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[phoenix1105]

Any think like remorse, guilt or that general type of emotion? I typed up one day last week what happened when I went to buy bras and panties...Basically, I said they I was at the store for my wife, and that I could never get her size right., and told the manager(who was helping me if she could tie the back of a corset so I could learn to do it. we were about the same size. I politely asked if I could try it on. I had stalled till the store was just about empty before I asked. I got back there. Ok thing led to another and it ended up she had me dressed in lingerie, which was good at the time) Sh then told me t come back on Monday to try some more I guess. I didn't go just because whenever I act on my fantasies, I feel like I am doing something wrong, or immoral or something.

Even when I masturbate at home with women's clothes I feel really excited at first, then after I am done it just seems wrong to get off that way. One on level I think it is ok because I am not hurting anyone else. I am hoping that the more I hear other people on here with issues of acceptance talk about it, I will fell more secure. Does any of that make sense to anyone?

 

[iswallowloads]

I used to feel guilty about my cock sucking fantasy, and felt a little bit of remorse after I finally tried it. It's hard to completely shed society's ideas about right and wrong - no matter who you are. Anybody that claims to not care AT ALL about what people think are lying, to you and themselves. It's just the way our society is structured. From day one we're brainwashed into wanting to be accepted, loved and approved by others. The trick is to find out if that's the root of your guilt. Once I looked at it that way, I never felt anything but joy, satisfaction and even a little pride after going down on a guy.

On the other hand, if you're feeling guilty about stepping out on your wife, that's a whole different issue.

 

[phoenix1105]

Thanks for that perspective. here is the somewhat commical part I frgot and left out. I'm not married, nor do I have a girl in my life. I just use that as an excuse if anyone asks...

 

[iswallowloads]

I've used that as an excuse many times, but I have a girl now so I can say it with honesty!