anal stimulation through penatration do this? to tell you the truth I'm not even quite sure how an enema takes place .... I know what it's meant to do but I have no idea about the mechanics... although I've enjoyed a few men in my past it was all oral... I have fucked one man but I've never been fucked myself and I've never enjoyed my ass being penatrated with fingers from men or women.... I do however absolutely love my ass being licked and I throroughly wash myself ......
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Nothing like a 'little accident' to put a dampener on things. Unless of course you are into that kind of thing.
I just think it's good manners to be as clean and sweet smelling as possible. Besides enemas feel really gooood.
Nothing like a 'little accident' to put a dampener on things. Unless of course you are into that kind of thing.
I just think it's good manners to be as clean and sweet smelling as possible. Besides enemas feel really gooood.
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go to puckerup.com,there's a section called naal advisor with suggestions and FAQ as well as instructions.There you may found helpful info,and have some ideas cleared as well.
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Yet to try anal sex with him, but i know it will happen soon.
I dread the idea of an accident, but we will be in a hotel room,not sure how it would be possible to manage an enema beforehand. Added to which I have never had one that wasn't for a hospital procedure.
Is a hotel the best place to try and self-administer or do i just pray it will be ok??
Any advice would be welcome.
I dread the idea of an accident, but we will be in a hotel room,not sure how it would be possible to manage an enema beforehand. Added to which I have never had one that wasn't for a hospital procedure.
Is a hotel the best place to try and self-administer or do i just pray it will be ok??
Any advice would be welcome.
You can purchase an enema kit at a local drugstore, or, if you prefer, purchase an anal douche at an adult novelty shop or online. They are reusable if properly sanitized, you can do it yourself and you can be squeaky clean in 5 minutes or less. Also, it helps prep the area for penetration, esp. if you use warm water. A drop of vinegar in a bown of warm water that is squeezed into the anal douche will help sanitize the area as well, making for a more pleasant experience.
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FurryFury said:
I agree.
But do not double dip between the virgina and the anus.
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I'd eat a lot of high fibre cerial, go for a poop before hand, and then use one of the afore mentioned home enema kits to be sure there's no lurkers that got left up there. It might even be something you can enjoy with your partner.
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Question:
"Anal sex has been an unfulfilled curiosity of mine for many years; as a young twentysomething, I was forever intrigued by it. My boyfriend and I have talked about it, and being experienced, he has suggested we try it. I feel extremely comfortable with him, and, aside from anal sex, we have an incredibly open and experimental sex life. I told him I am curious but also hesitant. The thing is, I'm embarrassed to tell him the real reason why because it's seems petty to me. I'm so scared about things getting messy as I've heard some very unappealing stories about bad smells or fecal matter being present. I know that as humans, our bodies have natural functions, but I would be mortified if that happened while we were having anal sex. As it is, I really want this to be something special as it's taken me a long time to find anyone I could trust, and I don't want to be totally turned off if things go haywire.
Scared of the Mess"
Answer:
"Dear Scared of the Mess:
Take a deep breath! Your concern is the most common one I hear about anal sex. The first thing you need is a brief anatomy lesson. During anal penetration with fingers, toys, and penises, the area of your body that we're dealing with is the rectum. The rectum is not a storage facility, so no feces are stored there; it's merely a passageway. Feces move from the colon to the rectum, then out of the body when you defecate. So, if you have a bowel movement before you have anal sex, there should only be trace amounts of fecal matter in the rectum. Now, this is provided that you are a relatively healthy person with a good diet, normal bowel habits, and no gastrointestinal problems. So, if you feel like you have to go, by all means go, because if you don't listen to your body, then you may, in fact, have a mess on your hands simply because you needed to have a bowel movement and you didn't. For those people who are squeamish about "being clean," I recommend an enema. Go to the drug store, buy a Fleet enema, then empty the contents of the bottle and fill it with plain warm water. Fleet enemas contain a laxative which isn't necessary; all you need is warm water. Follow the instructions on the box, and repeat until all that comes out of your ass is clear water. Make sure you have an enema several hours before you plan to have anal sex, since your body needs time to recover. Now, after telling you all about cleaning yourself out, I must quote a fellow anal queen, adult film star Chloe, who says, "Get over your fear of shit!" I am not saying you need to love or even like shit, but you need to let go of your anxieties. The truth is that the more anal play you engage in, the more likely you are to run into it once and awhile, so you might as well just smile, grab a baby wipe, clean up, and move on."
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Question:
"Anal sex has been an unfulfilled curiosity of mine for many years; as a young twentysomething, I was forever intrigued by it. My boyfriend and I have talked about it, and being experienced, he has suggested we try it. I feel extremely comfortable with him, and, aside from anal sex, we have an incredibly open and experimental sex life. I told him I am curious but also hesitant. The thing is, I'm embarrassed to tell him the real reason why because it's seems petty to me. I'm so scared about things getting messy as I've heard some very unappealing stories about bad smells or fecal matter being present. I know that as humans, our bodies have natural functions, but I would be mortified if that happened while we were having anal sex. As it is, I really want this to be something special as it's taken me a long time to find anyone I could trust, and I don't want to be totally turned off if things go haywire.
Scared of the Mess"
Answer:
"Dear Scared of the Mess:
Take a deep breath! Your concern is the most common one I hear about anal sex. The first thing you need is a brief anatomy lesson. During anal penetration with fingers, toys, and penises, the area of your body that we're dealing with is the rectum. The rectum is not a storage facility, so no feces are stored there; it's merely a passageway. Feces move from the colon to the rectum, then out of the body when you defecate. So, if you have a bowel movement before you have anal sex, there should only be trace amounts of fecal matter in the rectum. Now, this is provided that you are a relatively healthy person with a good diet, normal bowel habits, and no gastrointestinal problems. So, if you feel like you have to go, by all means go, because if you don't listen to your body, then you may, in fact, have a mess on your hands simply because you needed to have a bowel movement and you didn't. For those people who are squeamish about "being clean," I recommend an enema. Go to the drug store, buy a Fleet enema, then empty the contents of the bottle and fill it with plain warm water. Fleet enemas contain a laxative which isn't necessary; all you need is warm water. Follow the instructions on the box, and repeat until all that comes out of your ass is clear water. Make sure you have an enema several hours before you plan to have anal sex, since your body needs time to recover. Now, after telling you all about cleaning yourself out, I must quote a fellow anal queen, adult film star Chloe, who says, "Get over your fear of shit!" I am not saying you need to love or even like shit, but you need to let go of your anxieties. The truth is that the more anal play you engage in, the more likely you are to run into it once and awhile, so you might as well just smile, grab a baby wipe, clean up, and move on."
Go visit her site,Great site with lots of infos and great stuff.She've very nice and pretty also.
http://www.puckerup.com
and:
http://www.puckerup.com/324/anal advisor
no feces are stored in the rectum?
someone needs an anatomy lesson. The rectum is pure storage, on the contrary of the rest of the large intestine that has functions of absorption and excretion. When the rectum is full is when we feel the need to defecate.
someone needs an anatomy lesson. The rectum is pure storage, on the contrary of the rest of the large intestine that has functions of absorption and excretion. When the rectum is full is when we feel the need to defecate.
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reviving an old topic...
I have a heightened interest in this whole topic. : -)
From previous surgery, I unfortunately know more about this topic than most. First the anatomy confusion: There are two rectums! The colon behind the inner rectum 'pouches' out as it fills with shit. When it's full, is when you feel the need to defecate.
So yes, the inner rectum holds back shit, and the outer area has just trace amounts in healthy folks. But the distance between the two is probably less than the length of a really big dick.
Regarding shit, as someone pointed out below, get over it. Shit happens. It ain't nothing that soap and water can't clean....especially if you use an anti-bacterial soap such as Dial.
For me, having only begun recently cross dressing and sucking cocks, I'm looking forward to giving up my ass, and have been busy purchasing butt plugs, finger playing, etc....hence reading about enemas. Wikipedia is pretty good on the subject of why store bought 'Fleet' enemas are harsh and shouldn't be used frequently. I'm thinking the old fashioned rubber bag you hang from the shower is the way to go. Warm water, maybe a little soap, maybe a little vinegar is all that is really needed.
Then there's the fun issue of folks who use coffee enemas and such for perceived health benefits.
AND, what about wine enemas? Any one here tried that???
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema
Happy fucking you fuckers!
I have a heightened interest in this whole topic. : -)
From previous surgery, I unfortunately know more about this topic than most. First the anatomy confusion: There are two rectums! The colon behind the inner rectum 'pouches' out as it fills with shit. When it's full, is when you feel the need to defecate.
So yes, the inner rectum holds back shit, and the outer area has just trace amounts in healthy folks. But the distance between the two is probably less than the length of a really big dick.
Regarding shit, as someone pointed out below, get over it. Shit happens. It ain't nothing that soap and water can't clean....especially if you use an anti-bacterial soap such as Dial.
For me, having only begun recently cross dressing and sucking cocks, I'm looking forward to giving up my ass, and have been busy purchasing butt plugs, finger playing, etc....hence reading about enemas. Wikipedia is pretty good on the subject of why store bought 'Fleet' enemas are harsh and shouldn't be used frequently. I'm thinking the old fashioned rubber bag you hang from the shower is the way to go. Warm water, maybe a little soap, maybe a little vinegar is all that is really needed.
Then there's the fun issue of folks who use coffee enemas and such for perceived health benefits.
AND, what about wine enemas? Any one here tried that???
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enema
Happy fucking you fuckers!
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A little bulb syring is all you need and a few minutes in the bathroom.
I really enjoy wine enemas. Be careful though - it's possible to get too much and kill yourself. Start with just a little bit and work up to more.
It gives a nice buzz, and hits you pretty quickly. A glass a wine will make you more drunk in an enema than drinking it (which is why you need to be careful).
There is also a warm, tingly feeling as it goes into your ass.
I've only done it alone - it's fun to get a good buzz and have a nice evening enjoying my body!
It gives a nice buzz, and hits you pretty quickly. A glass a wine will make you more drunk in an enema than drinking it (which is why you need to be careful).
There is also a warm, tingly feeling as it goes into your ass.
I've only done it alone - it's fun to get a good buzz and have a nice evening enjoying my body!
Warning!! Wine Enemas
You need to be VERY careful when playing with wine/alcohol enemas! Because the alchohol is not "processed" by the digestive system, the amount of alcohol absorbed/entering the blood stream is significantly higher.
Further, the reflux (vomit) protection the body employees to protect itself against excessive acholol intake (overdose) does not exist when delivered via enema.
There was a great video of some woman who is a complete train-wreck after giving herself at least one wine enemas. I haven't seen it in years but she was a total mess, to the point that she probably ended up in the hospital. Not very civil to laugh at someone elses "trouble" but (she was also very obnoxious and rude if I remember correctly) sometimes one can't help it under the right situations.
You need to be VERY careful when playing with wine/alcohol enemas! Because the alchohol is not "processed" by the digestive system, the amount of alcohol absorbed/entering the blood stream is significantly higher.
Further, the reflux (vomit) protection the body employees to protect itself against excessive acholol intake (overdose) does not exist when delivered via enema.
There was a great video of some woman who is a complete train-wreck after giving herself at least one wine enemas. I haven't seen it in years but she was a total mess, to the point that she probably ended up in the hospital. Not very civil to laugh at someone elses "trouble" but (she was also very obnoxious and rude if I remember correctly) sometimes one can't help it under the right situations.
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I like a good soapy one, feels so good and I like my hiney to be very clean 
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I love it when his cock or my cock get all shitty, dis to the flavour 
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I'm pretty aware of dangers. I thought I'd start, at home, with half a glass of white wine mixed into warm water.
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I want it to be squeaky clean; same as mine is for you. I take pride in personal hygiene and want to taste delicious in all areas but especially anally. I take a lot of enemas anyway but when I am going to be up close and personal ,I want my scent and taste to be great for you
If I am going to tongue your
I want it to be squeaky clean; same as mine is for you. I take pride in personal hygiene and want to taste delicious in all areas but especially anally. I take a lot of enemas anyway but when I am going to be up close and personal ,I want my scent and taste to be great for you Heavenlybodiesa
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