Do Women like Dick Pics?

[hardcollege4]

I am curious to get your opinions on this and don't worry if you say, "yes I love them!" I won't be sending one.

When I look at my own cock I think, "wow it is a miracle all women are not lesbians, I would not be turned on at all at the sight of this," not that there is anything wrong, it's a perfectly fine penis, but the female body is just so much sexier and I could look at different pictures all day long and never get tired of it.

So, my three part question is does it turn you on to get a dick pic? What would you like to see if not a dick pic? Or are no pictures at all your preference and you'd just like to be dazzled with words alone?

 

[peedrinker21]

no. no one likes them. next question for the Munky

 

[GrrlFriday]

Unfortunately, the beauty of the male body (to women) is not so enshrined in modern culture as the beauty of the female body (to men) is. (Which is a subtly different beast to the beauty of the male body to gay men, and the beauty of the female body to lesbians. And I know that I'm engaging in bi-erasure, pan-erasure and trans-erasure here, but I'm making a sweeping generalisation about 'the heterosexual mainstream'.)

Being able to see a cock can be very sexy and stimulating, regardless of its state - in picture form, you can just take your time and appreciate it for what it is, rather than have to 'say something' to your partner. Mind you, I do hear that if you are, say, a nurse, who sees hundreds or thousands of penises in the line of your work, then penises become just like any other body part to you.

Dick pics, however, rarely come with no strings attached, particularly in a place like Literotica, where people go 'I showed you mine, now show me yours' - when, if given the option, you'd rather never have received the photo which so 'indebted' you in the first place. Also - sometimes you like having a little left to the imagination, sometimes you want to see everything.

When in doubt, go for words first. They can make a great first impression, and create a situation where she *wants* to see your dick.

(And for the love of Pete, please don't create a cockatar.)

 

[Redrosewitch]

I love the human body in general. It's an amazing piece of kit. I like seeing how the make and female bodies differ in all ways. And yes, that includes female breasts and pussy and the male cock.

Do I love seeing cock pics ? Yes I do. I find human arousal fascinating and beautiful. A slick, ripe pussy and a hard cock ready to fit together ( thinking in purely het terms here of course. )

That said, having lots of chat as well does make an online encounter sweeter. I want to get some idea of what's in a guy's brain, otherwise what he has between his thighs loses my interest with great speed.

Other than cock. I'd go with whatever other body parts he's comfortable with showing.

 

[TheSilverLining]

So, my three part question is does it turn you on to get a dick pic? What would you like to see if not a dick pic? Or are no pictures at all your preference and you'd just like to be dazzled with words alone?

1. Yes.
2. I want to see the dick pick.
3. So long as the dazzling words are dick-related, I'm a happy bunny.

And to trot-out my usual answer to this sort of thing:
For me it depends on the owner of said-dick.
I need to know the man. His mind is what makes me tick.
Once he's got my head then - yes - a picture of his cock will certainly have the desired effect.

 

[GrrlFriday]

+1 on the 'whatever body parts he's comfy with showing'. (Although some fellas tend to underestimate their charms.)

 

[Loving50]

I like cock shots that have a seductive feel to them. A picture of the general area with certain things covered by a hand or a guitar or another object can be a huge tease and will keep me wanting more. I have a weakness for men's hands so that just works for me.

I do not like receiving them from men I haven't interacted with to some degree. The cock shot avatars don't do anything for me either but to each his own.

 

[Verycurious18]

Sure dick pic's are nice but there are so many alluring male body parts that seem to go without notice and appreciation. I don't necessarily need to see your dick to get turned on. I would prefer to see it afterwards or be blessed with a a photo of it flaccid. ( not sure why so many men have been reluctant to do so ) it's much hotter if they are confident to show me their un-erect I'm much more willing to put in work to get it where it needs to be. My favorite photo to receive would be hands, more importantly the dominate hand. The mind is a powerful sex organ and I would much rather use it first then anything else. I'll agree with a previous statement, once you have my mind you have me.

 

[GrrlFriday]

It might be that it could be difficult for a man to take a picture of himself 'at rest' when he knows it's going to a lady who is going to use it for personal inspiration? (But I do agree - there is such glorious potential in a cock at repose. And hands are sexy.)

 

[Redrosewitch]

+1 on the 'whatever body parts he's comfy with showing'. (Although some fellas tend to underestimate their charms.)

Yes indeed they do....

 

[Redrosewitch]

It might be that it could be difficult for a man to take a picture of himself 'at rest' when he knows it's going to a lady who is going to use it for personal inspiration? (But I do agree - there is such glorious potential in a cock at repose. And hands are sexy.)

Ohh yes, with you there on hands.

 

[UhlBWett]

Wow!

Very interesting................

 

[GrrlFriday]

Yes indeed they do....

And, really, by the time you're talking to him about 'sharing body parts', you like the guy, and you've usually got a fair idea that you'll like his body too.

 

[hardcollege4]

Thank you so much for all the answers so far, I honestly would have never guessed that a flaccid pic would be something of interest!

 

[TwilightSparkle]

I love dick pics, but not as avatars. I also prefer to interact with the person first and get to the point where I actually care to see their junk.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I am curious to get your opinions on this and don't worry if you say, "yes I love them!" I won't be sending one.

When I look at my own cock I think, "wow it is a miracle all women are not lesbians, I would not be turned on at all at the sight of this," not that there is anything wrong, it's a perfectly fine penis, but the female body is just so much sexier and I could look at different pictures all day long and never get tired of it.

So, my three part question is does it turn you on to get a dick pic? What would you like to see if not a dick pic? Or are no pictures at all your preference and you'd just like to be dazzled with words alone?

1. no
2. chest and strong arms (so full upper body naked)
3. words can be amazing..

 

[blubyuf6]

I would say they like them, I have sent many to 4-5 women and they all seemed to enjoy them, even showing their friends.....

 

[Sheana_V]

Dick pics can be great.
I look at them sometimes for stimulation, so of course.

However guys seem to lack a sense of timing when it comes to dick pics. It is not a cute way to flirt with a potential partner. You can't just go sending pictures of a cock to someone without any context and expect it to be received well.

Honestly I think it's the same for vag shots. I can't send a picture of my vagina to someone randomly and expect that to be an effective pick up. Sure it probably wouldn't elicit the same sort of negative reaction that a random dick pic does, but that's beside the point.

 

[omgitselaine]

Guilty as Charged

 

[hardcollege4]

Dick pics can be great.
I look at them sometimes for stimulation, so of course.

However guys seem to lack a sense of timing when it comes to dick pics. It is not a cute way to flirt with a potential partner. You can't just go sending pictures of a cock to someone without any context and expect it to be received well.

Honestly I think it's the same for vag shots. I can't send a picture of my vagina to someone randomly and expect that to be an effective pick up. Sure it probably wouldn't elicit the same sort of negative reaction that a random dick pic does, but that's beside the point.

Yeah that's very true, vagina pics that are just out there do not have the effect of seeing "her" vagina

 

[Que]

+1 on the 'whatever body parts he's comfy with showing'. (Although some fellas tend to underestimate their charms.)

I've often wondered is SOME of the cock avatar guys WANT people to humiliate them. I'm pretty hetero on the Kinsey spectrum, so maybe I don't know what a nice cock is supposed to look like, but I'm pretty sure some of the ones presented aren't it.

Rule of thumb I think is if your cock in a still shot doesn't look ANYTHING like any dildo ever made in the history of dildo making, I'm thinking maybe you should hold it back.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Sure dick pic's are nice but there are so many alluring male body parts that seem to go without notice and appreciation. I don't necessarily need to see your dick to get turned on. I would prefer to see it afterwards or be blessed with a a photo of it flaccid. ( not sure why so many men have been reluctant to do so ) it's much hotter if they are confident to show me their un-erect I'm much more willing to put in work to get it where it needs to be. My favorite photo to receive would be hands, more importantly the dominate hand. The mind is a powerful sex organ and I would much rather use it first then anything else. I'll agree with a previous statement, once you have my mind you have me.

i could show you the un-erect, i could show you the hand, i could show you the un-erect in my hand.


i don't think you'd be impressed

 

[GrrlFriday]

Thank you so much for all the answers so far, I honestly would have never guessed that a flaccid pic would be something of interest!

Well - it's almost like... 'YOU can change that'. Watching the change, the unfurling and growing, can be quite fascinating. Having a 'before/after' knowledge - with a side order of 'you did this to me....' Well, it can be really something.

 

[Verycurious18]

i could show you the un-erect, i could show you the hand, i could show you the un-erect in my hand.


i don't think you'd be impressed

I would be impressed that you had enough courage to show me!


It's not the sight I'm interested in, it's the fact that you are able to still keep your pride and ego while allowing me to view your most intimate parts when flaccid. The fact that they trust me enough to see them knowing I could easily laugh or make a snide comment. Of course they would know I wouldn't, it a bit more intimate and there for makes the situation much hotter. They are also more likely to get more out of me.

 

[policywank]

Dick pics can be great.
I look at them sometimes for stimulation, so of course.

However guys seem to lack a sense of timing when it comes to dick pics. It is not a cute way to flirt with a potential partner. You can't just go sending pictures of a cock to someone without any context and expect it to be received well.

Honestly I think it's the same for vag shots. I can't send a picture of my vagina to someone randomly and expect that to be an effective pick up. Sure it probably wouldn't elicit the same sort of negative reaction that a random dick pic does, but that's beside the point.

When we see pics of naked women and their body parts it is usually a high quality pic of an attractive well groomed woman. Apply the same standard to men and yes it is very sexy.

It doesn't have to be all professional quality pics. The authenticity of an amateur spontaneous shot will offset the imperfections of reality.

However, pasty, unkempt and covered in pimples is not attractive in any gender.

Women know that much as we are sought after there is a standard of personal grooming and fitness that is necessary to be physically attractive. Apply the same standard to men and take those pics.